Confused..... any suggesstions?
Does she like me?
This girl at work gives me a feeling she has feelings for me like she's close to me most of the times always wants me to be near her and we've even played a game of truth and dare where she dared me to touch her but when i called her today I think she said we can't talk and she never attempt to call me back. any tips on how I can get her to give me the right signs without having to be direct? like what can i do to make her give me some signs I'm right?? I'm very confused thanks
2007-04-20 12:58:46 · 7 answers · asked by jason w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait
Talk with her when she talks with you
See what happens.
I think the trouble is that you're falling for her. Don't. Don't get involved in an office romance. When they go sour it's TERRIBLE. Develop a friendship.
Sounds to me like she was interested in you a little, and playing games - trying to test the waters mostly - but now she's got something else on her mind. It might be someone else or it might be some other thing entirely that she has to concentrate on.
2007-04-20 13:01:43 · answer #1 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is this, you have been giving her exactly what she wants. She became attracted to you, and rather than letting it grow by letting her chase you, you have given her exactly what she wants and you are sliding dangerously towards the friends zone.
Send her a text message or a voice mail telling her that you know she has feelings for you, but that you dont think you see her as a romantic interest.
9 times out of 10 this get her working on how to "win" you. Which is what you want, you want her to try to win you. If your easily accesible, women will take you for granted and walk over her. When the two of you do talk on the phone, make sure you keep the conversation light and funny, always be the first one to hang up, keeping her wanting more of your time, and at the same time, limit greatly how much time she gets with you.
2007-04-20 20:09:31 · answer #2 · answered by Bubblz7184 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be flirting with you. That doesn't mean she wants things to go any farther than they are right now. All you can do is try calling her (which you did) or try asking her out, if she turns you down with a lame excuse, you will know that she's just flirting and that's it. The fact that she didn't talk to you when you called and didn't return your call, shows that she's probably not that interested in you at this point, but you can ask why she didn't call back. Maybe there's a good reason.
2007-04-20 20:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful, she may be flirting with you while testing the waters. Hence the hot, cold reaction. Try talking to her, become friends first, really get to know each other, and lots of luck.
2007-04-20 20:06:06 · answer #4 · answered by ddp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright first you give her a compliment..A SINCERE COMPLIMENT
avoid: "You look hot"
"You look good, but you'd look better with me"
"Do you stuff your bra every morning? I could help"
I have seen guys use this millions of times and if anything they go home with more pain than Governer Corzine.
LUV YA CORZINE HEAL WITH PEACE!!
ANYWAYS say: "I like your shoes"
"Nice shoes, it really works with the outfit"
"You've got really pretty eyes"
GOOD LUCK AND BE YOURSELF
avoid saying anything like "work it" if she walks towards you
SMILEZ!! :)
2007-04-20 20:07:19 · answer #5 · answered by ...♥... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like flirting but she doent tend for it to be anymore than that.
2007-04-20 20:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just come right out and ask her
2007-04-20 20:05:47 · answer #7 · answered by mommie_29801 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋