She is a year younger than me, (she's in 6th and I'm in 7th) and we both do a bunch of the same sports. This year we've done cross country, swim/dive team, and track and feild team this year. The only thing that makes me think she likes me is that at a dance a couple weeks ago some of her friends all said she wanted to dance, but I was too nervous, so I didn't. Now I'm not sure how to ask her out. This'll be the first time I've ever asked someone out, and I'm not sure how to. Thanks for the help.
2007-04-20 11:17:54 · 14 answers · asked by Gracie for life 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you should is talk to her in person or on phone and ask her if she wants to go out with you. If she says yes (hopefully she will!) suggest going to the movies. It's the perfect first date! This is because at the movies you don't need to talk, and if ur the guy who doesn't want anything to be awkward on a date or is afraid you'll run outta things to say, the movies is perfect. Of course see a movie you both wanna see. Then for the second date you could go to the movies again, or if you feel comferable, you could go to the mall, dinner/lunch, mini golfing, bowling, or invite her to your house to hang. There's a bunch of places to go on dates and you'll have fun at those places. Get to know her more and be yourself. Everything will work out fine.
2007-04-20 11:25:11 · answer #1 · answered by Ali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Visualise the woman announcing sure. Nerves most effective come after we obsess over the worst feasible results. Realistically, it could actually move both manner, however it's valued at the danger. When you do it, make certain you scent pleasant, however do not drown your self in deodorant or aftershave, stand speak (train in entrance of a replicate, hold your shoulders again and feature pleasant smelling breath. The extra optimistically you gift your self to her, the extra constructive you are going to consider and she's going to discover it difficult to mention no. I desire you good fortune. And take into account, if she does say no, do not take it in my view, opt for your self up and take a look at to discover yet another woman you prefer. Hope this is helping, dude :)
2016-09-05 18:32:49 · answer #2 · answered by treat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait... whoa, whoa... I don't understand. You're in 7TH GRADE?? Ok then... Might be a little young, hormones might be a little strong and make us lost at times, but here's what you should know.
A girlfriend, you need to know, is a large commitment. The girl you go out with you have to be expected to marry. Yup, that's right. You need to be ready for a ceremony. I'm sorry to say, but it's only fair.
You've got to let the girl know you're devoted to her. DON'T YOU DARE CHEAT ON HER.
Above anything else, be COOL. Don't just go up to her one day and say, "Do you want to be my girlfriend?" *twitch twitch twitch* Be cool. Ask her out to the movies. Present her a gift (if you wanna add an extra flash, but it's not necessary) And make her feel special. All a girl needs is your affection.
There's always a slight possibility that she may not like you. (SLIGHT). So be ready to go out of there being cool and understanding. If you really like her, you'll understand. If not, be ready to be devoted and she'll be devoted to you.
BE COOL. Chillax. And be ready. That's all i have to say.
2007-04-20 11:26:51 · answer #3 · answered by My Name Doesn't Fit Here 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, ask her out on April 20, 2011, when you're 16 and she's 15 and "going out on a date" actually means something.
Until then, ask her - as a friend - to do things you two both like.
2007-04-20 11:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well U ask her..dont have some of ur friends ask her cuz us gurls dont like them..we want to kno that they r confident enough! Make sure that shes the one for u since ur in 7th and shes in 6th!
2007-04-20 14:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by Laura 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here we go..."Hey _____, I'd like to see this movie playing at the _____ but don't want to go alone. You wanna go and then maybe get a bite to eat after?"
Very easy. Calm. Worse she can say is "no" or "I can't". NOT the end of your world...will simply clarify the situation for you. Rejection at any age can be hard, but how will you EVER know unless you TRY???
Go for it!
Grace
2007-04-20 11:21:58 · answer #6 · answered by bunnyONE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find your own style and be comfortable, you'll be forcing some tried, dickish technique - if you have to put on a facade to ask her out, she'll never drill down to your core - but of course be gentle, be cool - but adapt to certain situations.
2007-04-20 11:22:03 · answer #7 · answered by facelessdefacer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile, take a deep breath and go for it! Don't forget, anybody who tells you no is just practice for the one who says yes. Good luck!
2007-04-20 11:21:34 · answer #8 · answered by carebear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a girl so i know. 1st take it easy and ask her CASUALY out for a movie or something if al gos well shell say sure if not shel say im busy or sorry, maybe another time.
2007-04-20 11:24:14 · answer #9 · answered by zz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and giv her hints that u like her and then after about like 4 weeks ask her out
2007-04-20 11:21:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋