i think it's the guys that gives mixed signals that drives girls crazy. i like this guy, and he gives me mixed signals all the time. he talks to me and seems like he wants to go out, and doesn't plan anything at all later on. then when we finally get to go out, he doesn't talk very much to me. he seemed like he wanted me to go to this movie and even asked me whether his movie choice was ok, and that we could watch something else if i wanted to, even though there were 4 of us. i am really happy he asked me out, but what is he trying to say?
to add a little to him, he's stood up for me, gives me encouragement, asks me whether i'm okay, shares his food with me, tells me about himself and family, goes on break with me when we were working.
what do i do with mixed signals? what is he saying? is he not interested at all?
2007-04-20 06:38:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He likes you. He just dnt know how 2 show it
2007-04-20 06:42:55 · answer #1 · answered by Shiori Hitsugaya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It certainly seems that he likes you lots and is very interested in you. The behaviour you have described sounds to me like he is just very shy and obviously quite nervous. I am assuming that you have not properly kissed one another yet. That could also be playing on his mind. I think you should try to be patient with him and just wait for him to make a move on you. If you really like him, then just ask him out as a twosome not with other people and see what he says. If he likes you, he will jump at the chance of going on a date with you. Good luck, because you are going to need it, the shy ones take forever lol.
2007-04-20 14:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by misshoneybun28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really likes you by the sounds of it as the things he's said/done for you sound like how my fiancee was with me before we finally got it together after weeks of kidding each other and everyone else we were just "good friends". In the end i just asked him straight if he liked me or just thought of me as a good friend and weve been happy together ever since. Hint, if he asks about your well being frequently and also askes about your family or past experiences and takes a genuine interest it's usually not just that he's being nosey.
2007-04-20 13:47:44 · answer #3 · answered by Clare S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when you are not dating, you are seeing the natural guy. Under dating conditions, he is getting nervous. He must really like you a lot. I remember being a teen-age boy. I finally got to go out with this girl that I really liked and was a friend. When we had our date, it was not very special, because I was worried what she was thinking about me under those conditions. It sounds immature...and is, but that is what being a teen is about. ANXIETY! Just read all these questions that seem rather absurd and trivial to adults.
2007-04-20 13:44:29 · answer #4 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The mixed signals may be going both ways. Do you reciprocate in some way when he does nice things for you? Does he have any way of knowing that you're interested in him? Sometimes guys can be nervous if they are unsure.
2007-04-20 13:44:58 · answer #5 · answered by Siddler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't see how his signals are mixed at all. he is acting like a boyfriend it seems. it's obvious he likes you but if he asks you to go out and doesn't plan anything its probably cuz he wants you to plan something. it can get pretty tiring being in charge of the plans all the time.
2007-04-20 13:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by Arraya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we tend to behave that way to women that we respect and deeply feel attached to......trust me as your reading this he's got all the guys over plotting the best scenario for a positive approach......but if you want him to speed up the process don't ignore him(it puts him under more pressure to do something)...but instead say things that maybe common to everyone but meaningful to him,so by singling him out he feels you listen to him in particular...this is very important!
but really the qeustion you are asking is (how long do i have to wait)....not long believe me!
good luck and maintain your dignity
2007-04-20 14:23:49 · answer #7 · answered by lucky 7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might just want to be friends. But he could just be really shy, and maybe he thinks you don't like him in that way. You should probably just ask him casually like "Wouldn't it be funny if we went out?" See how he reacts, and then you'll know how he feels. Good Luck.
2007-04-20 13:43:27 · answer #8 · answered by ♥KP♥MH♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
with him telling you so muc he does like you but is he shy? has he been hurt in the past? maybe he is trying to feel it out before you two think about getting serious. just go ask a close guy friend of yours. thats my solution one of my best friends (since we were like 6) is a guy i go to him when im confused about men and visa versa
2007-04-20 13:48:37 · answer #9 · answered by DP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what he's doing or trying to do. I would just recommend sitting down with him and talking to him about it. Hopefully, there is no reason why the two of you can't be adults about your feelings. Hope that helps
2007-04-20 13:44:55 · answer #10 · answered by c_fubu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i think that he does like you but he sounds sort of shy. like he wantes to tell you how he feels about you and can't get the words to come out. kind of like my boyfriend. he's amazing prolly the coolest guy i've ever known and he is always there for me but he hardly ever talks to me on the phone. i found out later he likes to be face to face with the person he's talking to. but anyways he's sort of shy and does stuff like that. so maybe the guy really likes you.
2007-04-20 13:44:51 · answer #11 · answered by shadowsgirl24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋