24 years old and never dated. Need advice from women.?

Question

My gut feeling is that looks-wise i'm average and that it shouldn't be an issue, but i've gotten some odd results from this experiment I conducted. What i did was this: I put 3 different pictures on hotornot.com and received scores ranging between 8.3 and 9. I didn’t put much faith in these scores at first, but after examining other men who scored similarily I concluded that this score would be indicitive of a man who is probably capable of achieving dates with the opposite sex. So happy with these results, I signed up for match.com and proceeded to send “winks” to basically every girl within a 20 mile radius. The result? 100% rejection. Most rejected via not responding, but others took a step further and BLOCKED my account! All of this for a innocent “wink” saying “hi” or something tame like that… I did get 1 girl to initiate a wink with me, but she was some 19 year old overweight mexican illegal immigrant!

I don’t think my standards are too high either. I put some of the girls I liked on www.hotornot.com and they received scores averaging mostly 7’s. I’ve also had a few real-life encounters with “cute” girls (although not sex) and they generally considered me cute also. So I’m going after the “cute” girls and not the hot girls but I’m getting my *** rejected so hard on match.com? What gives?

I'd rather go celibate than reduce my standards further to that of an overweight illegal immigrant. I'm just not going to go that low!

Answer 1

magnificent--------try meeting local girls--------shopping mall--------school---work-------grocery store---be aggressive.

Answer 2

Your dad is kinda right. There's nothing you can do to convince her not to see this man. It's not like she's throwing her life into disarray by moving to Europe to pursue him. He came for her, so if it doesn't work out, he's the one who has to decide where to go next. All you can do by telling her you don't want her seeing him, is make her want to do it even more because she is 18, probably likes the attention, and is going to have fun with the guy. Don't think that she's now married and her youth is being taken from her. The guy is 24, not 40, they can have lots in common and who knows, maybe it will be a fairy-tale type relationship that lasts forever. I was 19 when I met my wife, who is also from Europe, when she was studying abroad at my college and she was 22. We spent a great year together and kept it going, even with an ocean between us at times. So I know from experience, that kind of thing does happen. Let her be her own woman and learn from her own experiences. Also, what would you prefer she do, sleep around with a bunch of different guys or date this 1 man for the time being to see if it works out? She will think you're just jealous, so you have to leave her alone to do what she wants.

Answer 3

You are too young for computer dating. At your age single women still go out and do stuff.

I'm guessing you are super shy. The thing you have to realize is that you gotta have some game. Looks, money, intellegence, really count for nothing for a guy if you don't have some game to go with it. But it is very tough for a shy guy to just get game.

So here is the thing for you to do. A real short cut that is definitly going to work. Get a job or a part time job where you are around available women your age all the time. And then try as hard as you can to be friendly and get to know people. The odds are going to be so stacked in your favor in this situation that you will be dating.