i'm still friends with her other friends but just not her what do i do
2007-04-20 06:18:40 · 18 answers · asked by snowmachine maniac 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe shes hurting,give it time
2007-04-20 06:21:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its hard to talk to her then you cant be friends. Its either together forever or nothing at all. I had an ex and we were friends for a few weeks. We even used to say we were best friends and we loved each other but after a few weeks we just started to get smart with each other and being snippy until we could not stand being near each other. So even though I still miss his and I'm sure he misses me we cant be Friends or anything. That's just the way it works :(
2007-04-20 13:23:37 · answer #2 · answered by melaniejean862209 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you recently broke up, give her space. If you dumped her, give her a lot of space. She is probably still hurting or is angry at you. From time to time, check back with her. Start anew like strangers. You know, a high here and there; a smile when you accidentally meet. If she smiles back, then she is ready to talk to you.
Talk to her. If she gives you the cold shoulder, give her space again. After a while, try again. Try and try and try. The main thing here is the trust. She probably feels that she can't trust you so she thinks that it is a waste of time to be friends with you. Unless she coldly and rudely tells you to go away, then...just keep trying. good luck!
2007-04-20 13:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by boohoo101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in this exact situation. I think that you want to still talk to her and be freinds with her because you havent et it go. Sounds like you still have lots of feelings for her and you arent ready to give it all up. If she doesnt want to talk to you, then there really is nothing you can do about that. Do yourself a favor and let it go. Move on..
2007-04-20 13:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by brittani g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not easy when you have mutual friends. If you had divorced the friends usually get divvied up along with places for recreation. Just be yourself, greet her as you do any other friend, don't start any trouble and respect the fact you two are free to make new choices.
2007-04-20 13:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should try and talk to her so that she wont feel left out when your over there talking to her friends and not her. I know its hard but i had to do it for almost the same reason. You just have to try and talk to her and be everybody's friend not everyone and just leave her out.
2007-04-20 13:23:55 · answer #6 · answered by shorty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep being yourself. Be natural, spontaneous etc. Her hurt will go away, so just keep acting like a friend. Do NOT say anything to those friends that you do not want said to her.
2007-04-20 13:22:29 · answer #7 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eventually it will become easier to talk to her...just let it go for a while and soon the awkwardness will leave and yall be friends
2007-04-20 13:24:58 · answer #8 · answered by Kelley R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my man I still talk with my-ex but you just have to remind yourself that you friends try to work it out with her tell her that your sorry and you just want to be friends that should work
2007-04-20 13:25:09 · answer #9 · answered by Reaper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes just give her space whilst still letting her know you care for her as a friend, im great friends with my x we tell each other everything
2007-04-20 13:22:11 · answer #10 · answered by BscHons 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, time wounds all heals - it's up to her to come around and realize there may be value in being platonic friends.
2007-04-20 13:23:01 · answer #11 · answered by Ben 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋