Our friends have a pool and 3 daughters. Our friends returned home and found their daughters , our daughters and three other girls laying by their pool with two of the girls boyfriends licking the bottoms of the girls feet and that the boys did not mind doing it. They were swapping boy friends doing this... When they were asked, the girls told the parents that this was something they all enjoyed doing...and they would also get the guys to suck their toes...in public when they could get away with it....even in clubs....the girls would have the guys rub their feet and then do this....when their feet became tired.....I asked my daughters abou tthis and they told me that "this was kind of an agreement" between girls who enjoyed..."they just share their boyfriends???????? is this normal????? Please tell me if any of you know about this...is this normal...???
2007-04-20 16:44:55 · 14 answers · asked by prozacisforall 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you dont say their ages. feet and toes are a very sexually arousing part of the body. I know this sounds a little gross, but it is defintaly true. if you dont believe me wash your feet and get in bed and let you husband slowly caress and kiss/lick/suck your feet and toes and see how sex crazed you become. Yes, its normal, that they have stumbled onto a fetish thats not widely talked about. How you handle it is entirely up to you.
2007-04-20 16:55:37 · answer #1 · answered by ICECOLD 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It seems the foot fetish is the most common fetish in the US, so it's not *that* weird they are into foot licking, massages etc. It's a pretty safe form of cuddling, as long as they all like it and especially when their feet are clean as at the pool... anything 'fetish' is often considered gross but it really isn't that bad as long as everyone involved enjoys it, many fetishes are pretty harmless really.
I don't know if the sharing is a good thing, this shouldn't hurt but how far will they take that, if/when it goes beyond feet, sharing of course increases the risk of STD. Not sure what age they are and if they're going that far yet but you may at least want to address that with them.
2007-04-21 10:04:44 · answer #2 · answered by Sheriam 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, first off this is just weird, and next thing is it maybe a control thing. Umm and it they are doing this than think of all the other stuff they might be doing when you are not around. Little weird if you ask me. Why in the world would you be switching boyfriends to. Weird. Sounds like there is more going on than what you think. I would be talkin to them alittle more about this.
Im sure there is stuff you dont know about going on.
Good luck with all that.
2007-04-20 21:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by Bobbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, the fact that they share boyfriends is not a common occurance...Now the attraction to feet...Some people have foot fetishes where they become aroused by things like that. That can be seen as 'somewhat' normal.
2007-04-20 16:49:55 · answer #4 · answered by System 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I am out of touch with the kids today. But my first thought is that it is an act that metaphorical for sex. You know, something "intimate", but "without breakings the rules dad gave us". Could be that the kids have found a new way to express their curiosity about things sexual.
You know what I mean?
And, oh yes, it does seem weird.
2007-04-20 16:53:47 · answer #5 · answered by theone 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
WHAT???
1 - That's dirty.
2 - That's wierd.
3 - Why didn't you freak out on your daughters? They are disrespecting themselves! And in public!
2007-04-20 16:48:24 · answer #6 · answered by a-mac 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Duh, It's called getting turned on. This is something that should be done in the privacy of home not public. I'm surprised they're even allowed in clubs with this kind of behavior.
If they're sharing boyfriends, it's called swapping and they're into some strange kinky stuff
2007-04-20 16:57:56 · answer #7 · answered by Judy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say FEET FETISH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I've heard of people sharing boyfriends and girlfriends but I haven't heard of anything about all that other stuff. How old are they? britney12692@yahoo.com
2007-04-20 16:54:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is not normal
1-nasty
2-boys
3- she is to young for all of this
4-don't take it so personal
5- they are disrespecting themselves in public
Tell her she is going to fast and she needs to slow her role okay.........
2007-04-20 17:17:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well one how old r they ..im 14 and if they r older it might be somethin that gets them horny who knows ..but i wouldnt share my boyfriend and yea i gotta boyfriend .. i dont think it is normal at all
2007-04-20 16:50:49 · answer #10 · answered by Cai 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋