I spoke to my bf twice today. In the morning and around 5 o'clock and he said that he and his family were going to hi summer house out on Long Island for the night. I havent heard from him since and ive called a few times and i get no reply. im worried if he is okay or if he may be sleeping but usally he calls before going to sleep. I might text his sister to see if they are okay...should i or is that stalkerish? im just worried!
2007-04-20 17:07:50 · 16 answers · asked by mitlilkizbi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
STOP CALLING HIM, YOU ARE DRIVING HIM AND HIS FAMILY CRAZY!!!
2007-04-20 17:10:28 · answer #1 · answered by myjamsandwich 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My gosh, give the guy a break. If he never gets the chance to miss you, you will never be missed, you will be avoided. Believe it or not, you seem to be very controlling and refuse to accept the fact that maybe he is capable of going somewhere without your watchdog-worrying type of behavior. Leave the worry to his Mom. It is unbecoming of a girlfriend. This type of intrusiveness is a "nice" way to try to force him to talk to you. Leave him alone, will ya, as you are looking like a really desperate girl without a life of her own. This can be seen as suffocating and is a major turnoff for guys. Your worry is the "sunny side" of control and he is apparently getting sick of it. Get your mind on something else, read, develop another interest besides just him, get some physical activity going even if it is just taking a walk. It will make you much more attractive to him when he returns.
2007-04-20 17:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by PZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's nice that you are worried but he probably is just busy with his family or maybe he's not getting good service if he's away from home. Try texting his sister just asking if everything is ok at the house. This is a nice gesture, it doesn't seem stalkerish to me if you are just geniunly concerned for him.
2007-04-20 17:10:59 · answer #3 · answered by citygurl8503 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think calling twice in one day is over doing it. He told you he would be gone, so what is the problem? I also think if you keep hounding him like this, he will stop calling back...if he hasn't already?
What or why are you worried? I think it is more that you want to know what he is doing every moment of the day, and if I were him I would cut off this relationship now because you are too controlling of his life....and not responsible to be on your own.
Your own insecurity is really showing.
2007-04-20 17:14:02 · answer #4 · answered by samantha 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 08:08:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure he is fine and his family probably wants him to spend time with them, so give them some space. I'm sure he will text or call when he gets some free time. If you spoke with him twice already, that is enough. You don't want his family to think you are too pushy.
2007-04-20 17:15:25 · answer #6 · answered by Shanna h 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh goodness, do not call anymore and do not text his sister. yes that is very stalkerish and on top of it you are going to make his family think you are crazy. just wait a day and see if he calls.
2007-04-20 17:12:28 · answer #7 · answered by fortheloveoforange 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just leave a message saying you were calling to make sure he got there safely and to call you as soon as you can and just wait for the call..If you are getting really worried then you coul text his sister and make sure they are ok..I would wait for him to call though just cause they might be asleep after the trip.
2007-04-20 17:11:29 · answer #8 · answered by Colie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not stalkerish, but i think that if he's going to his summer house, let him be. Its a break from everyday life, he's probably relaxing from school/work, "me" time or something like that
2007-04-20 17:10:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait until tomorrow afternoon before you do anything else.
Id just call him or text him tomorrow and say something like you were hoping he was having a nice trip.
2007-04-20 17:12:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the family went to dinner, with friends friends.
If you don't hear from him by tomorrow afternoon, call his sister.
2007-04-20 17:17:21 · answer #11 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋