Family & Relationships - 20 April 2007

...and i believe him.
At first he was sweet
Then yelled a lot
And now hes starting to physically hurt me. He knows hes doing it because right after he apoligizes about it and says he wont ever do it again. He loves me, i know he does and i love him more than anything.
I dont know what to do anymore. Ive had people ask me how i got bruises (that hes given me) and i have to lie about it. It makes me really sad.

But i REALLY cant live without him.
What should i do ?

2007-04-20 17:41:45 · 21 answers · asked by Danielle 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-20 17:41:01 · 14 answers · asked by Juliet 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I was finally feeling somewhat okay with mine then I see negative things on this website about it. I am 20 and a virgin and afraid of what my boyfriend will think =(

2007-04-20 17:40:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can u give me the name of any such pack available or what do i say in a medical store to get the pregnancy test kit.and the pack that i got says tht only 2drops of urine should be used to do the test.but their was no result?

2007-04-20 17:40:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is the 1 thing that makes a good and successful marrage

2007-04-20 17:38:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Alright now Im in high school and im not the kind of guy to do this, but I thought i might get some help on here. I dont usually have trouble talking to chicks/getting girlfriends but me and my girlfriend of awhile just broke up and Im just done w/ all of her sh!t.

I just started talking to this chick I was w/ back in Middle School (a few years ago). I dont really know what Im asking here but Im starting to like this girl again, alot. What can I do/say to see if shes getting what Im getting w/o it being like really awkward?

2007-04-20 17:36:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-20 17:30:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Been married for 15 years. My wife has been brainwashed by her dad for all of them. I had his blessing when we got married but ever since he has been in every part of our decisions. One call to her dad and she changes her mind. This has been on everthing from our cars, our house, our kids, my work, what color our house should be. The list is a mile long because it's been going on so long and it still is going on. The times at her parents house are close to unbearable. Her dad will insult me in front of me or behind my back- but what bugs me is my wife to this day has never stuck up for me. He has gotten worse over the years because I, very politely, told him to stay out of affairs. Things just get worse. The man is 66 years old and he lies like a bad 5 year old kid. Now he is at the point that he makes up stories and tells my wife what rude things I said to him and my wife seems to believe him. I love her but I can not take any more.

2007-04-20 17:29:29 · 10 answers · asked by joe b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

-that 'you have a hot button' when people put guilt on you.'
-that 'can you see that you have hot buttons?'
-that I react when people judge me
-sometimes people react more inappropraitely because of past hurts

-and ended by saying that I sure have strong opinions

I was not asking to be analyzed.. I was merely talking about a problem that I had and had resolved. And he said all this things... am I over reacting.. or is that offensive if someone would respond to you that way? I am not an rage person or out spoken, I am appropriate and a calm person.

2007-04-20 17:29:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He wants to have a no curfew now (his curfew is 1am). Am I being unfair because I still say no your curfew is 1am. What parent gives there 16 yr.old girl no curfew-can there be that much trust? Am I being unreasonable?Should I give him a no curfew?

2007-04-20 17:26:33 · 21 answers · asked by Daisy 2 in Family

Breaking their marriage vows to love, honor, cherish, obey for better or worse, in sickness or health, till death do us part?
Why would a man or woman want to put someone through all these three?

2007-04-20 17:26:22 · 27 answers · asked by Desyra 2 in Marriage & Divorce

The include very fragmented unusual statements such as "he will be walking out the door any minute" and "they call me on their break and I cant do it any more" Should I be worried about these statements. There are many more just as unusual.

2007-04-20 17:23:32 · 16 answers · asked by Matt 1 in Marriage & Divorce

heres a question for the women here. first off i do understand that trust is a vital thing in a relationship. now that being said in todays world where infidelity is an epidemic you would be a fool to not at least entertain the possibility that you spouse might cheat? so tell me if your man questions you about something that just doesnt seem kosar do you get mad as hell or do you secretly view that concern as a compliment and your mans affirmation that you are a desirable women that other men would love to have?? again i understand trust, but sometimes when you have a strange # on your phone or you seem sneaky about somethng we men cant help but wonder?? afterall when we do this arent we affirming that we still love and dont want to loose you!! dont castigate me about it just tell me your thoughts as it would apply to your own situation. and by the way all of these women on here that continually brag about running around sure dont help to ease a weary mind now do they???????

2007-04-20 17:21:42 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok this is gonna be pretty long so i hope everyone reads through this thoroughly.
Well there's this girl that i like very much i mean i think i'm in love with her i've been trying to get her since 9th grade but now we're about to end our 10th grade year and i finally confessed to her friday night before i get to the details on friday night i'm gonna geto from begining to end. Well anyways we have so much in common and we're actually best friends.well everyone that we know thinks we should go out and we acted like we were also. I invited her to my house many times and we cuddled and she'd lay her head in my lap at night and stuff when we watched movies like she would litterally start at one side of the couch when it started and we'd be close by the end of it. anyways. On friday she was supposed to come over but i told her she couldn't and i think she took it wrong. My mom says she likes me and she's never wrong. but i asked her out and on friday night she sounded happy and everything

2007-04-20 17:20:28 · 13 answers · asked by Therev_d 1 in Singles & Dating

I have very low self-confidence because I just don't think I'm pretty. From my picture on my 360 many people have told me I was cute, but I have trouble believing it. How can I boost my self-esteem?

2007-04-20 17:19:07 · 15 answers · asked by Rory 1 in Singles & Dating

A girl in my school is trying to "approach" me,at least,I think that way.We hardly talk in the school,the thing I don't understand that,she always offer to sit with me in the school bus,but it doesn't seem like she wants talke to me,she would put on her ipod as soon as she sit down.what I gonna do,what is she thinking?

2007-04-20 17:19:04 · 6 answers · asked by routi 2 in Singles & Dating

my name is ANISH..d-o-b is 21 feb 1982 , 2345hrs at trichur(kerala) and the girl whom i love is Deepti..her D.O.B is 05 May 1983, 0859 hrs at mumbai(ghatkopar)...When are we going to marry? Is there any hindrances in getting married? Will we lead a happy married life?

2007-04-20 17:18:24 · 5 answers · asked by anish a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

there is a girl in 1 of my classes and i think she likes me but not sure, all my friends sais she dus and she is always texting sayin she loves me and stuff

2007-04-20 17:17:57 · 12 answers · asked by Daniel W 1 in Singles & Dating

look i need to know if you ever flashed a guy for somehing he had that you wanted and how old were you?

2007-04-20 17:17:54 · 16 answers · asked by Miss Casey 4 in Friends

2007-04-20 17:17:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy but I think he likes someone else. He lives a few blocks over and I think he likes this girl he met on my space. He told me that he liked me over the phone but then he was talking to this girl that he likes too. So I don't know if he lied to me or if he just likes her too. Am I just being stupid?? Please help me.

2007-04-20 17:17:02 · 4 answers · asked by !~!GoTHPuNkChICk!~! 3 in Singles & Dating

what are the chances he would leave after a few years of marriage or start to cheat on me?

2007-04-20 17:17:01 · 12 answers · asked by sweet sensation 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Even when someone did me dirt, if I ever loved that person, it took years to stop loving that person, even though I was sure never to make contact again. Do you feel the same way?

2007-04-20 17:16:02 · 22 answers · asked by michael p 3 in Singles & Dating

She divorced a few years ago and wont get back into the game, I want her to be happy, but I don't know how to help?

2007-04-20 17:15:37 · 23 answers · asked by epire_earth 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-20 17:14:01 · 5 answers · asked by . 1 in Singles & Dating

i think I may have made her mad. But I thought I was just going along with what she wanted? My girlfriend has been planning to leave me, I know it. So I was going to try with this girl online, but what should I do?

2007-04-20 17:13:43 · 5 answers · asked by epire_earth 2 in Singles & Dating

I could just kill him!! My ex came over to pick up our boys. When he got here the kids were thrying to show off for him. Next thing I know they are fist fighting. They are 10 and 11. I tried to stop them, there dad just stood there saying if they are going to fight, I don't want them coming over. When I try to tell him that our 11 year old said that he hated him, he won't talk about it. So he starts going out to his car saying I can't deal with this, If they are going to be fighting I am not going to take them. I said you have to, their your kids too. He said I don't care, take me to court. I told him what kind of man are you that you can't handle your kids. Then he gets all weary looking and says I tried to talk to them. I hate it because you can tell he really does not want to deal with it. I told him seeing your kids 4 days a month does not make you a parent. He only lives 15 min. away, he can see them anytime. He ended up taking them. I feel sad because the boys need a stong dad.

2007-04-20 17:13:29 · 5 answers · asked by Teslajuliet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

It is fair to say I am not being an ogre or any other kind of monster, but my romantic history is very rocky. Nothing has ever worked out short-term or otherwise. I could have had one-night stands, but something always went wrong.

I am starting to think it is a self-fulfilling prophecy. I expect something to go wrong and therefore it does. My last "relationship" apparently ended because even though I wanted sex very badly I was unable to allow it to happen. It has nothing to do with morality. It is more like an inhibition.

I have no trouble talking to women. My problem seems to lie in the follow through. Why can't I let myself go?

2007-04-20 17:12:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

someone told me that most aries are.

2007-04-20 17:08:16 · 2 answers · asked by mary tyler moo 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-20 17:08:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings