sorry if this seems a bit long and complicated...but this is....I have been seeing a guy off and on (more off) for over a year now...through this I have had a boyfriend and he has had many girlfriends...yet they always live hours away...but we always seem to end up together at some point...I know how I feel about him and have told him the same...and he always agrees...that things feel different and right when we are together...he tells me that i'm gorgeous...that I have an irresistible charm...that he finds me intriguing big time...everyone comments on our energy when we are in the same room...even strangers...but when I tell him how I am feeling...he always agrees...he says he feels the same...and then says he can't commit at this point..he said he is kinda scared...is this normal..I just don't know how to take this...should I be insulted...or should I back off and give him time to figure this out...just feel like...given how long we have been doing this...he must feel something right
2007-04-20 04:48:42 · 2 answers · asked by kirtleysgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he does feel the same as you --- might i suggest not looking for a commitment ---- allow the relationship to mature at its own pace and you may find that he makes the next step without realising it himself --- there is no need to back off just continue as you have
2007-04-20 04:55:47 · answer #1 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slow down on your expectations. it will work out
2007-04-20 04:58:01 · answer #2 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋