Family & Relationships - 20 April 2007

They both seperated from each other as her husband used to beat him & insult him very much.So she left the house. My fr also had a daughter 8 year old who lives with her father.My fr has a kid of 15 mon who lives with her, born after they got seperated. Her husband says that she is not her kid and if she want to join him than she has to leave that kid.My fr is so sad as she was preganant when she left him and he is her real father. But my fr is so much fedup of her husband that she is illing for divorce and nothing less.BUt man is not giving it?Can she have divorce from him instantly so that she can get settled and have happy future.Kindly advice.?

2007-04-20 10:23:11 · 10 answers · asked by ashuji77 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this is not to stir anyone up just want to know you thoughts

2007-04-20 10:21:55 · 14 answers · asked by Jerrell B 1 in Singles & Dating

can older people be always right ?
coz i'm having a problem with my parents and feeling like i'm right! please!

2007-04-20 10:21:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have a friend (Deepa) who have one boy friend (Amit).They have been friends (been loved) for about 3 years.
at night suddenly he calls her and says her that he likes her best friend (Anita) & also says that he want to propose her (Anita).
NOW PLEASE TELL ME IS HE PLAYING TRICKS ON HER OR HE IS JUST A SICO KIND OF PERSON.

2007-04-20 10:21:04 · 14 answers · asked by soumya s 1 in Friends

Can a cheater go straight, or will they always cheat on their partner? What are the thought on that?
Also, should they be given second chances?

2007-04-20 10:20:45 · 32 answers · asked by ☼ Latina Loca loves Yayo ☼ 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I was sitting in class and i look over and this boy is staring at me. I used to like him but i haven't talked to him since december...I'm sitting there trying to get my friends attention and he says,"Your tongues blue" Like what the heck...I saw him looking at me at least 5 times today and this is weird because im not the girl every guy wants to look at. He used to like my friend and my friend and I hug all the time. Does anyone know what he's thinking?

2007-04-20 10:18:43 · 5 answers · asked by Amanda B 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is great in all aspects, the sex is great and all, but I am afraid he is not a great kisser. We have been together for a few years now... and it might be forever. But how do I teach him to kiss more tenderly and passionately? Well he definitely is passionate, but there are other ways I like better...
Is it just me? Am i too demanding?
Any help appreciated!

2007-04-20 10:16:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend always follows me around, but not in a type of way as stalking. Everybody in my grade thinks he has a big crush on me. But he sas he has a crush on a girl named Elizabeth. His description made them both sound like they look a like. There's also been things that has caused me to believe he has a thing for blondes but I'm brown. But then, he also offers me the more comfier seats and copliments me often. He tells me a lot of stuff and he says he wants to know everything about me. Does he have a cush on me, or are we just friends?

2007-04-20 10:14:27 · 15 answers · asked by Bumble Bee 2 in Singles & Dating

can this relationship survive, he already has a wife n 14 year old kid, can we still some someday have a family of our own and live peacefully.

2007-04-20 10:13:25 · 13 answers · asked by starsparkles 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been going out with this guy for a couple of months hes become clingy and he tells me he loves me all the time and ive never said it back. i havnt been attracted to him for a while now. we have just never clicked even though he dosnt seem to notice this. i need to know what to say him without making him really upset and how to do it right.

2007-04-20 10:06:10 · 7 answers · asked by kissmeimirish 2 in Singles & Dating

i know im a male but i felt like i couldnt do anything about it its mostly my classmates making fun of me jumping on my sholders(literally)it hert me because i felt like crap when im beeing called names what should i do.please this is serious

2007-04-20 10:03:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-04-20 10:02:05 · 35 answers · asked by june_07_bride 1 in Weddings

How do I take his attention away from his girlfriend and put all his attention on me?
Lose a few pounds? Were cute clothes?
I know it's about in what is in the inside but you get other people attention first with looks.

2007-04-20 09:58:34 · 12 answers · asked by Katy J 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-20 09:57:34 · 2 answers · asked by I love dooneys 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Tell me so!

2007-04-20 09:56:51 · 26 answers · asked by Christina F 1 in Singles & Dating

i think if there was more hugs there wouldn't be as much violence in school what do you think?

2007-04-20 09:55:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So tell me, if you meet someone after a few months of talking and have a great time, think all is well and then in the weeks to follow contact is not as often from one person ( busy with work is the excuse) is that a nice way of keeping just enough contact that you not feel bad that its not there for them or over thinking and all is fine? When a guy wants to break it off do they still want to do that? Maintain contact so you feel better but keep it at arms length or if not interested would they cut contact all together? Very confused?

2007-04-20 09:52:23 · 6 answers · asked by Bebe 2 in Singles & Dating

and should i be upset cause hes also going out tonght?im upset but dont no if i should be i mean its only 6 months but htsat still along time. everyother boyfriend has done something special.

2007-04-20 09:50:42 · 19 answers · asked by fairy 1 in Singles & Dating

My father in law tells this true story as though it is a great joke, I find it deplorable.
After the birth of her 3rd child, my inlaws were told they should not have more children as her pregnancies were very difficult. He would not allow her to have surgery as it would be risky.
On the day my f-i-l was to get snipped he met a friend and went to the bar instead, never telling his wife. She found out when 4 months later she was pregnant. She went on to have 7 children total the last one nearly killing her and the baby needing a blood transfusion right after birth.
Like I said he tells this story and roars with laughter...what do you all think of his behaviour.
Can you tell this is not my favourite person.

2007-04-20 09:47:02 · 15 answers · asked by Choqs 6 in Marriage & Divorce

He claims to love the person I am and my heart but says that he wouldn't "notice" me in a public place before we had met. I have NEVER encountered anything like this. I am not ugly by any means & I have Never had a problem meeting people or with men finding my attractive. I truely think he loves me but how could this really work. We don't have any problems intimately right now but what will happen later. Will he cheat with someone he DOES notice? I just don't see how it could last. And I deserve to be with someone that is attracted to me. He treats me great, he is very nice, caring, sweet and we never fight. Next month will be our one year anniversary and are talking about engagement. I am scared that a relationship where one is not completely attracted to the other just won't work.

2007-04-20 09:46:52 · 29 answers · asked by misbotta 4 in Singles & Dating

only i kinda am. Im 17. I don't remember my childhood much cause i was raped. But everything is just happening so fast and there are just so many reponsibilites and things i have to live up to. I feel like i can't handle it and i want be a kid without any of those problems. I know thats impossible, but what can i do to get used to these new things i have to do. You know, like getting a job, and doing your homework so you can get into a good college?

2007-04-20 09:46:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-04-20 09:43:43 · 8 answers · asked by ungarbooks 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you believe that pre-marital sex is wrong? Let's do a head count

2007-04-20 09:43:07 · 21 answers · asked by think_of_the_bubble 3 in Singles & Dating

My best friend has been dating a married man for 5 years now. Anyone who saw them would never guess they are secrete lovers b/c they have a normal relationship.... but i feel like she has become a "sad" person she used to be very confident and happy.. I also find that she isolates herself from her fam and friends in order to keep his other life secrete. He has had 1 child in his marrage since they have been together. She has tried to move on, but he is always around! They do have a history before he was married "he was her first love" and she really has convinced herself her patience will allow them to be together eventually. She is a great person who has a lot going for herself in every other aspect of her life but i feel like this guy is using her and will never leave his wife... what is the best advice i can give her without making her feel like a horrible person. I think she is miserable but is too ashamed to ask for help!

2007-04-20 09:42:00 · 19 answers · asked by beyondeyezcanc 2 in Marriage & Divorce

As a college senior, I look at some freshmen and think that they are so immature in the way they act. Was I ever that bad? Could each freshman class be less mature than the one before them?

2007-04-20 09:40:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok so don;t think i am immature or whatver. it's just that my parents are so careful when i go out that i am not allowed to subway, taxi and bus at night. i am 19.i always need to get a ride home. and i can't just make last min. plans either. my parents want me to tell them in advance so they can pick me up. please don't think they're weird, they r not and i'm ok if they want to keep me safe, it's just that i need to breathe and stop looking at the clock when i'm out. (whihc is very rare anyway) people/teens/young pps who have been in these situations please give me tips. help me, i want to go out a bit at night but it's so stressful for me which is why i never even attempt it cuz i knw whats comng up in terms of lectures! . i don't want to tell my friends this and especially the guy i am going out with tomorrow night! what r safe ways i can go home without having my parents take me home?? thanks!!

2007-04-20 09:40:09 · 5 answers · asked by . 2 in Family

2007-04-20 09:40:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance and I are getting married in September with only a few of our family members being there(30), I need to describe that it will only be a few people invited without putting intimate on the invite. Does any one have any suggestions?

2007-04-20 09:35:22 · 6 answers · asked by Don't you get it?? 3 in Weddings

I am trying to decide what to do. i am engaged but my fiance' is going crazy and starting to not be so nice. this has been happening for about 4 months or so. my highschool sweetheart just popped out of the blue and I am wondering if the flame is still there or if i should work it out with my fiance and just be friends with my friend from high school (we havent spoken in 12 years) I really love the woman i am with but dont know if it will last... 2 nights ago i called off the engagement and now feel stuck and dont know what to do???

2007-04-20 09:32:58 · 40 answers · asked by w3s1p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this guy a while back and now we're pretty good friends. I would like for it to be more but I'm afraid to bring it up. I think he's great guy and I really love him, but I'm scared what he'll say.

Anyway, he's a Marine and right now he's in Africa. I've written him a couple of letters so far (he's been over there about 2 months now and I've sent 5 letters I think...) I really don't know what to write to him about. I'm afraid to write about my life because I think it's kind of boring. I don't do much... I kind of want to tell him how I feel about him but I don't know how to do that or when or if I should just wait. But I would like to continue sending letters. he said he really loves getting mail...I just don't want to bore him. Any intersting topics I could write about?

2007-04-20 09:32:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating