Family & Relationships - 20 April 2007

It was peaceful with just me and my mother living here.I never wanted my brother to come back ever.I just want things to go back to the way they were.
* This is an urgent situation so please give me answers on lodging,jobs with benefits,ways to keep him out of the house for good.Please Help.No smart a** answers or you will be reported.

2007-04-20 16:05:51 · 12 answers · asked by ѕυρєя кαωαιι ¢нιнαяυ 2 in Family

I hold everything in. Whenever I'm having the worst day, I put a smile on and act like everything's alright. Practically no one can tell. It's not that obvious.

Everyone thinks I have a good home life, but the fact is, well, I love my parents, but I almost never get along with them and everyone annoys everyone else without realizing it. And I act really hyper and excited or stuff like that to cover it up.

My dad's been depressed for 5 years and I'm only 15. Dad's stressed all the time. Mom's busy. I can't talk to them on the same level without getting mad or critical, etc...

Whenever I do something wrong, they practically choke to death because they're drowning in debt.... and mom doesn't trust me.

Should I stop covering it up or keep on hiding it?

2007-04-20 16:03:29 · 13 answers · asked by ×ithurtsogoodØ 1 in Friends

lol

2007-04-20 16:02:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is an annulled marriage not acknowledged?

2007-04-20 16:00:00 · 4 answers · asked by cgirl97 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter has a really nice boyfriend, he has a good job, goals in life, etc. She cheated on him, and on top of that contracted chlymidia(std). She says they will probably break up. Shes been living with him for 2 years. She (told) me that she might have to move back home. Do you think I should let her, or let her figure out what shes going to do(accepting responsibility and being responsible). She has done wrong and got in a lot of trouble over her life time(she's 23) and Ive had to pick up the pieces and suffer for her mistakes over all those years. This just finally took the cake. I dont think I should have to keep bailing her out of her messes all the time. Meanwhile, she has lost her job, and just got out of jail for violating her probation.(Got a DUI and probably going to have more jail time.) I've had it. Anyway, do you think I should let her move back in or no, and please explain your reason. I dont know what to do with her anymore. Thanks

2007-04-20 15:58:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met a girl a few months ago, but I am having trouble reading her. She is constantly busy, and doesn't look like that will be changing anytime soon. Recently, it has been feeling like she has been losing interest... I don't really believe she is, but with whats happened lately I can't help it.
First, her parents don't like the idea of her dating me because I am a little older (19 she is 17), so they won't let her. She had been telling me that it was because they don't know me, but according to her friend it is just simply that I am older, and meeting them wouldn't help. Whenever we hang out, it has to be with other friends of hers.
Second, I have hardly gotten to talk to her within the last several weeks. Her phone broke, she got grounded, and she doesn't have access to a computer. When I have talked to her, she is always working on something and doesn't really have time for a conversation.

2007-04-20 15:56:16 · 1 answers · asked by Jojo 1 in Singles & Dating

I just starting going out with this guy name Dantrell & this is my 3rd time goin out with him, today.And i like my friend Ivan,but he's got a girl & were close friends.He dosen't wanna go out,but i think i'm in love not Dantrell.What should I do?

2007-04-20 15:53:03 · 1 answers · asked by Brittany Noffsinger 1 in Singles & Dating

i have just been thinking and im still only 16 but still i get soooo worried and scared about sex and i get to the point where i feel that ill be a virgin forever..just because im so scared...i mean i have a hard time trying to make out....even though i want to do it all....its just SOOO scary...is there EVER a point where the first time just is easy and not scary......will i get over this fear soon?

please no mean answers cuz i really want sincere answers...if you cant be mature enough ill just warn you....so please...serious answers

2007-04-20 15:52:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we had been together for 11yrs and have 3 kids. & 7 mths slater we reconciled and moved to the US for a fresh start. The problem is that I really miss my sister and family and he refuses to speak to them or have them for a visit as he feels they spoke bad of him during the 7mths.(lots said) He is very angry and vows never to see them again. I dont know if I can live with this. I am still trying to trust him and feel I am the one who is being punished. We have a good life here the kids are happy but I dont know if its enough for me? Is that selfish, should I stay put & for the kids give them the life they deserve or do I go home to my family who love & support me?? Do I love him enough now? I am so confused.....

2007-04-20 15:48:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Cheating is getting out of hand and its the children who suffer. If you can't end a relationship without having a lover waiting in the wings I think repaveing the road to Alaska for 1 year should be in order for you! Yes I got cheated on!

2007-04-20 15:45:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she never talks to anyone. shes so lonley, my friends and i go to talk to her but she turns her head away and doesnt talk. she hasnt talked in 4 years, she's always kept so quiet, the only time she talks is when the teacher tells her too.

shes insecure with her voice, thats why shes scared to talk. how to help her?

2007-04-20 15:45:43 · 6 answers · asked by Malina h 1 in Friends

2007-04-20 15:44:25 · 18 answers · asked by chieko 4 in Singles & Dating

What would you do if you got pulled over and recieved a speeding ticket for 19 over when honestly and yes i say honestly was going under the speed limit!

2007-04-20 15:42:43 · 20 answers · asked by Lucki m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

It starts out like this. My parents get really stressed whenever I mention marching band or percussion ensemble because my older sister use to be in marching band but she let it ruin her grades by focusing ONLY on band, she might not go to college and its what they REALLY want for us. So theyre afraid this will happen to me because Im in band. One day they got so angry they start yelling and screaming like the usually do since my mother is bi-polar and my father is a jerk. But this time theyre yelling at me. He slapped me, my mother tried to choke me but my dad stopped her. The next day after my dad goes to work my mother tells me I cant be in band, that I suck at it, that even if its my passion it doesnt matter. Than days later when theyre NORMAL again they say I can stay in band and she says she's sorry. But now I wont let them come to my percussion competitions, concerts, & other music related things. When she says she supports me on music I ignore her. AM I being too hard?

2007-04-20 15:40:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I know i shouldn't forgive him, i know i deserve better, but have you ever loved someone so much that no matter how bad they treated you, you still couldn't see yourself with anyone else. I was with Jason for a year, and just 3 weeks ago he started cheating on me. i just found out this a couple of days ago. if been fighting depression for a few years and hove thoughts of suicide, expecially now. i can't afford therapy, im trying to get over him, but i can't. i dont think he isever gonna apologize, and i think this is the end. i don't want to be with anyone else, what should i do?

2007-04-20 15:34:51 · 20 answers · asked by Nanukie 1 in Singles & Dating

Unique to just your family

2007-04-20 15:34:51 · 9 answers · asked by Yellowstonedogs 7 in Family

because i'm starting to lose faith in god cause i feel depressed about being lonly and i try to hard and always fail and nobody likes me or even checks me out anymore his playing with my feelings i know it cause more and more kids my age have a gf or bf and i get to watch them walk by me everyday, it feels like a ***** slap in the face to me

2007-04-20 15:32:45 · 14 answers · asked by Alex 2 in Singles & Dating

I can't trust her anymore. She lies then I snoop. What I find she 'claims' to be plants, but then she lies again and the whole thing keeps going...
My wife of near 7yrs (together 15 total) asked for a trail separation a month ago. She said she'd been unhappy w/ our marriage for almost a year. I wasn't supportive enough at home (cleaning, kids, money) I went through a rough patch where I even called myself a loser. She wanted us to be able to see other people (yes sex too).
The next day I found out she'd been talking to a man behind my back for 2mth (min 3 calls a day, every day c.20min-1hr). She claims not to be sleeping w/ him, but she's lied often to go to his house, she's slept there more than once (claiming only after our separation) She wont give up this 'friendship' that continues to hurt our marriage. In less than 3mth this man has become the closest person in her lifeHer friends tell me she has some stuff to work out, but she's lied for them to sneak out to see 'friends' too

2007-04-20 15:31:56 · 32 answers · asked by Sidney B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

him,he put me through so much, in the time that we have been together,last sommer,he just up & left,to go spend 3 days with his x wife,because of that we lost our power,now that he has had his heart attack,i feel that if i live him,people in our small town,will think bad of me.

2007-04-20 15:26:00 · 15 answers · asked by mo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok here is the story my husband stole from a church and I cant seem to forgive him for it he says I should stand by him and forget he done it, but I can't do that. I ask him why he did it and he says he saw something he wanted so he took it. So my question is do I forgive him and for get about it or just let him go on like he is and act like nothing has happen.

2007-04-20 15:25:27 · 35 answers · asked by Natural 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-20 15:24:34 · 12 answers · asked by snapacookie 2 in Family

There is this HOT guy that really wants 2 eat me out and at first i thought it would be okay but now i dont no. I am a virgin and its not like i would be loosing my virginity and im sure it would feel sooo good but he is kind of been w/ a lot of girls, and i dont no if hell go around telling people i let him do that. I think i should but need some advice. Is a h.j. good enough for return?

2007-04-20 15:24:07 · 26 answers · asked by Cutie!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so my ex is being a huge JERK!!! It's gone WAY 2 far, hes called me fat and a ***** in front of every1, and slaps me!! it's horrible!! i dont want 2 file a restraining order(belive me i could with the things hes dun) because im friends with sum of his close friends. i need help. Please!!

2007-04-20 15:21:28 · 9 answers · asked by makgirl111 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We where together for 16 years met in highschool. We have two small kids girl and a boy. She started an affair with a coworker and left me for him. We live in the middle of nowhere in a very small town in Idaho. Hes a teacher and she works in the kitchen. Do these last should I divorce her? She told me she was bored and not happy but I think she was happy until she met him. Also she can't be on her own so if their relationship fails what is she going to do?

2007-04-20 15:19:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

please answer this. ive been crying myself to sleep.

2007-04-20 15:15:09 · 6 answers · asked by pinkgurl343 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok there is this guy at my school and he likes since the fith grade, But the thing is he is kinda big ( trying to find a better way to put it, sorry!) But i kinda like him, he is really nice and he gets me things that i want sometime that really nice of him, but i told him he doesnt have to. We started passing notes to each other writing poems and everything, but sometimes i feel rly awkard. so i dont know wether i like him or not. but me and him and his friends and my friend are going to the movies and bowling and i hope everything goes ok. so wat should i do?

2007-04-20 15:12:24 · 11 answers · asked by livenremember 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife is acting funny every night she sleeps in the closet under a pile of clothes and shoes. when I ask her about it she goes nuts and hides in the same closet sometimes she even eats in there. at wits end what should i do

2007-04-20 15:12:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

months,and then they come the loan, they have the good credit and the income,what do you all think about that?they want us to be happy to.

2007-04-20 15:11:42 · 8 answers · asked by monkey_green_park 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My gut feeling is that looks-wise i'm average and that it shouldn't be an issue, but i've gotten some odd results from this experiment I conducted. What i did was this: I put 3 different pictures on hotornot.com and received scores ranging between 8.3 and 9. I didn’t put much faith in these scores at first, but after examining other men who scored similarily I concluded that this score would be indicitive of a man who is probably capable of achieving dates with the opposite sex. So happy with these results, I signed up for match.com and proceeded to send “winks” to basically every girl within a 20 mile radius. The result? 100% rejection. Most rejected via not responding, but others took a step further and BLOCKED my account! All of this for a innocent “wink” saying “hi” or something tame like that… I did get 1 girl to initiate a wink with me, but she was some 19 year old overweight mexican illegal immigrant!

I don’t think my standards are too high either. I put some of the girls I liked on www.hotornot.com and they received scores averaging mostly 7’s. I’ve also had a few real-life encounters with “cute” girls (although not sex) and they generally considered me cute also. So I’m going after the “cute” girls and not the hot girls but I’m getting my *** rejected so hard on match.com? What gives?

2007-04-20 15:11:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive known this guy for like 3 years know and he is my best friend and super hott!!! Alll of our friendship i have hooked him up with my friends he liked but know I think i like him!! We were talkin about sex and how i dont understand it and he said he would teach me!! How do I make it so that he loves me like I love him???

2007-04-20 15:05:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating