ok well i like this guy n we dated and know we dont even talk and i am so sad. we are still goin to prom but i am sad because i cried when i was with him cuz we fought but then i am crying cuz i dont have him and miss him. i mean he told me to not wear hoodies and i dont sometimes, he told me to wear diff shoes so i did, he said to wear my hair up cuz i look much prettier. he said that i would look much in a push up bra so i went n bough 5 of them. and i am stuck cuz i feel that he has moved on and like the next day after we broke up he went to the movies with another girl. what am i to do. i like him so much that i am willing to do anything it takes
2007-04-20 11:15:28 · 19 answers · asked by cutiepie102 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't have it both ways, sweetie. Besides, he is awful pushy telling you what to wear. Why don't you move on too?
2007-04-20 11:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by SchrodingersTigress 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This guy is a f*cking douche bag. NEVER EVER change your appearence at someone elses will. Jeez thats the the number 1 rule in life...you shoudln't let this guy tell you what to do. If you like hoodies, wear them. Keep your hair down if you like it. Wear the same shoes. Honestly, i think he was using you becuase of the pushup bra thing. You've got to let him go becuase honey, he's arleady forgot about you.
2007-04-20 11:20:22 · answer #2 · answered by Mark 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're willing to do "anything it takes" - WHY?
Read your own question - What makes HIM so great that you're bending over backwards for him? I understand it's important to have a date to the prom - I didn't go myself - but you're changing who YOU are, what's HE doing? And now you don't talk anymore?!
Listen, smile, act confident (no matter how you really feel), and act and BE worth something, and he will either respect you, or he will realize he can't manipulate you and move on - either way you win.
Write me privately if you have any questions.
2007-04-20 11:20:37 · answer #3 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK first of all this guy sounds like a jerk. you dont need someone that tells you what to wear, how to do your hair, and what shoes you should change. this guy is acting this way because you are letting him. i bet that there is a nicer guy that you could like just as much as you like this guy and that you will be happier with because this guy doesnt deserve you by the way it sounds.
2007-04-20 11:33:47 · answer #4 · answered by love♥shopping=] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a lot of guys in the world to just pick the one I know is hard to move on but you need to , because you should not be changing and buying bras and wasting YOUR money for a guy that doesnt even like you he is not worth it
2007-04-20 11:23:11 · answer #5 · answered by Vane R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety u don't need him....i bet any guy would be lucky to fall for you...let go...it is hard in know, i been there..but if the guy dosen't know how valuable u are then he isn't the right one....keep ur dignity and ignore him..the more u cry over him and want him back the more he will think less of u
good luck and know u r special and u need someone special who knows ur value =)
2007-04-20 11:22:47 · answer #6 · answered by someone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yap you did everything AND THATS WHY thats the reason also that HE LOST INTEREST TO YOU TOO....
guys lost interest if us lady always fallow what they say....well its confusing right?? but thats the reality...
well now i know its hard but we cannot do anything about it....what you need to do is...show him its not your lost...it was his....
actually even in a relationship if a girl show too much affection to there bf the more the bf lost interest...well if u ask me why cuz maybe they get suffocated, drown and they felt no challenged...
so sometimes it better too take everything slow....
2007-04-20 11:23:02 · answer #7 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're making this way too easy for him, he don't respect you and he's taking you for granted because you're such a suck up.
Be nice to him when he talks to you but generally ignore him and start talking to other guys, he'll realize you're not his personal dog and if he really wants you he'll step it up to get you away from those other guys.
2007-04-20 11:24:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun you need to drop him lik a hot potata, ITS NOT NORMAL for guys to tell you what to wear, HE IS USING YOU and doesn't even LOVE YOU if he's goig out with OTHER GIRLS okay? there are PLENTY more fish in the sea, you've just been hooked by a playa honey... (lol, a psychotic one...)
2007-04-20 11:20:54 · answer #9 · answered by qtpie16707 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why do you even like him?
Why did you changed?
You are who you are.If he had really liked you he wouldn't do that!!
He was changing you to see if you would look well different, and looks like he didn't like you..so he left you!
He doesn't worth it!!
Find someone that likes you the way you are!
2007-04-20 11:21:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋