2007-04-20 11:35:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is something that just happens to everyone. You can always bring the spice back into your sex life, but the key is communication. You need to find out what lights your spouses fire.
2007-04-20 11:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know I have found myself thinking the same thing recently. I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months and already I find that our sex lives have changed. We live together, and don't get me wrong it's great, but not the same. I think this is because when you live with someone and you see them so much you just get used to them and the novelty wears off. I keep asking my boyfriend and he apoligizes and says "I"m sorry I'm just getting too comfortable" This doesn't mean that you don't love eachother but nothing lasts forever. After you first fall in love you go through the honeymoon phase and then... all the sudden it becomes a best friend or a mate. In some cases it ends... who knows. You have to find ways to keep it interesting or you will only become more and more bored. That is my belief. Good luck to you!
2007-04-20 18:47:24 · answer #2 · answered by legendarystarrs12 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because once a woman has legal claim to half your stuff, there is no need for her to continue having sex.
She will go off and be with other guys whenever she wants (it isn't "cheating" to a woman if she isn't emotionally involved with them). She will also get away with it.
If you even think about having sex with another woman (which if a guy does it is considered "cheating") you will be threatened with divorce and the loss of half your stuff.
You're trapped and she knows it. It is a method of control.
2007-04-20 18:38:19 · answer #3 · answered by Desperate Loser 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't do that because of marriage, it does because of the kids that come with marriage.
Sex will increase during the marriage right up until she gets pregnant. At which point it almost dies until the kids move out, at which it picks up again.
2007-04-20 18:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
either u get used to it and bord or when u lack it then u want it non-stop...and since ur married u know your spouse will always be there if u need it guess...plus don't 4get work,kids...all other daily factors of marriage take into place too..
2007-04-20 18:39:33 · answer #5 · answered by jojo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because now the hunt for it is over. Now it's holding up to the expectations of what it was during the relationship. The spontaneity of what you lusted after is your now yours.
2007-04-20 18:40:37 · answer #6 · answered by mahoganay 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Excitement of courtship gives way to routine and responsibility, and you know the person, warts and all. People often forget to be kind, or even decent. "Having" to do things.
2007-04-20 18:39:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't know you know i was wondering the same thing maybe it's the fact of "oh my i'm tied down for life" that scares them i guess
but i believe if you are with your soal mate then your relationship should always spark.
2007-04-20 18:38:20 · answer #8 · answered by venusian ℓove ♡ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, if you remain a virgin till marriage..
then you do it mebe 6 times a day :/
lol..
but if you do it before, theres no fun.
no surprize.
nothing to further the relationship.
youre already spent!
2007-04-20 18:43:13 · answer #9 · answered by ninjah_jamie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have drove myself crazy trying to figure that out, I guess maybe they don't think it is that important knowing they can get it any time they want, but we can only get it when they want to!
2007-04-20 18:40:01 · answer #10 · answered by ~4NOW~ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋