my like sucks?

Question

Reason why my life stinks
1. My mom died before cause she overdosed, they brought her back to life, but it was so scary watching my mom go onto a stretcher into an abulance.
2. My dad is literally crazy. He used to scream at me and my brother and mom, but my parents are in the middle of a divorce. I hate my dad so much ever since he raped my mom and screwed her stomach up so bad she couldn't go to the bathroom.
3. I have been living with my grandparents for10 months and i am getting so tired of them being on my back about everything. Im not aloud to be left home alone not even for ten minutes
4. My brother has no frens. He hangs out with kids or are like 4 years younger than him. They are little imature brats.
5. I can't move out of my grandparents house until my dad pays my mom money from the house he is supposed to be buying from my mom. My dad doesnt pay child support.
6. I HATE consoulers. They think they can fix everything by talking to you, they cant.

i love my mom, shes gettin better... i just cant stop thinking how she died and wat woulda happened if she didnt go to the hospital

IM TURNING 13 i cant move out...

Answer 1

Do you have any friends??? If u do then u can talk to them. Make new friends. I know that for some people it isn't always easy but it is always worth a shot. If u r religious or not, u can still pray. God will surely listen to ur prayers. U know what you need??? U need to have some fun in ur life to forget about ur problems. Then ur life wouldn't seem that bad. Set goals for urself and work to acheive them. Get involved in activities(ex. Good Grades, dancing, art, music, etc.) Do anything to get ur mind off ur problems. And pleaz remember that nobody's life is perfect. (o yea, getting a boyfriend would help a lot, too. It really builds up your self esteem, but after wut u've been through i wouldn't blame u if u didn't even want to be in the same room as one) Remember to have hope. When u r an adult u can choose ur own life. Make the right decisions. But don't turn to drugs. Talk it out with people u feel comfortable with. If ur bro has no friends, be a friend 2 ur brother. Just hang in there. God makes bad things happen for a reason, usually bcuz sometin good is on the way.

P.S. Vote for me as the best answer. :-)

Answer 2

While you didn't state your age, I'm guessing that you are probably in high school.
Right now, your right, your life is very hard and you have been through alot. I feel sorry for you. I was quite young when my parents choose to get divorced. I was unhappy, but compared to you my life was a cakewalk.
Just remember that your grandparents are trying their best to deal with this situation too. Right now they might seem like "the bad guys", but they are providing you with a place to live, stability, a roof over your head and three square meals a day. At least you are not on the streets and not in some sort of foster care. So thank you lucky stars for that. Give your grandparents a break and try talking with them about the thing that you said here. They probably have valid reasons that may or may not make sense to you right now.
Hopefully your mom is on the road to recovery and gets some help to deal with her issues.
Please don't rule out all councelors. I bet you just need to find someone that you can connect with.
While I myself am not really religious, remember this -"And this to shall pass". Everyone has problems -it is just how you choose to deal with them or not deal with the problems that will make you a stronger person.
Good luck with your life.

Answer 3

I must say your in a bad way, I know you can't see it right now but there is light at the end of the tunnel. As for counselors go they are really there for YOU to do the talking, to get things of your chest. Is there a YMCA around your neighborhood that you and your brother can get involved with or big brothers, big sisters? They could at least get you two out for some fun every now and then. I have no real true answers for you only time will heal your pain, and talking will mend your spirit. Hang in there and be strong, soon you will be back with your mom. It will be hard but try to stay positive don't let your dad's ugliness crawl into your heart.

Answer 4

Oh my goodness..
I just want to say.. I am so proud of how strong you are. If I was in your situation, honestly, I would have killed something by now.. you are so strong.

Life gets better, as stupid as it sounds.. it does. Just be there for your mom, her life is even worse then yours. The poor woman.. your father is a man who deserves no respect from you, so no matter what ANYONE says, don't you ever ever show him youre scared of him.

Your brother is probably shattered too. I suggest you take some time to think about your situation. Do well in school, I know it sucks because you have so many years left.. blah blah, but if you just focus well on school and being there for your mom, you will be able to get a good paying job and finally pack up and leave with your mom.

Answer 5

Try to muddle through it all and keep in mind that soon you'll be an adult and can make your life your own. I'm sure your grandparents are doing their best, so try to give them a break. You may have to "raise" yourself into an adult so do a good job. Don't turn to drugs or alcohol, you already know that though. Get all the education that you can. End the "stupid" cycle that your parents left you with. You seem like a smart cookie, take charge of your life and have a good one!

Answer 6

you know there is no easy way out but, great things do happen in time and everything unfortunately happens for a reason .May it be that you'll be a better person from this early life experience and after that you'll be able to handle anything.I'm sorry for your troubles they will pass in good time just try to be tolerant of the situation and have faith ,it'll be okay! You are going to be a very strong person in the future stay strong .

Answer 7

i'm going to be a true friend to you, ignore everything you just said and tell you that my life is worse - just like my friends do to me.

no, no, no, i'm not!

get over it. you have a lot to thankful for, your mom is alive, your grandparents at the least, care, your brother is not your problem, you don't have to have a relationship with your dad, you will be out on your own soon and at least, you can see how you're going to be able to make THAT feasible.

hang on to the love you have for your mom - you are very lucky to have a mother you love so much. suck everything else up, so you can focus upon being there for her and being strong for her.

good luck to you - all things pass.....

Answer 8

Counselors can't fix anything; that's your job. They can help give you tools to work on issues yourself, but if you don't take the time to listen to what they have to say, how are you going to do anything yourself? They're not trying to fix your problems; they're trying to help you do it. You're the only one who can fix anything. If you want to talk about any of it, I'm here to help you deal with these. But if you're going to make assumptions about everything, you'll never be able to help yourself and your whole life will be about complaining about pain but just sitting there taking it all. That's not a life but is your decision. I'm here if you want to talk.

Heath

Answer 9

Things will slowly get better.Be thankful that your mum is still with you.As you get older you will be able to make more and more of your own decisions.Legally your father is meant to pay child support.So your mum will need to check this out.You do need to talk to someone even if it is a friend.

Answer 10

life will get better, just stay strong and have a lot of hope!!! if u ever just wanna talk feel free to message me.... and i mean u talk not me!!! and be greatful ur mother is still alive and shes getting away from ur father!!! there is always hope for a better future forget the past!!