women did you wait until mariage before having sex and if you did what were your experiences?
2007-04-20 16:59:38 · 19 answers · asked by sweet sensation 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no.
I've known women who do only to be cheated on by their husbands, and get divorced after only a few years of marriage. I know it sounds cynical, but to me why save it unless the person your with is willing to do the same?
2007-04-20 17:03:00 · answer #1 · answered by morebidd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I didn't wait and I do not regret not waiting...
The first time I had sex was both wonderful and nervewracking... I had heard horror stories about the pain and blood... For me there was very little pain, no more than getting a hard pinch.. and almost no blood just enough to cause a quarter sized stain on the sheet...
The man I chose I was in love with (although later on the relationship didn't work out we remain friends to this day) He was quite a bit older than I was (7 years) he took things very slowly and lovingly.. He took the responsibility (yes I think it should be looked at as a responsibility so the proper care is taken) seriously...
Whether a woman aits for marriage or not I believe the person they choose should be chosen with thought... Not just something that happened in the backseat with old what's his name.
2007-04-21 00:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by Diane (PFLAG) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did not. I had planned to.....but men are tricky creatures when we are young, lol.
I was in a relationship for many years, and now am engaged. I've only been with the two men.....but I really wish I would have waited. I regret every single time with my ex....it was never right. We both knew it.....I'm not sure what we were thinking. I think the fact that we lost our virginity to each other is what kept us together for so long.
If I could go back in time and change things....I'd definitely wait.
2007-04-21 00:17:31 · answer #3 · answered by jezyka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I did not. I wish I'd waited until I was more responsible about it because I was foolish (but lucky, no pregnancy or STDs). I don't have any regrets though. I had a few partners before I married the first time...
2007-04-21 00:03:21 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I did not wait. In the beginning the attraction was purely physical anyway and neither one of us ever planned on getting married at the time.
2007-04-21 00:07:00 · answer #5 · answered by emeraldbeach243 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but I didn't sleep around, and didn't sleep with anyone I didn't love or was with less than 2 years. I am glad that I did it. I wouldn't want to wonder after being married, what it would be like with someone else. I now know it was terrible with anyone other than my husband. Very valuable info to have. Trust me.
2007-04-21 03:22:01 · answer #6 · answered by Canadian Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I already had two children from previous relationships before I married for the first time.
2007-04-21 00:02:26 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have sex with the guy I married until after we were married....but I had sex with someone else before he came along.
At least one of us had a clue.
2007-04-21 00:03:43 · answer #8 · answered by T Leeves 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I thought I would, but didnt. I did marry the man I lost my virginity to and have not had sex with anyone else.
2007-04-21 00:02:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've heard from others who did and it way better because then this guy dosnt think your some pig of the street and that you mean bussiness. Its safer for your and hi health's.
2007-04-21 00:03:06 · answer #10 · answered by marlowecheerlead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋