2007-04-20 16:52:24 · 10 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The answer is, some people have no idea that it is not other (baby) people's responsibility to solve their problem. All these problematic/desperate kind of people know at the time is to solve their problem no matter what. If there is no love there should be no baby as well. And that's just being fair for every human being. (Old born and new born and unborn) It's better to fight each own battle in regards to these kind of problems. Don't involve other people (especially the unborn one) in this bad situation.
2007-04-20 17:21:53 · answer #1 · answered by earth angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some people feel that is what is missing in their relationship.Truth is baby only complicates the marriage.A child should be brought into this world with love not to try to save a marriage.
2007-04-20 16:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by sharen d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its pathetic & down right selfish. My parents tried to 'make it work for the kids' but it ended up being way worse for us & for them.
As for the selfish freaks who think having a baby will save the relationship, well, its just an act of desperation built out of a want for not losing.
Sometimes people (in my opinon) think having a baby will reunite their love or reignite the passion flame, sometimes (again my opinion) people do it to entrap. Sometimes (again...my opinion) they are just doing it to get the upper hand.
Its all wrong if you ask me & if you look at the statistics...the relationships rarely survive & if they do...there is no loyalty.
2007-04-20 17:10:10 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the problem IS that they are having trouble having a child and that's what they want....together. Having a child otherwise will not fix a failing marriage. Why do they feel that way? Dunno, using a 'child' as a 'glue' to fix a marriage???
It's not only self centered ...its cruel to make a child on purpose and know that the marriage sucks and that's what the child has to endure.
2007-04-20 17:00:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might wonder, “How can a marriage be constantly enriched?” We build our marriages with endless friendship, confidence, and integrity and also by ministering to and sustaining each other in our difficulties. Adam, speaking of Eve, said, “This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh” (Genesis 2:23). There are a few simple, relevant questions that each person, whether married or contemplating marriage, should honestly ask in an effort to become “one flesh.” They are:
First, am I able to think of the interest of my marriage and spouse first before I think of my own desires?
Second, how deep is my commitment to my companion, aside from any other interests?
Third, is he or she my best friend?
Fourth, do I have respect for the dignity of my spouse as a person of worth and value?
Fifth, do we quarrel over money? Money itself seems neither to make a couple happy, nor the lack of it, necessarily, to make them unhappy. A quarrel over money is often a symbol of selfishness.
Sixth, is there a spiritually sanctifying bond between us?
2007-04-20 16:55:16 · answer #5 · answered by Derek J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because they live in a fantasy world where they believe babies cause immature and irresponsible people to grow up and open their eyes to the realities around them.
2007-04-20 16:56:05 · answer #6 · answered by Emily Dew 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they are selfish, desperate, and not too bright. Anyone who uses a child to save a relationship certainly doesn't have the child as their top priority...but it should be.
2007-04-20 16:56:21 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are fulfilling a need they are not getting from their partner?
2007-04-20 17:29:50 · answer #8 · answered by aussiedeb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stupidity or desperation.
2007-04-20 16:55:25 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are morons....I feel sorry for their children.
2007-04-20 16:55:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋