Family & Relationships - 20 April 2007

I spoke to my bf twice today. In the morning and around 5 o'clock and he said that he and his family were going to hi summer house out on Long Island for the night. I havent heard from him since and ive called a few times and i get no reply. im worried if he is okay or if he may be sleeping but usally he calls before going to sleep. I might text his sister to see if they are okay...should i or is that stalkerish? im just worried!

2007-04-20 17:07:50 · 16 answers · asked by mitlilkizbi 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-20 17:07:47 · 12 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I was just told by one of my bridesmaids that she got accepted to do a semester abroad for school. Catch is she's got to leave 3 weeks before my wedding. She never told me that she was going for this, let alone that it would conflict with her being a bridesmaid.
So since she'll be gone i have to find a replacement and the wedding is less than 4 mts. away.
My problem is how do I ask someone to replace her? I'm afraid that my friend will think that she wasn't important enough to make my "first cut" for bridesmaid, but she's a backup and that i didn't want her there.
Not to mention it's a lot of extra money to ask her to pay. I already decided that i'd pay for her dress, bc it's $200, but she'd still need shoes and hair and make-up, on top of getting to my wedding which is out of town and would require a hotel as well.

So any advise on how to ask and not make her feel like a backup, second choice? Or what i should do here?

2007-04-20 17:07:23 · 7 answers · asked by Dawnwalker 3 in Weddings

Me and my mom always get into fights over stupid things…. It’s usually about money, my friends or boys. Yesterday we got into a fight over a $30(Canadian) present that I bought for my best friend. I don’t think $30 is too much for a present. She is just depressed and she likes to make a big deal out of little things. So yesterday she kept yelling and swearing at me when we were driving to the library… I got mad and I started yelling at her too. She got very mad and asked me to get out of the car but I didn’t so she parked the car and left me in the car. I was in the car by myself for an hour but she never came back. It was around 9:30. I didn’t know what to do I didn’t even have the keys to my house. In the darkness i started walking to my house which was 30 min away from where I was. I walked by a police station and decided to ask them for help. They heard my story and asked my parents who were at home to come to the police station.

2007-04-20 17:06:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-04-20 17:06:42 · 17 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7 in Marriage & Divorce

i left my spouse cause he was saying very hurtful things to me we been apart 6 mnths he saids he loves bt before he said he didnt im confused

2007-04-20 17:06:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-20 17:05:37 · 5 answers · asked by shorty_310 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 13... Is that O.K.?

2007-04-20 17:05:25 · 22 answers · asked by Peaches 2 in Singles & Dating

this girl I'm dating is a drama chick weve only been together a month or so. she always starts stuff with any girl I talk to. even if its just friendly. why do girls act crazy over other girls. Im gona be dun with this chick i think.

2007-04-20 17:02:50 · 13 answers · asked by hoowa 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-20 17:00:13 · 22 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend works and we live together, we're suppose to split bills down the middle and pay for it, but everytime he gets paid, he'll buy all types of useless things like candy, energy drinks, a lighter, or cigars...and what really is bad is that he smokes cigarettes and pot....they're both expensive, he'll buy that several times a week, so when it comes to bills, he'll have maybe $50 to pay the bills, and it leaves me paying all the bills, If I still have money left, he wants to spend that too..I've talked to him about it so many times, and he doesn't listen......usually, he doesn't tell me how much he's made, he tries to keep it from me, I tell him that he shouldn't have to keep anything away from me, we're suppose to be a team, he calls me a golddigger, but really, I just want all bills paid on time and paid equally....what should I do????

2007-04-20 16:59:57 · 12 answers · asked by nikki 2 in Family

women did you wait until mariage before having sex and if you did what were your experiences?

2007-04-20 16:59:38 · 19 answers · asked by sweet sensation 3 in Marriage & Divorce

being alone forever, or always getting hurt?
just looking for everyones opinion.

2007-04-20 16:58:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-20 16:58:49 · 8 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I moved from our home town, of 45 years, a year ago to be closer to our jobs and I thought we would be able to have some "our time" with the move. She is now 5 minutes from work and I am 30 minutes, one way. We use to drive 35 minutes for her and 1hr 15 minutes for me, one way. We are currently renting a house in a nice town. Now we are looking to buy a house and my wife wants to move back to our home town to be closer to the Grandchildren who live in our old town. I want to buy a house where we currently live. With the move last year my wife thought she would be ok, but now that things will be more permanent with a home purchase, she now wants to move back. Am I being selfish wanting to be closer to work yet only 35 minutes from the Granchildren? Should I move back to save the marriage? Help!

2007-04-20 16:57:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-04-20 16:57:04 · 4 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7 in Marriage & Divorce

there is a really HOT guy in my class. i think he likes me but i am not sure. and i was wondering how to approach him.

2007-04-20 16:56:22 · 5 answers · asked by Riley G 1 in Singles & Dating

On tuesday this week a got a call from my husband and I told him that I did something that I feel was good for the family, I did not spend money I told him that I ask for advise to somebody because I need to know why our life is going up and down, we have done this together before and he never got mad, when I told him that I did it by myself and that this person told me to get close to God and everything in my life will change, he started telling me ....... so I hang up and since then we havent talk, we are in the same house, same bed, but we dont talk, dont even look each other and he does not even try to tell me nothing, what do I do, I dont feel I can be the first to start a conversation, I always do it and I dont want to do it this time

2007-04-20 16:56:01 · 10 answers · asked by mercedes c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-20 16:53:45 · 8 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-20 16:52:24 · 10 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-20 16:51:01 · 7 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-04-20 16:47:26 · 18 answers · asked by Ajay 1 in Marriage & Divorce

They are something else. He and I have a great relationship. They cannot get over a divorce which happened 6 yrs ago. They were totally concerned for her and her only when he nearly died in the hospital. Nevermind I have been sleeping with him for 5 yrs. I called to find out how he was doing and was surprised whtn the nurse handed her the phone and introduced her as his wife. She was reviewing his medical chart with the nurse claiming to be his wife. She comes to his family reunions and shows up without her husband is what blows my mind. Doesnt she feel a little bit out of place?
When he got out of the hospital, she offered to spend the nite to take care of him. He told her he didnt need her. The kids, who by the way are not hers, thought it would be a great idea.
What is going on here? Is it me or is it him?

2007-04-20 16:46:35 · 4 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-20 16:46:20 · 14 answers · asked by jazzi3-jay 1 in Friends

Our friends have a pool and 3 daughters. Our friends returned home and found their daughters , our daughters and three other girls laying by their pool with two of the girls boyfriends licking the bottoms of the girls feet and that the boys did not mind doing it. They were swapping boy friends doing this... When they were asked, the girls told the parents that this was something they all enjoyed doing...and they would also get the guys to suck their toes...in public when they could get away with it....even in clubs....the girls would have the guys rub their feet and then do this....when their feet became tired.....I asked my daughters abou tthis and they told me that "this was kind of an agreement" between girls who enjoyed..."they just share their boyfriends???????? is this normal????? Please tell me if any of you know about this...is this normal...???

2007-04-20 16:44:55 · 14 answers · asked by prozacisforall 1 in Friends

My hubby get's home from work and the first thing out of his mouth is something negative like the house is a little messy, or Dinner isn't quiet ready. I have 3 toddlers to take care of and I go to school at night I'm doing the best I can. What do I do??

2007-04-20 16:44:35 · 19 answers · asked by j vantes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So...not to get into too many details but im in a complicated situation with me and a very good guy friend of mine...but some stuff that happens between us confusses me more than anything. i want to know whats going on in his mind....but im definetly not the type of girl that wants to pick at an open wound if thats the right saying to put here......im afraid if i ask him whats up that he will get scared away....so my question basically is do i ask him the questions i want to or do i just let things run their course?

2007-04-20 16:41:30 · 1 answers · asked by Jessi G 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-20 16:41:25 · 1 answers · asked by Night Nurse 1 in Singles & Dating

Well.. my fiance now. We've been dating for almost a year. He's gone out of state for 4 months, and coming back in a week. Im 20 and he's 8 years older. We only had sex ones before. But im still shy about it since we did it one time and he'll be a changed person when he comes back. I do want to but am shy and he'll probably want to. What do you guys think?

2007-04-20 16:38:34 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-20 16:35:43 · 14 answers · asked by ashley m 1 in Friends