Family & Relationships - 20 April 2007

my best guy mate is called tom. he is so flirtatious and i love being around him as he makes me feel better andi flirt back. i was always told by friends that he liked me more than mates. and soon i realised i liked him back. i have been thinking for months about him. i see him every week and i cant get over him. i love bein mates with him. and i dnt waant to lose that. but i keep imagining pulling him. wot do i do? if he was to ask me out wot would i say. yes but promise me we can still be friends after? aint that imposible? please help me i dnt know wot to do and i dont want to lose him xxxx

2007-04-20 07:02:08 · 11 answers · asked by frankie! 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to invite all of mine and my fiance's friends and family but the reason why we are going away is b/c we want something with no stress and carefree. However if people can come we dont have the funds to pay for plane tickets, or hotel accomodations. I cant figure out how to word the invitations to ask them to come but let them know they have to pay...

2007-04-20 07:02:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Just curious about extremes either way.
(I have an older boyfriend and it has me curious if others have done it with older/younger partners)

2007-04-20 07:02:08 · 20 answers · asked by Heather 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in luv with a guy. He is working with me. In office i am senior in job posting than him . But he will talk to me very friendly. While v r chatting, he used to tell " U will marry a person who is in higher posting like you". I didnt express my luv till now. I dont know he too is in luv with me or not. please suggest any idea to find

2007-04-20 07:01:47 · 3 answers · asked by suchi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Yeah I know Heart asked this question a long time ago, but hey, there is one person out there who knows I'm directing this at them... Yes, you.

2007-04-20 07:01:24 · 10 answers · asked by doublewidemama 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I would like a woman's opinion on why women talk about wanting men to open up more, be more upfront, show or of a caring side even as just friends yet almost always it seems when a guy tries to do that it changes things, makes things different, becomes complicated, he's after something, or there's suddenly pressure? I have female friend I admit I care for whom I haven't seen often & a while back was going through some rough times. She'd talk about being unhappy, off track for sometime, not herself, missing me, our friendship, thinking of me even when in a " happy committed" relation let alone when that relationship didnt work yet how alone she feels even as busy as she claimed to be or around all these friends she supposeably had yet thank me for caring, complaint about my needing to learn to open up, tell me while she's going through all these things & feeling alone how nice it is to know someone cares yet as much as she claims to want to hangout or miss a friend she's know for years

2007-04-20 06:58:36 · 12 answers · asked by bpeter3196 5 in Singles & Dating

She even tried to pierce my ear with a nail!

2007-04-20 06:57:51 · 15 answers · asked by aj8005reader 1 in Friends

My fiance is Daniel ____ III. On the invitation, is it proper ettiquitte to spell out the third or just use Roman numberals? Same question for junior/senior?

2007-04-20 06:57:31 · 7 answers · asked by red 2 in Weddings

He's been telling me to tatooe his name in my arm for almost 6months. He said if i tatooe his name he would tatooe my name. I told him a lie that i already tatooed his name then i told him the truth that i didn't. But he still tatooed my in his arm in big Black Old English letters and he still wants to take me to tatooe his name. How should i make him understand that i dont want a tatooe?

2007-04-20 06:56:33 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok my dad has been acting very very weird for a few weeks now and all he talks about is this girl he works with and yesterday(4/19/07) my mom and i heard him talk to her and he said "i love you baby" really fast, and this morning he didn't come home (he's useully home when i wake up for school which is at 6:30 a.m.) but he got home at like 7 something. do you think my mom and i are right? do you think he is cheating on her?

2007-04-20 06:56:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Everytime I get a date with a female they get to know me and after awhile we make woopie the after that they only want to contact me when they need some good sex or money why can't I find a good honest woman who wants me for love and a life long commitment

2007-04-20 06:53:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to do something special, but not spend more than $15-$20

2007-04-20 06:53:18 · 16 answers · asked by Amanda A 2 in Weddings

I have been friends with this guy for going on six months. We use the title "best friends" because neither one of us are ready for a relationship, but we have been physical with eachother (no sex, just making out). But the friendship aspect is stronger because it is long distance (he lives in VA I live in MD). I have caught feelings for him but haven't really expressed them. I told him the other night that we should be just friends and nothing more because we're not married and after we promised eachother that we would stop making out, he told me he loves me. Then he started telling how great he thinks I am and stuff like that. I dont know wether to believe it or not. I guess because I never had a guy love me before, we're only 22. Should I question his motives or is it highly likely that he really loves me? I wanna believe that he does because he has said it before in a more casual way and because he always tells me how great he thinks I am, but this time it was more formal.

2007-04-20 06:51:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-20 06:50:41 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-04-20 06:47:29 · 24 answers · asked by Forest Breeze 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this condition called Turner syndrome ( Google it ) and I told the guy Ive been E Mailing that I had it and he hasnt E mailed me back. I expected this does this happen to anybody else? I am sick and tired of it!!!!!!!!!!!! It hurts me really bad and I dont think I deserve that!!!!!!

2007-04-20 06:47:03 · 35 answers · asked by Butterfli a 2 in Singles & Dating

We want to stay in England, UK in October for two nights. Not too expensive but it has to be nice. We love quality food and wine. Cleanliness and peace are a must! We live in a seaside town so somewhere a bit different would be good. Don't want to stay in a B&B as want independence. Romance is high on the agenda! Someone must have a favourite hotel that would be perfect for us. Please help!

2007-04-20 06:45:56 · 2 answers · asked by Chelle 1 in Weddings

do you have a girl friend? i'm 17 from Hudson , Wis and I'm a junior in high school... I luv todo many thing....

2007-04-20 06:45:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-20 06:44:19 · 17 answers · asked by shanika j 2 in Singles & Dating

i feel like im going to die at times. I thought I had a high self esteem and considering im quite popular with the opposite sex I never feared rejection, now im not sure. I wont continue until I get what I want. How do i deal? How do I move on or should I try to figure out some way to get them, let me know some ideas.

2007-04-20 06:41:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I sat down last night and had a heart-to-heart conversation about him not trusting me and me feeling violated everytime that he breaks into my private stuff (ie, cell phone, e-mail, etc). Basically, I told him that I can no longer trust him b/c he violates my privacy and he cant trust me w/o doing that. B/c we are both strong-headed about this, we are at a stand still and I dont know what to do. I love him dearly but I cant keep having my privacy intruded upon like this. During our converstion he brought up the "d" word (Divorce) and I told him that I didnt think that we expended all of our opitions yet (ie, counseling). It's becoming more and more difficult for him to set up an appt for us b/c of his job status (he's Military and on PRP). What should I do in the mean while? I've tried my hardest to be there for him but I also need him to be there for me and all I'm getting is "eh..." What should I do? Is there anything I can do at this point?

2007-04-20 06:41:16 · 11 answers · asked by Chybabi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-20 06:41:02 · 7 answers · asked by La Bomboncito73 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i invited this guy out and when he didn;t show up he said he thought we planned it for another day even though i made it clear it was last night! my questions are what should he have done, call me and apologize? should i wait? call him and talk about it, or ask him out again? (it wasnt a date just with friends somehwere) thanks! i rly like this guy i don t know what to do and i dont wanna screw up!

2007-04-20 06:40:31 · 4 answers · asked by . 2 in Singles & Dating

okay i hiiked my ex up with my friend cuz i thought i was over him but i guess im not we were in love and he still loves me but i hooked him up with my friend and they have known each other for ten years but she didnt know that until they started talking she says she likes him a lot i want to get back together with him

2007-04-20 06:40:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ihave been married for 28 yrs and have 4 young grand kids my husband works most of the time but wen hes finished he goes streight to the pub .6 days a week.Iam not a bad looking woman for my age as Ihave a few admirers but my husband dosnt seem to care all he wants is the booze should i leave him ?.

2007-04-20 06:39:55 · 34 answers · asked by intreaging_lovelylady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How can I convince him when it is like he already made up his mind???? I want one so bad I know ALOT of my friends go on and I have told him that and the guy I like goes on there and I could talk to him if I get one and it seems like alot of fun but my dad really hates the idea but it is all I want fo rmy b day and I can't convince him I have had people back me up but he doesn't change his mind. How can I convince him? He is not easy to re-convince.

2007-04-20 06:38:35 · 14 answers · asked by Kiana 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i think it's the guys that gives mixed signals that drives girls crazy. i like this guy, and he gives me mixed signals all the time. he talks to me and seems like he wants to go out, and doesn't plan anything at all later on. then when we finally get to go out, he doesn't talk very much to me. he seemed like he wanted me to go to this movie and even asked me whether his movie choice was ok, and that we could watch something else if i wanted to, even though there were 4 of us. i am really happy he asked me out, but what is he trying to say?
to add a little to him, he's stood up for me, gives me encouragement, asks me whether i'm okay, shares his food with me, tells me about himself and family, goes on break with me when we were working.

what do i do with mixed signals? what is he saying? is he not interested at all?

2007-04-20 06:38:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife gets in a mood and threatens to leave me and then like a day later everything is ok. We are fine. Does she just say that because she knows it hurts? I am a little lost. We have 3 kids together and have been married for 4 years.

2007-04-20 06:37:22 · 20 answers · asked by Some SoCal Dude 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my kids very intimadated when they out, its because mothers fell out she was always askin me fo money, other neighbours warned me but it was too late. I am sitting in my sittinroom and they come ring the bell and stare in the window.Iam at my wits end and dont know what to do.

2007-04-20 06:36:16 · 21 answers · asked by Busybee yep! 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

how can i get rid of my shyness so i dont be COMPLETELY shy around my bf whose comin to where i am 2marrow???? my bf geovanny is comin to see me tomarrow & i know im gonna completely shy around him cuz thats how i am around guys. how can i get comfortable real quickly. this is the first time i will ever meet someone like this. im nervous as hell!!!!! HELPPPPPPPPPP

2007-04-20 06:36:08 · 8 answers · asked by inlovebabe1591 2 in Singles & Dating