My fiance cheatd, Im suicidel, What do I do?

Question

I know i shouldn't forgive him, i know i deserve better, but have you ever loved someone so much that no matter how bad they treated you, you still couldn't see yourself with anyone else. I was with Jason for a year, and just 3 weeks ago he started cheating on me. i just found out this a couple of days ago. if been fighting depression for a few years and hove thoughts of suicide, expecially now. i can't afford therapy, im trying to get over him, but i can't. i dont think he isever gonna apologize, and i think this is the end. i don't want to be with anyone else, what should i do?

listen b*tch! if u had eyes u can read i've been fighting depression FOR YEARS!!!! so finding out that some one u love more than life in itself is cheatin on you, and ur already a manic, bipolar depressent... yes u will probally end up either psycho or suicidel!!!

the ^above detail is for JUSTIN[11]

Answer 1

DO NOT KILL YOURSELF!!!!


Trust me, Life will go on! You do not need Jason, in order to be happy!


"People often turn to suicide because they are seeking relief from pain. Remember that relief is a feeling. And you have to be alive to feel it. You will not feel the relief you so desperately seek, if you are dead."

http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/ read this

Answer 2

First things first! Do you love yourself? There has to be someone you love more than him and it has to be YOU!
There isn't anything or anyone who should have that much power over you. Taking your own life means that you hate yourself. You can't hate yourself and love anyone else! It will never work!
If you want to forgive him then do that, but understaand this:
He knows that you are weak and he knows that he has you. If a man knows that he will treat you like that.
My suggestion would be to leave. He did you a favor. It's a good thing you didn't marry him.
It won't be easy. It may take some time for you to leave him, but work toward that. If you can't afford therapy seek a church! There are licensed people in the church who can give you help for free! CLing to family and pray! I will pray too!

Answer 3

its time to move on, stop blaming yourself, get over it hes a jerk, sometimes you have to open your eyes and see things for what they are and not what you thought they were. Dont say your sucidal, thats a choice you make! So make the choice to live for yourself and make your life a positive one. No one needs a man in their life to be happy. You dont need him. He apparently didnt need you. I think you need to move on and rediscover yourself before commiting to any relationships. Sometimes their just not meant to be, a relationship cannot work without communication, love trust and honesty. You guys dont have that...a year is nothing. Try saving a relationship thats lasted for over 4 yearswith an engagement its alot harder. You know theirs always someone out their that has it worse off then you do...think about that the next time you get depressed, and then be thankful for all the things in your life that you can be thankful for. theirs always something or someone to be thankful for. Also just a side note, if both people dont truely love each other it wont work out, love is not one sided. Move on.

Answer 4

I am going through the same situation with the same emotions the best advice I could give you is to leave this guy and surround yourself with loved ones friends family etc. Everyday that goes by its easier to forget. Anyone who does not love you back is as good as gone anyway stay positive. I will keep you in my prayers.

Answer 5

first off...there's no point in killing ur self over some stupid guy who really won't give a shyt if u killed ur self over him. he would feel no regret whatsoever...second of all...there are plenty other men in this world...so don;t worry about losing him!!! all he's gonna do is cause u pain!!!! leave him and go find another man...gurantee that there will be one out there who is also looking 4 u...and third of all...don't stay with a man who cheated once...once a cheater...ALWAYS A CHEATER!!!!! live by those words and you'll get through life...life dealing with men at least. hope i helped u

Answer 6

If he cheated on you, the relationship wasn't that valuable to him. Obviously you are committed, but one person can't make a relationship work.

I know it doesn't seem this way now, but things WILL look better in time. The web site below makes sense. Good luck.

If you need to talk in a more private venue, feel free to e-mail me.

Answer 7

Try your hardest to move on even though you love him that much. Think about this have you ever lost a loved one and it killed you inside and you still hurt and miss that person still today. Think about how your parents and loved ones will feel it you commit suicide, do you really want to hurt them, I would hope not.

Answer 8

Break up with him, sell the ring, and move out/on.

Call a suicide hotline if you reach a low point.

Now this is going to sound wrong, but perhaps you need to meet someone else. Sex is life affirming.

Answer 9

you can go to a free clinic in your area for help or go to a family member you trust and can help you and your right you can do better and you can find someone else he is not worth taken your life for he is the one who is wrong and should feel like crap you will feel better in time and will find someone who will be true to you and love you for you you shouldnt let this pos bring you down

Answer 10

Try this out .Turn this to a learning experiance.When dating make YOUR OWN ground rules write them down.Remember them.If a guy breaks them dump him.Don't completely trust mst guys.There are those who take advantage of others.Just weed those out.You can do this, your smart ,beautiful and
worth it.Hugs to you.