Family & Relationships - 20 April 2007

With all the stress that a wedding brings, and all the problems between my mom & I, my mom & my future mother-in-law, and everything else everyone is saying to put their 2 sense into the wedding plans it has caused chaos between me and my future hubby. Generally I never feel like we are on the same team about everything. We fight because I am stressed and I make him stressed. I go to him to talk and to vent and it really seems as though he doesn't care. I am just a frustrated Bride that feels like her wedding is about everyone else and I feel like my groom just wants nothing to do with me or the wedding. Please tell me I am not alone on this, what can I do? Serious answers need only apply.

2007-04-20 13:22:10 · 16 answers · asked by Tiffany 4 in Weddings

I have been sort of seeing this guy for three monhs, the longest I have been with a guy for about 18 months. I really like him but I have had a lot of business trips back to back and returned to my home for the first time in 11 days. Whilst away he has been house sitting for me but has not lifted a finger anywhere to tidy his mess. I was furious to return to this and gave him a really good spanking this evening before sending him home. He knows I lik to keep my place spotless and as I suffer from a dust allergy it is even more important. I feel like I should punish him more, maybe even cane him, otherwise I do not think I can forgive his lazy attitude. I do like him and in 3 months have not felt the need to punish him which is good but this has made me so mad and I want to fully release my anger.
No irrational "freak" e-mails please. I am how I am, plenty of guys setle problems this way, way, why should'nt I?

2007-04-20 13:18:38 · 35 answers · asked by Skyblue Princess 3 in Singles & Dating

ok theres this girl in my school that i like but shes always making fun of me and wat not. she stares at me constantly but when i look back she says stop looking at me lol she intimidates me. idk y but she just does any sugestions on how i can talk to her? and not be scared to talk to her

2007-04-20 13:16:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when should i call again if i should call again???

2007-04-20 13:15:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please help..

2007-04-20 13:13:06 · 7 answers · asked by nicole r 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-20 13:12:56 · 3 answers · asked by miss u much 2 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy but i don't no if he likes me bac how can i tell

2007-04-20 13:10:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been married for over 20 years and over the last nine months or so he has become increasingly distant and withdrawn. His sex drive is ziltch and he plainly stated that he feels nothing for me anymore. I can find no evidence of an affair (I hated looking). He comes home and retreats into music and sipping wine and doesn't even want to go out. Is he depressed? He says he feels empty on the inside and doesn't even work on his hobbies anymore. He won't open up too much with me and says he'll get counseling but hasn't made any efforts to do that yet. Any ideas of what I can do? Where do we go from here?

2007-04-20 13:09:53 · 15 answers · asked by mackinawmissy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend got his heart ripped out by his ex..and I want to leave but I know how sensitive he is and how he still hasn't healed from his last breakup.

He sometimes gets rough with me..and pushes me into walls and he has slammed my head against the car door. I know this isn't normal..but he has annihalated my self esteem.

I told him I can't take all the fear and abuse..and he said his couldn't deal with the pain of getting dumped again and that he would hurt himself if it happened. What do I do? I used to be so strong, so happy, so determined. Now I'm apathetic about my own life.

2007-04-20 13:07:16 · 11 answers · asked by GoldenGirl 3 in Singles & Dating

What do you look for in a girl.

Inside and out.
everything!

2007-04-20 13:00:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need to start a rumor. I won't go into great detail, but in the situation it's either spread a rumor or be publicly humilated. I have tried everything else, and this is my last resort. So how to I spread a rumor.

PS: If you can't answer the question and you just want to say something like "don't do it" please don't post.

2007-04-20 13:00:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a question...OK, so you all know what Myspace is right? So here it is...my boyfriend has just started a Myspace account. I didn't mind. I have one too; I use it to talk to old and new friends. I have never ever said the things he has said on there. So this is where the question comes in.Is this a form of cheating? I have some bits and pieces of messages he has sent to ex-girlfriends and here they are...You and I really hit it off in Mexico. It's too bad we didn't get to hang around much after that. You were cool.
You pretty much look the same. Good job. I'd imagine ballet doesn't really allow you to each ribs and pizza too often.
Yeah. I feel guilty for teasing you in eight grade, but know that some of it was flirting. You were cute and smart and moody.
So, either way, we need to have lunch in your city or my city in the near term.
I was talking to ** and he said you're hotter now than before. I'm dying to see current pictures of you.
(messages to 3 diff. girls)

2007-04-20 13:00:51 · 17 answers · asked by caligrlntxs 1 in Marriage & Divorce

DO girls like it if boys command them or ask them to do somthing?
eg. is it better to say

a.) Jenifer can you check for me about this book?

b.) Jenifer check for me about this book

c.) Jenifer can you please check for me about this book

THANK YOU VERY MUCH IF YOU ANSWERED OR LEFT A LETTER!!

2007-04-20 12:59:52 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Confused..... any suggesstions?
Does she like me?
This girl at work gives me a feeling she has feelings for me like she's close to me most of the times always wants me to be near her and we've even played a game of truth and dare where she dared me to touch her but when i called her today I think she said we can't talk and she never attempt to call me back. any tips on how I can get her to give me the right signs without having to be direct? like what can i do to make her give me some signs I'm right?? I'm very confused thanks

2007-04-20 12:58:46 · 7 answers · asked by jason w 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy(let's call him Bob) but i think his bestfriend (let's call him Joe) likes me and i think Bob likes my best friend (We'll call her Sally) but Sally like this totally other guy and i really really like Bob but Joe is okay too but i could never date him i think of him to much as a friend i also think that Bob is trying to make me jealous with Sally but i'm not for sure what should i do??

2007-04-20 12:54:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I told my best friend that i liked him through a note and put on his door step. i haven' talked to him for almost 5 months i miss him so much. Every time i see him i get butter flys in my stomach.

2007-04-20 12:52:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am one and for whatever reason I'm only interested in dating guys in the same profession. Is this wrong? Seeing that I'm still single, I imagine that this is wrong. What do you think?

2007-04-20 12:49:12 · 11 answers · asked by random 3 in Singles & Dating

ok me and my girlfriend have been going out for a lil over 7 months and we still havent kissed and i want to kiss her so badd but idk if i should kiss her at school or at the movies..(we hardly get to go to the movies b/c she has a volleyball tournament almost every weekend) i tried kissing her today at school but whn we hugged she turned her head away so i ended up kinda running into her cheek(it suckeddd) and ive been wanting to but i just cant get up the nerve to do it..pleaseee help me out....(shes really hot also lol) o yeahh..we dont have any classes together except lunch so yeah

2007-04-20 12:46:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I like him, but i dont think he likes me. he acts like it, so how do i tell 4 sure, 'cause i REALLY like him!!!!HELP!!!!!!

2007-04-20 12:46:00 · 6 answers · asked by Kassie D 1 in Friends

uhm, we're going to whistler for a band tour this week. there is this boy i like who is going, he knows i like him. he's also my best friend which makes things tricky, i guess. i want to ask him to maybe a nice dinner one night, but i don't know how to ask. the other thing is that he has this best friend and everytime i ask the boy i like to go somewhere, he says, lets bring my best friend too. how do i convince hin so that it's just the two of us? help please.

2007-04-20 12:45:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay. first i work with this guy and ride the bus with this guy on an everyday basis we talk about everything we can think of. we also joke around . i have went to the bar with him, hung out at his house, hels his hand, and kissed him once. i am suppose to hang out with him again this weekend.

2007-04-20 12:44:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I dont want to make a fuss about that or dont wanna make it serious but it seems that each one is teasing and flirting and the way they look and stuff ... Still, i am not comfortable? any way to hint that indirectly without grabbing attention to me .. i hate to be the center of rumours in my working place!

2007-04-20 12:44:07 · 4 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

my fr is living seperately for past 2 years from her husband who use to abuse and beat her.She is living with a baby . Can can give a name of lawyer( alady lawyer may be ) in Delhi,India who can advice and also need fight for her. As she is not very rich just living by doing some petty , kindly suggest lawyer who dont charge her with hefty fees or can fight on his behalf for free? Kindly help.

2007-04-20 12:41:10 · 5 answers · asked by ashuji77 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Reason why my life stinks
1. My mom died before cause she overdosed, they brought her back to life, but it was so scary watching my mom go onto a stretcher into an abulance.
2. My dad is literally crazy. He used to scream at me and my brother and mom, but my parents are in the middle of a divorce. I hate my dad so much ever since he raped my mom and screwed her stomach up so bad she couldn't go to the bathroom.
3. I have been living with my grandparents for10 months and i am getting so tired of them being on my back about everything. Im not aloud to be left home alone not even for ten minutes
4. My brother has no frens. He hangs out with kids or are like 4 years younger than him. They are little imature brats.
5. I can't move out of my grandparents house until my dad pays my mom money from the house he is supposed to be buying from my mom. My dad doesnt pay child support.
6. I HATE consoulers. They think they can fix everything by talking to you, they cant.

2007-04-20 12:39:04 · 19 answers · asked by casey 3 in Family

i am british born and travelled to the yemen when i was 14 years old it was then that my uncles son and i became friends i had no feelings only as friends i returned to the uk after 9 months and contact via telephone was kept until i was 20 and he asked if i would marry him. i agreed even though i new he could not afford it i accepted a small gift of 1 bracelett and a pair of earings. after living in the yemen for 3 years and having a son and pregnant again we planned to travel to the uk apply for a work permit for him and we would save and send money to his parents in order to do this i needed to work also to help him. we send money monthly to his parents and have managed to purchase a home in the uk and a villa in yemen which has just been completed my children visit yemen every year however i am planing to move there within the next 2 years in order for my children to adjust to the lifestyle and culture in hoe that they will marry there my eldest boy is 16 and wants to get engaged?

2007-04-20 12:36:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm the only girl in the family, and I have an older brother.

2007-04-20 12:35:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

well, it's mine and my boyfriend's 8 month anniversary and I haven't seen him in a few weeks so I want to make it amazing. I'm 15, not a huge amount of cash, NOT having sex, so what should I do to make this a really special day?

2007-04-20 12:34:48 · 1 answers · asked by nicole r 2 in Singles & Dating

make sex toys available to them?
do you think that would help, if they sent a message about abstenance, and tried to keep kids from having sex untill they were married?

this way they could stop themselves from following that urge to have sex, and get themselves pregnant or worse an STD

please take this seriously, I want to know what people think

2007-04-20 12:34:39 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it wrong, if u like your own cousin???, i'm asking cause i like my cousin, but he's sooooo hot, i don't know is it wrong?? or a sin??

2007-04-20 12:33:55 · 27 answers · asked by brit_avyltth 3 in Singles & Dating

Like he see you, and then he tells the person you are with he barely knows that you are crazy...

2007-04-20 12:31:52 · 11 answers · asked by cecil8 1 in Singles & Dating