well the i guy i was with is now with some one else and the girl so dont even worry a bout thats and thats the one thing i love most and to day is my birth day and i just want to cry....i love him and i all way will...
2007-04-20 01:45:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a really difficult time for you. I am sorry---and Happy Birthday too. How do you let go????? You just have to. It's not easy in any way at all. I just found out my husband who I love more than anything in the world has been cheating on me. I cry all the time. But at least I'm letting it out. I want to be with him, but not if that is the kind of person he is. He hurt me more than I thought was ever possible. Sounds like thats where you are too. If he doens't care about you, you don't want to be with you . You deserve someone who cares and will be there for you when you are hurting. My dad once told me after I had a guy break up with me, It hurts now and seem unbearable, but there are other fish in the sea and you are young. Don't let this get you down. So I say the same to you. Things look bad now but over time it will get better and you will be okay. Just don't get bogged down with this. I hope you have some friends you can go out with and distract yourself with. Sitting around dwelling on it will only make you feel worse. Good luck and hang in there.
2007-04-20 01:54:36 · answer #1 · answered by dana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The hardest part about life is when you love someone and then move on to someone else. there is no easy answer for what you are feeling. In time your feelings will fade but right now it will hurt and the pain, anger and tears will come. You need to release what you are feeling and let it out. Your heart will always hold him in a special way. What you need right now is something to keep you busy like a favorite hobbie, go out with friends go on a trip do something for yourself and know he is the one that lost you you did not lose anything
2007-04-20 08:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by bbinqueens33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is often said that time heals all wounds. There is some truth to that. Knowing you need to let go is a great step in itself. Try to keep yourself busy and not spend to much time in sorrow. Grief is part of the natural process. Take some long walks. Try to focus your attention on your breathing and your surroundings when walking. This little process can really be effective. I wish you only the best.
2007-04-20 08:52:33 · answer #3 · answered by david42 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happy Birthday! I hope you feel better and also that you find someone nice who loves you as much as you love him.
2007-04-20 08:50:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anpadh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happy birth day Haley, don't cry for one who is not worth it..be happy to get rid of him and find someone honest..
2007-04-20 08:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by gentle m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happy Birthday, I think... Can't really decipher the rest of your question.
2007-04-20 08:48:56 · answer #6 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon your confuse.. You let him go because he is with someone else.. the end.
2007-04-20 08:50:10 · answer #7 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he left you for someone else, its time to move on as he has done.
2007-04-20 08:50:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to realize that he was not right for you and that you WILL meet someone better.
2007-04-20 08:49:41 · answer #9 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grief......... you will move on when you are ready.
2007-04-20 08:48:23 · answer #10 · answered by Chica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋