I have this condition called Turner syndrome ( Google it ) and I told the guy Ive been E Mailing that I had it and he hasnt E mailed me back. I expected this does this happen to anybody else? I am sick and tired of it!!!!!!!!!!!! It hurts me really bad and I dont think I deserve that!!!!!!
2007-04-20 06:47:03 · 35 answers · asked by Butterfli a 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When did you tell this guy about the condition? I do not know if you will like my advice, but I would let the guy know you for who you are first, and date him. Then, after a date or two let him know about your condition. I do not have a condition like yours, but when I was deep in my depression, and told men about it. It just freaks them out. I let the guy know me and then let them know about it, at least that way he knows me, and know how I am able to handle the condition. If he does not like it is best to find someone else, because you want someone who can be understanding and supportive of you and your condition as well.
2007-04-20 07:10:03 · answer #1 · answered by chula 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I googled it, and since it's not life threatening, it's not something that will cause you to die at a young age, I don't see what the problem is for the guy. If he likes you before he found out, then he should like you after too. If not, he's not worth having. Don't worry about it. It doesn't happen to just people with medical problems. I read about a guy who met this woman on a dating website, and when she mailed him her picture, decided he was not physically attracted and broke it off. So it can happen to anyone. You just gotta find the right guy. There is a website for the Turner Syndrome Society, look it up, and see if you can talk to some people in your area with the same condition. At least you'll make some friends there, and build up your confidence, to get out in the dating world again. Maybe they can give you tips on how or when to broach the subject with a potential date. Good luck.
2007-04-20 06:59:22 · answer #2 · answered by tinaroonie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I looked it up and can see that Turner syndrome can give a person many different so called abnormalities. Myself, as long as the woman is at least average looking or pretty, has a fun personality, and is intelligent, I do not even concentrate on anything else. A nice butt is also a must. If you are 18 yrs old or above- I will talk to you.
2007-04-20 06:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people just don't understand how their actions hurt others. What are the symptoms of turner syndrome do you have? There are different things that could happen to a person with turner syndrome? Have you tried connecting with guys who have a disability too that way they could be more sympathetic to your condition.
2007-04-20 07:02:09 · answer #4 · answered by jahvar's mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your condition is a lot for a stranger to absorb. For you to expect someone who you've only be emailing to have no problems with this is expecting too much.
I'm sorry that it hurts you and you are right, you don't deserve it. But life isn't always fair and we have to deal with and compensate for the hand we are dealt.
And you are wrong if you think that guys not emailing us back doesn't happen to anyone else. Of course it does.
Concentrate on making a good life for yourself and cultivating a positive attitude and outlook. This will be its own reward.
2007-04-20 06:53:26 · answer #5 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok from what i know turner syndrom is chromosomes being messed up right? and they are shorter and have diffrent characteristics.
but if the guy you like doesnt like you for who you are you shouldnt be dating him.
go out and date someone else. there are tons of guys that will except you for who you are.
weather you approch them up front and tell them so they know and if they dont wana see you they leave.
or you wait and tell them thensee how they react
no guy should judge you on that.
if hes a true guy he'll stick with you.
you cant fix it? its not your fault so tell him to deal.
good luck =]
2007-04-20 06:52:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very. i understand whilst i'm exhausted i'm much less talkative, I nonetheless attempt to assert some thing yet assorted time i'm basically resting. It should not be a difficulty till he's often drained, yet after a weekend i'm getting decrease back my potential.
2016-10-13 01:15:44 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not deserve that. It really is his problem. No one is perfect and you should not be defined by a "condition". Anyone that cannot see any deeper than that is not worth your time. Be proud of who you are and the right person will see that.
2007-04-20 07:02:37 · answer #8 · answered by Busybake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow I just looked it up and that really sucks. I think that someday you will find a guy that doesn't care about it and loves you for you. If guys aren't willing to talk to you because of your condition then forget them. You don't want those kind of guys anyway
2007-04-20 06:53:21 · answer #9 · answered by HannahBanana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let it hurt you. What other people think of you does not matter, only what you think of yourself. You know you are a good person even with this. Keep a NEXT mentality and eventually you will meet someone who is the right type of person for you.
2007-04-20 06:55:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋