ok so my ex is being a huge JERK!!! It's gone WAY 2 far, hes called me fat and a ***** in front of every1, and slaps me!! it's horrible!! i dont want 2 file a restraining order(belive me i could with the things hes dun) because im friends with sum of his close friends. i need help. Please!!
2007-04-20 15:21:28 · 9 answers · asked by makgirl111 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he makes sure none of his friends that i'm friends with are around when he duz this. He also makes sure that when he insults me, i dont have a comeback
2007-04-20 16:29:36 · update #1
Friends with his friends??? So what?? He cannot hit you. What are you talking about?? You allow him to hit and disrespect you because of his friends?? You don't need them or him---so find new people and things to do. call the cops if you have to...he is a jerk. I know you won't do what i say--so at least try to not get hurt---someday he will do this to a girl with BIG brothers who will fix his wagon.. Good luck
2007-04-20 15:40:14 · answer #1 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never let a guy lay his hands on you IN ANY WAY other than a way that feels good!!!!! Who cares what he calls you or says about you...they're just words said because he needs attention. Someone who out right is abusing you like this needs to have the authorities involved before things get worse. Get the damn restraining order ... now! If his friends are true friends, they wouldn't allow this kind of behavior to be going on. You don't need friends who let you go through this without saying something to him. They are not friends to you then! Protect yourself & soon.
2007-04-20 15:29:22 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Callie ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard, but the best thing to do is file charges if he's slapping/hitting you - that's abuse. If his friends are okay with the way that he treats you, they're not your friends....so, if after you file charges and a restraining order, and they don't talk to you again, you're better off without them because true friends only want the best for one another.
2007-04-20 15:31:58 · answer #3 · answered by Sue B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter that you're friends with some of his friends. If his friends are going to become hostile towards you because you want him to stop hurting you, then you shouldn't be friends with them in the first place. You gotta worry about yourself. They should be supporting you. File that restraining order if it's gone too far. If you want to talk more about it, send me an e-mail: eckm0032@umn.edu
Heath
2007-04-20 15:25:49 · answer #4 · answered by heath e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has slapped you, especially in front of people, you SHOULD file a restraining order.
If you don't want to, tell all your friends that if he ever does it again, or if he continues to harass you, that you WILL. It'll get back to him. And if he does it again, then file it. There is no reason for you to tolerate that.
2007-04-20 15:26:05 · answer #5 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File the restraining order. If the people who are friends with both of you take up for him abusing you, then they aren't very good friends at all.
2007-04-20 15:28:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have him arrested for assault and battery, the hell with the friends, if they expect you to take that kind of treatment, they aren't very good friends to begin with.
2007-04-20 15:26:06 · answer #7 · answered by seniorchiefretired 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well maybe tell him to stop ....but please that never works so just ignore him or tell him that you will file a restraining order and he will get scared but you won't really do it,do this because he has messed w/you so it is your turn to mess w/him
2007-04-20 15:26:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you respect yourself you will do whatever it takes to show him that you do not deserve this and he has no right to treat you like that. you are not his *****.
2007-04-20 15:28:48 · answer #9 · answered by parveeahmed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋