because i'm starting to lose faith in god cause i feel depressed about being lonly and i try to hard and always fail and nobody likes me or even checks me out anymore his playing with my feelings i know it cause more and more kids my age have a gf or bf and i get to watch them walk by me everyday, it feels like a ***** slap in the face to me
2007-04-20 15:32:45 · 14 answers · asked by Alex 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im 18 and a virgin.Im also Atheist.
Stop beliving in god and try and get rich.
2007-04-20 15:37:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
OK, LISTEN. God has someone special for EVERYONE. You just have to wait until the time is right, and he'll tell you she's the one. You can't have a gf right on the spot. And, some people are having gf's and bf's just because they want some teen love, and attraction, and liking them. I'm in the same spot where you are. I've never had a bf before. BUT I WILL NEVER LOSE MY FAITH OF GOD BECAUSE OF THAT. It just takes time, you're young dude. Don't lose faith because you can't get a gf. It takes time when he says she's the one. You'll find someone. Don't worry. Just wait.
I hoped I helped
Good Luck
2007-04-20 22:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by TempoBronze124 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let your faith have anything to do with women!!
Faith will bring you the right woman, she is just not here yet.
God has a plan for you and me and until we find out what that is we are just wondering around in this life but don't lose your faith in god....
are you sure that your thinking that it's a slap in the face, or is it a reminder of what you have coming for you? Look at it that way, you are going to be one happy man one day, and sure to make some woman proud to stand by your side... Patience!
2007-04-20 22:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by ohdarnitsmeagain 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont really believ in god, but u r never alone, u will always have ur family right beside u, and ur friends... and there is some1 especial for u out there. u r just too young, and u ve started living ur life. don't try to have a girlfriend just because ur friends have one.. be with some1 because u really like that person and not because u wanna show her off as if she was a chain of gold to ur friends. maybe, try to join a club u really enjoy, like i dont know are u into sports? if u like any sports... joi nthe team, try to meet new girls, u ll see, there's someone especial out there for u... and whenever u feel alone, remember that it is sometimes better to be alone than having a bad company... good luck, and i know how u feel, i always feel alone... but honestly... that's more because i've always chosen to be alone, not becaues i "am" alone... u will never be alone if u approach to ur school friends, or other peopel, they won't reject u... and if they do, don't pay attention to them, there will always be some people who will enjoy ur company
:D
2007-04-20 22:43:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're young, your time will come. If not highschool, maybe college. Don't rush things. If you're a teenager, you might even be better off without a relationship of that type. Because alot of teens go through girlfriends and boyfriends like old socks and well, that can be stressful at your age.
2007-04-20 22:37:41 · answer #5 · answered by LaissezFaire 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait. You're losing faith in God because you don't have a girlfriend? What will happen when something bad happens to you?
2007-04-20 22:36:23 · answer #6 · answered by Pancakes 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
oh yes...of course but relax man you don't have to have a girl friend right away and it may be years before you meet the right one go out with friends and try to enjoy life a little
2007-04-20 22:38:09 · answer #7 · answered by Arlene v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God has a special person for everyone. It's just finding that person that's the hard part
2007-04-20 22:36:30 · answer #8 · answered by Amy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does God have someone special for me?.........
GOD I HOPE NOT!!!!!!!
Geez my parents are always trying to match me up with someone.
When I want someone I will find someone on my own thank you.....
Till then I am happy to enjoy my single life.
2007-04-20 22:45:31 · answer #9 · answered by Spikey and Scruffy's Mummy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you won't get off your butt, go out where you can be noticed and get a bf.
And this is God's fault how?
Sounds like you're just making excuses for being lazy.
Romance is hard work.
2007-04-20 22:37:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes he does and he will bring you to her or him when the time is right. God will do it in his time not yours, be patient and grateful he has not forgotten you, he can count the hairs on your head.
2007-04-20 22:38:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋