If you were telling someone about a problem you had, but had resolved. Would you be offened if they said?

Question

-that 'you have a hot button' when people put guilt on you.'
-that 'can you see that you have hot buttons?'
-that I react when people judge me
-sometimes people react more inappropraitely because of past hurts

-and ended by saying that I sure have strong opinions

I was not asking to be analyzed.. I was merely talking about a problem that I had and had resolved. And he said all this things... am I over reacting.. or is that offensive if someone would respond to you that way? I am not an rage person or out spoken, I am appropriate and a calm person.

Answer 1

Depends on the person youre telling your story to.
If that person has a tendency to 'analyze'...they are in fact listening to you.
Consider the source...the person who you talk to.
peace
I might be offended if I 'disagreed' with the analysis
or if I expected a different reaction from that person.
One thing we have no control over is the other person's reactions or responses to us. :)

Answer 2

its annoying when they overanalzye you but just blow it off. if you say anything then this type of person will just go and say " see my point, now your overly snestive too " lol i had one guy like this doing this all the time . the best thing to do is nod and say wow thanks for the tip - like your really internsted but in reality u can roll your eyes in your head mentally and not care about them. after all why dont they look in a mirror, who are they to judge.

Answer 3

sounds like he has alot of 'issues' when it comes to you but then again it also sounds like he's a tad interested..YOU have obviously been on his mind