become a relationship. look wise i think im pretty good as far as bein attractive, but obviously sumthin ain't right after the sex part. Could it be my personality, being a Scorpio, or i'm just not meant to have long term relationships?
2007-04-20 11:42:16 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you're selfish in bed. That's a big time turn off. Who the heck wants more of that.
2007-04-20 11:45:25 · answer #1 · answered by NYGirl 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It could be your personality, it could be that they only wanted the sex, or it could be that the sex isn't all that. lol Don't make sex such a big issue until you get to know them. Maybe you should give them the idea that you are looking for a relationship. They probably think all you want is sex too. Are you rushing into these affairs? Like I said, just take your time with people. Don't give up the sex so easily but I know it can be hard with some of you men not to. lol Good luck.
2007-04-20 11:50:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you shouldnt be having sex with them and try to make a relationship from the very start. Sex is WAAAYYY better when you actually have feelings for that person. At least for a girl it is. Try making a girl feel special first without trying to have sex with her to show you're really interested. Then... if you hit it off and she grows feelings for you, she'll LOVE the sex... and maybe even you! haha jk... Good luck and keep you're pants zipped up.. chances are you've already got a bad rep... girls tell each other everything and girls probably now only see you as a guy you go to for sex... it's never too late to change that.
2007-04-20 11:49:00 · answer #3 · answered by jntt19 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your problem is you're trying to do it all in the wrong order. Try starting with the relationship, and working up to the sex.
Almost any girl that gives it up on the first night isn't going to be around for a relationship.
2007-04-20 11:45:26 · answer #4 · answered by fUnkY_Nate 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 09:27:54 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont u get to know them better before just sleeping with them? Relationships are more than just sex. If u know more about a person than u would probably have a longer relationship
2007-04-20 11:46:27 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop having sex with them from the getgo and get to know them first! You're making wild assumptions about yourself. Very few relationships develop after one night stands and casual sex. Slow down.
2007-04-20 11:48:05 · answer #7 · answered by J P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try holding off on the sex. Build the relationship first.
2007-04-20 11:45:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a long term relationship, save the sex until marriage.
Trust me...
2007-04-20 11:46:24 · answer #9 · answered by origen01 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with "Funky" above... Put off the sex until you get to know her better. If she really develops a liking for you, knowing her better will help you achieve more real intimacy ... not just physicality.
2007-04-20 11:48:03 · answer #10 · answered by Jebbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋