Family & Relationships - 20 April 2007

I am a college freshman, and I am strongly attracted to a classmate girl. I think she is drop dead gorgeous and awesome in many ways. She is very smart and mature. She is articulate and writes very well. I think she has the most attractive eyes, second to Alexis Bledel, I like her smile, I like her body, I love the way she talks, and I like the way she carries herself. She may have the ugly side I can't see as of now, but I think she is the most attractive lady I have ever seen/met. She makes my heart beat like crazy. I, however, sort of wish that I did not feel attracted to her. In fact, I wish I did not feel attracted to any human being right now. She doesn't seem like she wants to be in a relationship with anyone, and I want to fully concentrate on my work. I go to an extremely competitive school, so I have to study my butt off. I have sort of tried to get over her, but I haven't been successful at that. Is this natural? I don't know what to do. She is such a great distraction.

2007-04-20 12:29:29 · 17 answers · asked by hey my name is ** 1 in Singles & Dating

I dislike my father for many reasonable reasons. He's constantly arguing with me and my family and picks fights with no reason at all. At some moments I realize how much I hate him because of who he is. It might also have to do with him never being there when I was growing up and trying so late in the game to be "good" friends. He has a temper problem and drinks a lot, not as much as a alcoholic but still enough to affect his behavior. He's aware of all these things but refuses to do anything to solve, so my family can live a happier life. He curses a ton which I dislike a lot, talks about others in his family badly when they're not there, and he is somewhat racist. All these make me hate him and the feeling is only getting worse as I get older. I don't think leaving without solving anything and moving on with my life is the best thing. What are my other options if he refuses to at least try to change. Iv'e already tried talking to him about and it never changes a thing.

2007-04-20 12:25:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

why do men stare at me and smile? or why do they offer to give me their number? or why do they offer to go out with me? I'm not a whore as i mentioned before, and i don't dress or act like a whore either. i'm just very attractive and nice. do i need to change my niceness and act mean and rude?

2007-04-20 12:11:13 · 1 answers · asked by princess 2 in Singles & Dating

do guys prefer tomboys and girls they've known for awhile or the prissy little girly things? I'm a tomboy and i can't find anybody...and i think it may be because i'm one of the guys. What should i do?

2007-04-20 12:04:42 · 21 answers · asked by Whatsername 2 in Singles & Dating

and felt terrible about it. He is ridden with guilt, she doesn't have a clue. Should he confess? In this situation honesty a “wrong” move? Why do you believe that?

2007-04-20 12:04:05 · 7 answers · asked by Truth Hurts 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont want much,just a woman who doesnt try to change me,who doesnt shout,who lets me have IT.i dont want or ask for much else,in return i give my loyalty,myself,love,and whatever else you want

2007-04-20 11:58:24 · 29 answers · asked by rebel 4 in Singles & Dating

he is married but you love him and wants to spend more time with him but you cannot because he is married.

2007-04-20 11:57:05 · 33 answers · asked by Sheriff 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-20 11:52:55 · 12 answers · asked by Gwen W 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm just curious! Thanks!

2007-04-20 11:48:38 · 15 answers · asked by Virginia 3 in Weddings

I Know That What I Did Was Wrong, And I've Learned My Lesson, I Just Don't Know What To Do Now.

2007-04-20 11:48:33 · 6 answers · asked by ...... 2 in Friends

I plan to get married in Dec2008. My fiance and I were both born in the year of the Sheep (1979). I am an Arien and he is a Taurean. Ideas about Feng Shui or numerology will he highly appreciated.

2007-04-20 11:45:39 · 3 answers · asked by stardust 1 in Weddings

Why do alot of women always love to say if their man is coming home to them every night then he loves only her and is not cheating. Do women really believe this myth? I don't understand why it hasen't occured to them that some people are actually really good at cheating.

2007-04-20 11:44:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, so...i suggested that me and my boyfriend should step back a little and rest our relationship, right? he said he was thinking that this whole time too. so i went out with this other guy, jack, and we, uh, made out on our first date. my ex was over on some other table, alone, and now hes mad. what's going on exactly?????


(dont call me stupid lol)

2007-04-20 11:42:53 · 10 answers · asked by marie 1 in Singles & Dating

become a relationship. look wise i think im pretty good as far as bein attractive, but obviously sumthin ain't right after the sex part. Could it be my personality, being a Scorpio, or i'm just not meant to have long term relationships?

2007-04-20 11:42:16 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-20 11:42:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

At first i had one stuffed animal and sooner or later i had three that i slept with and i really want to stop the habit! Will someone please help me!!

2007-04-20 11:36:00 · 7 answers · asked by chocoholic123 2 in Friends

2007-04-20 11:35:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

smoking the reefer, how on earth do I talk to him about this without feeling angry or causing an argument. I know I have to put my foot down and be a mother, not a friend....help, any other mothers handle this matter and have a positive outcome.

2007-04-20 11:31:17 · 12 answers · asked by LaRae 2 in Family

i have sleep apnea and i use to drive a school bus for over 20 years but since i can't stay awake i have stop driving.

2007-04-20 11:31:15 · 3 answers · asked by bigger baller 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My parents went on holiday to Fiji yesterday, and my sister woke up sick! She's been vomiting all morning! I'm 14, she's 25. What am i supposed to do??

2007-04-20 11:30:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

everywhere i go, women walk pass me and smile. i don't get it. if they ain't smiling, they staring me hard. and i know i don't have anything messed up on me, so why do they do it? its so annoying!

2007-04-20 11:26:57 · 15 answers · asked by princess 2 in Singles & Dating

My boss is having some marital problems and her husband just told her that he has filed one against her. How does she find out if this is true?

2007-04-20 11:25:34 · 7 answers · asked by Miss Shannon 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Are there any of you who are or have been in such a relationship and have found it to be an enjoyable and fulfilling one?
Why?

2007-04-20 11:22:32 · 11 answers · asked by Jay 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I dont want to be with anyone else, i love my husband, but as far as the actual desire to have sex it's completly gone, and i am only 27. in order for me to get in the mood to do anything with him, i havet to be relaxed, drink some drank, or smoke a joint, and i am not even a smoker, but some how it relaxes me, and then i am relaxed and can open up to him to have sex. Now am i crazy or what? what happend to my sex drive. is there anything i can do to put it back in our marriage?

2007-04-20 11:21:11 · 18 answers · asked by Diva Dana 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my daughter is only 16 but i have a feeling she is plannin to run away and marrying her boyfriend.is there a place she can do that without my parental consent?

2007-04-20 11:20:56 · 13 answers · asked by elizabeth h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

today my mom told me i couldnt hang out with my best friend nia, AT ALL. she has been my best friend since the 1st grade and i love her like my sister. but recently she has been getting into some trouble. not that much trouble...its not like shes on drugs or anything. well u get the point.. She is going through a rough time and i need to be there for her. She was there to back me up soo many times and i dont know whut to do. I mean i sneak behind my mom's back to see nia and i hate doing that, but i cant just not see my best friend!!

help me please!

2007-04-20 11:19:20 · 14 answers · asked by Celina 2 in Friends

She is a year younger than me, (she's in 6th and I'm in 7th) and we both do a bunch of the same sports. This year we've done cross country, swim/dive team, and track and feild team this year. The only thing that makes me think she likes me is that at a dance a couple weeks ago some of her friends all said she wanted to dance, but I was too nervous, so I didn't. Now I'm not sure how to ask her out. This'll be the first time I've ever asked someone out, and I'm not sure how to. Thanks for the help.

2007-04-20 11:17:54 · 14 answers · asked by Gracie for life 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I got married in 1996 and I found out that at the same time he was married in Mexico. How can I get a record of his marriage there? Why, do you ask? We are getting divorced, and he is trying to take our child and this information needs to surface. Please only serious suggestions and ideas. Thank you.

2007-04-20 11:17:23 · 5 answers · asked by trancegoddess2001 3 in Marriage & Divorce

On a scale of 1-10, 1 being 'uh...whatever', 10 being 'crucial to survival of a relationship'.

2007-04-20 11:16:11 · 26 answers · asked by dorothy 4 in Singles & Dating

ok well i like this guy n we dated and know we dont even talk and i am so sad. we are still goin to prom but i am sad because i cried when i was with him cuz we fought but then i am crying cuz i dont have him and miss him. i mean he told me to not wear hoodies and i dont sometimes, he told me to wear diff shoes so i did, he said to wear my hair up cuz i look much prettier. he said that i would look much in a push up bra so i went n bough 5 of them. and i am stuck cuz i feel that he has moved on and like the next day after we broke up he went to the movies with another girl. what am i to do. i like him so much that i am willing to do anything it takes

2007-04-20 11:15:28 · 19 answers · asked by cutiepie102 2 in Singles & Dating