my kids very intimadated when they out, its because mothers fell out she was always askin me fo money, other neighbours warned me but it was too late. I am sitting in my sittinroom and they come ring the bell and stare in the window.Iam at my wits end and dont know what to do.
2007-04-20 06:36:16 · 21 answers · asked by Busybee yep! 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have been here you need to phone the police and ask to speak to the community policeman in your area. He will be able to talk with the kids and your neighbour
All else fails phone the council if she is in a council house and they send the environment officer round due to noise and disturbance.
Good luck xx
2007-04-20 06:42:27 · answer #1 · answered by timeluckwish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have lived in my house for nearly 4 years, when we first moved here we had a similar problem, the next door neighbours wife left him with his 2 young teenage boys, he would play music so loudly it would wake up all of us including my 6 yr old at 2 am, we tried asking him nicely but he would get violent he was often stoned and giving stuff to his kids, the children also were nasty to my son and when i confronted them they were abusive, they ended up constantly knocking on the door and running off and banging on the walls, once they even shot at our front door with a BB gun. we were constantly reporting them to the council, to the environmental health, in the end my partner tried one last time to ask him nicely and the man got violent, unfortunately for him my partner does judo and floored the man several times in self defence, although we were lucky that my partner could defend himself ultimately it was the police and his landlord getting so many complaints from us and other neighbours that got him evicted and our problem sorted, find out if anyone else is fed up with the problem you have and see if they will complain too. GOOD LUCK!
2007-04-20 19:51:36 · answer #2 · answered by missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to these kids and tell them that they are not allowed to ring your bell after a certain time. If they persist, call the police, that will either set off a neighborhood war or keep them far away. It's obvious that their mother won't do anything.
2007-04-20 13:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call police, turn on some soothing music in kids room till they go to sleep. I'd move and learn the lesson about neighbors: slowly get to know them and put up boundries about dropping in. You might find out if they are renters as you can notify owners that they are ofensive, and noisey early pms. Demanding they do something about tentants.
2007-04-20 13:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each town or city or county or township depending (how where you live is zoned) has a sound ordnance in place; and you can call the police about this and they will take care of it.
I had a similar problem with a neighbor who has a hot-rod that he would rev up early in the morning and late at night. I called and spoke with the police about our sound ordinance etc. So when he violates it I can call.
2007-04-20 13:42:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First tell the kids not to come to the house after 8:00 or even 7:30 because your kids go to bed. Tell them you will not answer the door and don't come. Then just don't answer the door. They should get the hint after a while.
2007-04-20 13:40:33 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
These kids need to learn some manners..
Talk to their parents and tell them to keep certain restrictions related to u..
If they still disturb, ask help from ur landlord or any power person in neighbourhood..
If the problem still exists, discuss it with cops..
Kids will be kids but if they disturb ur privacy u need to do something.. Try to get most hassle-free solution..
2007-04-20 13:45:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the parent. Let them know how you feel and that they need to keep it down after a certain time since your kids are trying to get to sleep. If this doesn't work then get a restraining order so they'll stay away.
2007-04-20 13:41:48 · answer #8 · answered by Bunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive gotta the perfect answer for this sister, but i need to know what ur asking , if ur askin how to get the neighbors kids in bed at the sametime as urs do, then listen ejust one day bump music in ur house for upto what 1 in the morning next morning theyll come and complain so u tell them whats on ur mind
2007-04-20 13:41:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Disconnect the wire to your doorbell or install a cut-off switch, put up some room darkening curtains and get on with life. You cannot control children who are not really doing anything wrong but playing... but you can control your own actions.
2007-04-20 13:43:17 · answer #10 · answered by Bob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋