Are there any of you who are or have been in such a relationship and have found it to be an enjoyable and fulfilling one?
Why?
2007-04-20 11:22:32 · 11 answers · asked by Jay 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have! But, they never last. Someone (not me) always end up wanting more than the other is willing to give. My thing is this: If those are the terms when meeting you can't change the rules in the middle of the game. That's how you get your feelings hurt.
2007-04-20 11:27:42 · answer #1 · answered by Truth Hurts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It never works. Either you or the other person will find someone else for a "real" relationship and that will leave the other person hurt. Or one or the other of you will start to have "real" feelings toward each other and want more than the other is willing to give leading to hard feelings..Now there is no "friends" or "benefits"..
2007-04-20 19:05:49 · answer #2 · answered by jgain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in situations like that in the past but all it did was lead me to heartache and pain. Because at times you do get emotionally attached to your "friend" but after awhile I decided that i wanted the real thing meaning a real relationship with a real friend and enjoy the real benefits of having a good solid relationship.
2007-04-20 18:32:40 · answer #3 · answered by wiser 1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is not morally right so it can't really be fulfilling. Enjoyable, probably yes! We should preserve sex for the most special of special.... not just give it away to a friend.
2007-04-20 18:56:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya, I had three sets of two men for a while and it was great. No emotions and no strings attached. Although for some reason I would not try a single friend with benefits. I guess two makes it worth it.
2007-04-20 18:31:00 · answer #5 · answered by ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I have, it was really cool in the beginning since there was not commitment. Unfortunately the relationship turned out to be really intense and eventualy the break up came by it self.
2007-04-20 18:30:29 · answer #6 · answered by Yerba74, Free Hugs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be fun in the beginning but someone always ends up getting hurt in the end.
2007-04-20 19:08:17 · answer #7 · answered by Raindrops 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have. They serve its purpose at the time, but I usually got bored (sex with someone you're not emotionally attracted to gets boring) or found someone I really liked.
2007-04-20 18:35:02 · answer #8 · answered by Peace 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
those things dont work- one person Usually the woman- starts to have feelings and then there are problems
2007-04-20 18:26:56 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no
have you seen true life:friends with benefits
2007-04-20 18:32:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋