being alone forever, or always getting hurt?
just looking for everyones opinion.
2007-04-20 16:58:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
always getting hurt. take it from someone who knows.
2007-04-20 17:02:08 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why answer that question when the worst was never mentioned! That would be having a negative self defeating outlook on a life that could be extremely rewarding. Life is and has always been about risk when it comes to relationships. It is so much better if you work on finding and developing your own interests and hobbies without doting on being lonely or hurt. Anytime you can talk intelligently about something that is important to you, you are a person people will like to know. Don't focus on the negative, focus on treating yourself to all the entertaining, relaxing, fun, and fulfilling activities all around you. Join groups and be physically active. This will give you the self confidence to be comfortable enough with yourself to take risks in relationships with others. Be happy where you are first and the rest will fall into place. Trust me!
2007-04-21 00:10:10 · answer #2 · answered by PZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people don't mind being alone forever....rather than being hurt...
I feel you have to Try at something with all you have..and if it doesn't work out..it wasn't meant to be. Time to move on. Life is about changes, growing as a person, learning new things, and getting hurt unfortunately is part of life when taking a risk*at love...
there are no guarantees as we all know...so we try to just live life to the fullest., everyday....Keep on Smilin*
2007-04-21 00:04:39 · answer #3 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naturally, getting hurt would be worse. But then, no one has ever been able to be alone "forever". You may be feeling bad right now....but it will not always feel like that. You will find happiness again.
2007-04-21 00:04:12 · answer #4 · answered by Merry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit ur crying...
your gonna get hurt no matter what...
stop thinking every guy u get with is the guy ur gonna marry...
i hate when girls think omg im gonna marry u...
i always have to tell them...
to stop talking about the future...
wut happens happens...
were probably not gonna be together forever...
no matter wut...
no relationship is serious...
u gotta keep it very casual...
cuz the ones where u agree to be serious about it are the ones that never make it.
2007-04-21 00:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by Jim J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm.... That's a tough one. I would hate being alone, But always getting hurt means you don't choose good guys!!!
KJ
2007-04-21 00:02:12 · answer #6 · answered by Peaches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being alone forever.
Because if you are alone, you probably never tried. And you'll never know what could've been. Knowing that you missed your chance is a lot worse i think.
But it goes both ways i guess.
2007-04-21 00:04:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting hurt
2007-04-21 00:02:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest, always getting hurt. girls are usually the ones to get hurt. so, good luck with whatever's happening
2007-04-21 00:05:27 · answer #9 · answered by ~~xoxox*jazmin*xoxox♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to experience getting hurt, so that when you find the right one, you can appreciate it.
2007-04-21 00:02:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋