So tell me, if you meet someone after a few months of talking and have a great time, think all is well and then in the weeks to follow contact is not as often from one person ( busy with work is the excuse) is that a nice way of keeping just enough contact that you not feel bad that its not there for them or over thinking and all is fine? When a guy wants to break it off do they still want to do that? Maintain contact so you feel better but keep it at arms length or if not interested would they cut contact all together? Very confused?
2007-04-20 09:52:23 · 6 answers · asked by Bebe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I did ask if things had changed and he said no, just really busy but i think if you care for someone then you could find the time??
2007-04-20 10:08:56 · update #1
your heart knows the truth. Something has changed. He's not as enthralled. Maybe meeting was enough of the conquest. Some men and women just do this for fun...a virtual thing. It's like a hunt and once they meet, the game is over. Don't take it personally.
It's happened to me a few times. Sometimes I was fortunate not to have to go through with a meeting and just agreeing to meet was enough for the guy to feel he got what he was after. I don't maintain contact because it hurts anyway. You feel you wasted your time and got nothing out of it. There are so many other people out there who want a sincere relationship, don't waste your time with anyone who isn't putting more effort into a relationship. When you feel something is off balance, then it is. Go with your feelings.
2007-04-20 10:13:23 · answer #1 · answered by Dear Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhhhh my friend, I just had this happen to me. Just guy this were great for a few times out after meeting online then he got busy with work. And well stop talking or calling as much, then i text him one night for his girlfreind to text me back. What a blow. Just come out and ask and then move on. The next one will be better. They always are.
2007-04-20 09:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It strikes me, that if there is a marked absence in contact, something's up, especially since you two have met. I would presume there is not the interest and I would take the "bull by the horns" and be the responsible person to cease conversation online.
You must know by now with men and women...there is contact when they are interested, and dead silence when they are not.
Accept the "signal" you're getting and drop this guy and move on dear...
Grace
2007-04-20 09:58:44 · answer #3 · answered by bunnyONE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont stress.. friendship can be casual.. Yes you enjoy talking to him but because he is there and you are here.. you cant always know what road blocks he may have hit. He will communicate again when he can.. but if you feel like you want more.. ask for his phone number and see where it goes from there. I have had some pen pals for 6 years. never meeting them.
2007-04-20 10:00:08 · answer #4 · answered by DearAbby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he wanted to stop contacting you it would mean he wanted to end it. if he hasnt been getting back to you as he did before it may be that he is just going through a busy period in his life.. give him some time
2007-04-20 09:56:31 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he doesnt want to have anything more than online friendship. Move on
2007-04-20 09:56:37 · answer #6 · answered by Marquel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋