she never talks to anyone. shes so lonley, my friends and i go to talk to her but she turns her head away and doesnt talk. she hasnt talked in 4 years, she's always kept so quiet, the only time she talks is when the teacher tells her too.
shes insecure with her voice, thats why shes scared to talk. how to help her?
2007-04-20 15:45:43 · 6 answers · asked by Malina h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
All you can do is reach out to her. Show her love. If she rejects it, there's not much you can do. Try asking if you can sit with her at lunch (if you have lunch with her). And if all you guys do at lunch is sit there, that's ok. Just show her love.
2007-04-20 15:50:09 · answer #1 · answered by WithLove 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to help people that don't want it. But I'd suggest that you don't approach her as a group, if she's shy and insecure dealing with several people won't help. Try to talk to her one on one if you insist on trying. Try basic small talk or questions. Ask a direct question, something you can try to get her to elaborate on. And above all, be polite and kind.
Good luck, but don't push the issue or she'll just withdraw more.
2007-04-20 23:09:18 · answer #2 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look you can't 'help' people from being shy. Do you want to seem like snobby stuck-up jerks, or do want to seem like good thoughtful friends? One person at a time joke around wtih her, get into conversation, but don't do it in a giant group. There's a girl just like the one you explained in my classes. But I get through by being myself and telling jokes like
"I know why you're so quiet...you're in the FBI. Aren't you? Aren't you? Aren't you?!" She always laughs, and sometimes I just ask her questions about realted stuff we just learned like
"What college do you think you're gonna go to"
"What electives are you taking next year in high school?" Don't gang up on her all at once.
2007-04-20 22:51:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
omfg! i used to be like that b/c i always get teased......... i cant freakinnnnn say the letter s right and ya know what? that letter is in every sentence i swear.... but finally, i just had to live with my lisp uhhh! and now i have a great time... don't everyone gang up on her at once... act like you really wanna get to know her one-on-one, yah, that's the way, don't act like you're doing it just to be nice act like you REALLY wanna get to know her and be really great friends with her! got it?
2007-04-20 23:12:19 · answer #4 · answered by ×ithurtsogoodØ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to be a good friend with her. Spartan
2007-04-20 22:55:42 · answer #5 · answered by Spartan Total Warrior 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep trying.maybe she has some sort of secret that she make her shy facing everyone.if you really want to be her friend,be sincere and tell her
2007-04-20 22:56:35 · answer #6 · answered by shizuka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋