2007-04-20 06:44:19 · 17 answers · asked by shanika j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ha! I know EXACTLY what you mean. I am 5'4 and have the same "problem". It doesn't matter what you wear, you can't hide it. You just have to be selective and careful of a guy's reasoning for approaching you. You will come acroos a lot of the ones who are approaching you for just that alone, but then some will be geniune. You are just going to have to weed thru them. Good luck!
2007-04-20 06:59:03 · answer #1 · answered by Keetta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have the attractive part down. Now demand some respect and force them to see your personality by rebuffing these dogs. Don't waste your time with any guy who's interested in the proverbial one thing. You have more to offer and someone who appreciates your whole package is out there for you.
Of course, it needs to be said that dressing suggestively is only going to exacerbate your grief. Don't emphasize that which drives the men crazy.
2007-04-20 13:49:26 · answer #2 · answered by J P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becareful in what you show them. If youre dressing in ways that show off what you have... men will pick up on that. Your outward appearance says alot about you. Like the other poster said, trying downplaying your assets. It's nothing to be ashamed of, but the attention you get is.
2007-04-20 13:50:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mention how you dress but if guys are paying a lot of attention to your bottom its because you wear things that accentuate that part of your body. Stop wearing the Apple Bottom jeans for a day and try a dress instead and see if it makes a difference.
2007-04-20 13:51:57 · answer #4 · answered by KoKo.Licious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's just me. I have never been able to see someones personality. I do see the beautiful eyes or the nice hair or the nice figure. It takes these things to attract me or anyone else. After awhile I see the personality then I decide if I'll stay or if I'll go.
2007-04-20 14:14:06 · answer #5 · answered by crankydad_9999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may not show them your personality you may show off your body more. Watch what kind of clothes you wear if you dont want the attention. You could also start meeting people sitting down hahahahaha
2007-04-20 13:56:17 · answer #6 · answered by BOSSHOG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love me for who i am, not for what I can give, or what i possess.
Try downplaying the body a bit if you believe that is what is causing people not to notice you in the way you want them too.
Bigger clothes, or more cover in areas men tend to notice first.
2007-04-20 13:51:00 · answer #7 · answered by shadycaliber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the size of your booty is your prob, try not revelling it by a low cut dress or t-shirt... and ont wear something tight... if u dont look lustful, your personality takes over
2007-04-20 14:30:57 · answer #8 · answered by Matthew 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because we don't care about your personality.
You might as well ask water not to be wet. Men are visual creatures, we are just made that way. Instead of complaining, you should use it to your advantage...or would that be too smart of a thing for you to do?
2007-04-20 13:50:28 · answer #9 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, the first thing you mentioned was your appearance, so clearly thats your first priority. Maybe you should focus more on your personality. I'm sure your involved in something. Just make it evident your involved. Like in sports or dancing or something.
2007-04-20 13:48:45 · answer #10 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋