please help..
2007-04-20 13:13:06 · 7 answers · asked by nicole r 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i didn't cheat on him, i said '**** you' to him and he said that he lost all trust in me after that
2007-04-20 13:22:51 · update #1
I DIDN'T CHEAT ON HIM!!!
2007-04-20 13:37:10 · update #2
depends on what you did...
if you cheated on him them its going to be really hard....but you can just apologze to him for it......
but if its somthing else then say your really sorry and that this will never happen. I can promise you that.
and that you know what you did was wrong and that you realize you made a big mistake.
and all you ask is for you to, to be together to again with trust earned back.
thats what i have done and it has worked!
peace
-m/b
2007-04-20 13:21:13 · answer #1 · answered by M/B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are leaving out alot of this story. So I feel you could be a player and I could be helping you to cheat on your boyfriend again. No what I mean??
Hey, your question is something a player would say after getting caught.
Maybe its better if you move on ... then let everyting simmer down while you learn what its like to be without him. Possibly the time alone (lets say 6 months alone) could be the best way to clean the slate as much as possible. This does not mean you go out and have another boyfriend or booty-Call setup while you wait it out for 6 months. It doesn't work like that. If he sees you with another guy ... then you are back to square one.
Something tells me you got to get cheated on BEFORE learning about what you did to your boyfriend. Then and only then will you feel the pain that you caused your boyfriend.
Good Luck
2007-04-20 13:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by Danny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be normal and play it like you're not pretending to be someone or being too desperate. It will take a while for the trust factor to build back up...I know for a fact. Just remember this...actions speak louder than words.
2007-04-20 13:19:13 · answer #3 · answered by benji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You explain to him that you understand you have broken his trust and that there is going to be a lot of earning trust needed before he is going to trust you again.
You do understand that, don't you?
Then you give it time. You earn the trust.
Say what you mean.
Mean what you say.
You can't say bullshit and untrustworthy things and change things every 5 minutes now without him thinking of how untrustworthy you are.
Be constant, be consistent.
Your actions should match your words.
Time and a lot of earning trust will regain his trust.
2007-04-20 13:16:37 · answer #4 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you break someones trust I dont think it will get any better because even if you tried again it will come up in the future. There is no going back in my opinion.
2007-04-20 13:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by jeannie f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how did you lose it did you cheat.if so how would you feel what would he have to do to geet your trust back..time heals all wounds,he may be able to forgive but never forget..if you both still love each other work on .trust is earned not given..i wish you happiness
2007-04-20 13:18:01 · answer #6 · answered by pattialfy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust in him and be loyal to him.
2007-04-20 13:17:02 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋