i'm not even dating him and i'm already so upset! please help me? thanks!?

Question

i invited this guy out and when he didn;t show up he said he thought we planned it for another day even though i made it clear it was last night! my questions are what should he have done, call me and apologize? should i wait? call him and talk about it, or ask him out again? (it wasnt a date just with friends somehwere) thanks! i rly like this guy i don t know what to do and i dont wanna screw up!

Answer 1

Is this the guy you said you were going to go for it with? Well first well done for making a move!!!

But what a pain he didnt turn up! I would say give him a chance still. If he messed up and gave you a reason, he may be genuine, and you could regret it if you made a mistake by losing him.

I would say wait a while, then ask him out again, perhaps make a joke out of it and say "Now here's the date, you sure you don't wanna write it down this time? ;)"

Perhaps he even chickend out and was nervous. You said he was shy. Make sure the place isn't someone he may find nerve racking.

Don't give up just yet!
Good Luck!

Answer 2

first of all sorry to hear that he didin't show up but um i think that you should wait a little and ask him out again but i would also bring like maybe another friend just because he may feel uncomfortable and just to see how you 2 act around maybe on of ur friends and one of his because thats exactly what i did and to tell you the truth it did work! so i guess you may try that but yeah wait a little. good luck!

Answer 3

if he likes you as well and you are honest then you should not screw up --- call him --- be aware that he may not be all that interested --- if i make a time to see a lady im interested in i make sure im there ---- best wishes

Answer 4

that really sucks, but you are just going have to believe him, especially if he never gave you a reason not to believe him, just reshedule the date. good luck