today my mom told me i couldnt hang out with my best friend nia, AT ALL. she has been my best friend since the 1st grade and i love her like my sister. but recently she has been getting into some trouble. not that much trouble...its not like shes on drugs or anything. well u get the point.. She is going through a rough time and i need to be there for her. She was there to back me up soo many times and i dont know whut to do. I mean i sneak behind my mom's back to see nia and i hate doing that, but i cant just not see my best friend!!
help me please!
2007-04-20 11:19:20 · 14 answers · asked by Celina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i hate when moms are like that because they think what they are doing is right or if it's protecting you but there not! if you talk to your mom then tell her how you feel, if not then invit a friend to hang out with and tell your mom that your hanging out with your other friend but secretly invite her with.
2007-04-20 11:52:24 · answer #1 · answered by :)! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one thing you are beinging dumb cause you think we will help you out either youre mom had told you that you cant hang out with yourebest friend cause she 's a trouble maker if you keep hanging out with her she might get you in trouble also by the police or even by somebody else that you dont know . plus i think youre mom is right you shouldnt see or even stay friends with youre best frend at all. dont you have any other best friend to hang out with or she is the only friend you got over past years. there is other way that you can do is making and meeting new people better instead bagging or sneaking behide youre own mother not notices anything . you shouldnt never lied to youre own mother ,cause someday she will find out the true that you had been a bad daughter , even had lied the whole time , cant even understand not to be friend with NIA anymore. plus, how can you know that youre bestfriend is going be there for you always or forever in case some thing happen to you . i dont think youre friend gotta be there for you all the time when your get older . maybe sometime in the future youre friend might forget about beingin friend with you or even stay by you .
2007-04-20 11:49:23 · answer #2 · answered by statecalifornia2009 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are going to like this answer, but you should respect your mom's wishes. Here's why:
Give your mom a little bit of credit. Your mom has your best interest at heart, even more than your best friend-you-love-like-a-sister. Think about it for a second. Why would your mom tell you to stop hanging around her? Just to make your life miserable? Doubt it. Your mom wants to you to be safe and to succeed and be happy.
If you sneak around to see your friend, that will only break trust with your mom, which will affect you in other ways (i.e.shorter curfews, use of the car, etc). and it's just not worth it.
Tell your friend that you can't hang with her anymore because your mom said so. Your mom won't care if she gets blamed, and your friend can't get mad at you for what your mom tells you to do. If she's really your friend, she will understand. Maybe when her drama settles down, your mom will have a change of heart.
2007-04-20 12:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by MikeNichols 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-28 14:04:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell your mom that you love your friend like if she was your sister and i think that you should see you best friend cause you know her since 1st grade and your mom knows how you fill for your best friend and you should ask your mom what would she filled when she was little and her mom would not let her hang out with her best friend just ask her how would she filled ok
bye
2007-04-20 11:42:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hie Celina. Well you get alot of points there at first it is bad to sneak at the back of mom to see her but try to explain everything to her that how she had helped you and also how she had back up you from time to time. As for your best friend try to see what kind of problem she facing and also what was the rough time she is going through. Maybe from there you could rectify the mistake and also help her to get out from it. But you should also aware or play safe to save her from the problem......
thbik aboutt it............ all the best................
2007-04-20 11:31:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom is just trying to protect you. Try talking to your mom, and explaine that you need to be there for your friend. Perhaps you can come to an agreement, have your friend come to your house, where she can be with you, and you can see her. I admire the way you want to see your best friend, but don't want to lie to your mother. Too many teens nowdays don't think twice about going behind their parents back. Keep it up! Good luck.
2007-04-20 11:39:42 · answer #7 · answered by cookie monster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well Celina (nice name by the way) i say that you try talking t your mom the way you just said this and try to make her understand and if your father is around tell him. try to see nia and help her as much as you can. tell Nia what your mom said and try to help Nia stop getting in trouble. hope that helps
-Gucci girl
2007-04-20 11:24:13 · answer #8 · answered by Cheval 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes mothers know more than they lead on to so still talk to your friend but also obey your mom and not hang out
2007-04-20 11:23:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to explain to ur mom that she is going througt a rough time and needs u right now
2007-04-20 11:24:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋