I have been sort of seeing this guy for three monhs, the longest I have been with a guy for about 18 months. I really like him but I have had a lot of business trips back to back and returned to my home for the first time in 11 days. Whilst away he has been house sitting for me but has not lifted a finger anywhere to tidy his mess. I was furious to return to this and gave him a really good spanking this evening before sending him home. He knows I lik to keep my place spotless and as I suffer from a dust allergy it is even more important. I feel like I should punish him more, maybe even cane him, otherwise I do not think I can forgive his lazy attitude. I do like him and in 3 months have not felt the need to punish him which is good but this has made me so mad and I want to fully release my anger.
No irrational "freak" e-mails please. I am how I am, plenty of guys setle problems this way, way, why should'nt I?
2007-04-20 13:18:38 · 35 answers · asked by Skyblue Princess 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Those who say this is not a punishment I can assure you that the spanking was not fun for him. It was long and hard with my hand then a hairbrush, I spanked beyond the excitement stage until he was sobbing. I then sent him home to his hoval so no sex for him but nor me - and I have been away for 11 days. I have a cane but have not used it for ages but maybe this is the time.
Those who say I should not spank, allI can say is it is more effective than any other way I have found to punish a guy so long as he is not the type who gets off on a spanking - my current b/f does not I am sure.
2007-04-20 13:31:38 · update #1
Well I think you are in the right direction....You should tell him that such punishment will be done again...bare bum...and there is the cane the next time...actually the belt and carpet beater are effective....if he thinks with terror to the next punishment his attitude will change...and let him think about what could mean for him to be spanked before some friends of yours...some angry woman for example...if u need some other suggestion please write to me...
2007-04-20 18:47:16 · answer #1 · answered by luigi s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-13 09:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spanking is a good start. Even for those who like it you can mix in something else so it isn't so fun. Since he left your place a mess, dress him up as a maid and make him clean. If he complains, spank him some more. Even if he does like it, at least you'll end up with a clean house.
If he is too mouthy you might have to break out a bar of soap to keep him quiet.
The only thing better would be to put a chastity device on him and keep the key. That will get his attention.
2007-04-20 14:57:56 · answer #3 · answered by caboosepainter 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
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I have been sort of seeing this guy for three monhs, the longest I have been with a guy for about 18 months. I really like him but I have had a lot of business trips back to back and returned to my home for the first time in 11 days. Whilst away he has been house sitting for me but has not lifted a...
2015-08-06 11:19:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd try to first use the standard military punishment during interrogations. Some might call it torture, but its only a liberal ploy. (These are outlawed by the Geneva Convention, but approved for US interrogations.)
1 Use the water method. Putting the subject in a burlap sack and pouring water over the sack. It is effective because it is terrifying.
2. Stress positions. kneeling on rice spread on the floor with your head leaned up against the wall. Hands bound behind the back.
3. Electrical stimulation under 120 volts. Not enough to actually burn and not cause the subject to go unconscious. (We want them awake) Using water as a conducive agent is helpful.
4. Sensory deprivation that includes complete darkness. Most subjects will not last more than 72 hours without significant psychosis's.
2007-04-21 19:57:18 · answer #5 · answered by Malthusian 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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If you get turned on by it - and he does too - that's fine. If it's low grade S & M sort of thing. If it's truly just to 'punish' you - I'm not so certain it's a good idea. However, the bottom line is that at the end of the day, if you don't mind and he doesn't mind, then is it so bad?
2016-04-10 06:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds more like a pleasure than a punishment when it comes from someone you're intimate with.. but if you are actually serious about this don't you realize that is rather demeaning to an individual of his age and how do expect anyone to assume some sort of responsibility if you are going to treat them like a child.
2007-04-20 13:23:52 · answer #7 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You can NOT have punished him enough by spanking him. You need to make him lick your boots clean.
This sort of attitude breeds more laziness unless you nip it in the bud directly.
He has to know who's boss and if all you gave him was a swat on the bum I think he's not thinking it is you.
Put him in his cage and tell him no food for 3 days unless his attitude improves.
2007-04-20 13:24:33 · answer #8 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you want him and why the hell should he want you.
You clearly have no love or respect for him as a man.
He must have very low self esteem and probably needs therapy if he is willing to put up with your abuse. Probably had no father figure and an overbearing hag of a mother that abused him like you are.
Hopefully, one day he will wake up, man up, realize he does not have to take your abuse and use that brush and cane on you until you can't sit for a week.
2016-09-28 10:41:30 · answer #9 · answered by amber 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I dont think he would let you do it, or be with you unless he liked the spanking. ;) Be kind to him ok? Spanking belongs only in bedroom, it's a fun game, but no real punishment.
2007-04-20 22:38:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋