2007-04-20 17:06:42 · 17 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe I was a bit unclear I was just mentioning this because I have answered many questions where the husband or the wife, or the BF/GF runs off to friends or family to discuss personal issues in the relationship that is all. Making the other person feel humiliated. I was just wondering what others think?
2007-04-20 17:18:17 · update #1
Amen brother! Say no more I know exactly what you are talking about. Doesn't that sh!t just **** you off?
2007-04-20 17:14:52 · answer #1 · answered by Millionaire in training 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I'm a talker. The more people I talk to about my problems, the better I feel. When my husband and I argue, he clams up, so I have no options BUT to talk to other people. We both talk to other people to deal with it. We always end up talking to each other, just after we have talked to other people.
I respect your feelings, but if your partner is the way I am, you need to respect their feelings as well if you want the relationship to work. Hopefully you can find a happy medium.
2007-04-21 00:24:45 · answer #2 · answered by LabsnBostons 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that most issues can and should be resolved between the people involved. Though I do think a time comes when you may need more help.
2007-04-21 00:09:25 · answer #3 · answered by Мəəĸά 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not really realistic as people look for for advice/support from different sources. Maybe you are more more private than the other person - don't expect them to be that way.
2007-04-21 00:10:13 · answer #4 · answered by ScarlettBegonias 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep it shouldn't leave the home, or the shrink's office. That's why I don't bash my husband, or talk about our arguments or discussions to my parents, friends, or co-workers. What's the point? It only leaves a negative impression on the people who you talk to about it.
2007-04-21 00:10:07 · answer #5 · answered by SillierKimmie! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think depending on problem it should stay between you and your spouse, but if the problem escalates to bigger things, to the point where verbal, physical, mental and emotional abuse is involved from either party, yes tell someone...
2007-04-21 00:11:05 · answer #6 · answered by Esencia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. I only answer the questions on relationships. I'll never ask.
2007-04-21 00:10:05 · answer #7 · answered by BamBam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps the most serious of problems but you know any little thing your girl is going to share it will all her girlfriends.
2007-04-21 00:09:21 · answer #8 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's a private and serious matter, yes, I think it should be kept between you two or a pro.
2007-04-21 00:12:45 · answer #9 · answered by Maricel S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dosent bother me, as long as hes not talking about something that he hasn't already discussed with me, and as long as it isnt too too personal.
2007-04-21 00:10:12 · answer #10 · answered by ☺☻☺☻☺☻ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋