2007-04-20 06:25:50 · 29 answers · asked by notredamne n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Of course you should. A healthy relationship requires it. Assuming DO IT, means sex.
2007-04-20 06:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by btpage0630 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am guessing you are talking about waiting until after you are married for sexual intimacy.
If that is the case, there is nothing wrong with it. You have to do what makes you feel comfortable. Sex is wonderful believe me, however, in my experience a person must be ready to deal with the emotions. My first was my best friend.. we were both 19 and I had always be against having sex before marriage. We had been dating for two years and we were making plans to get married so I figured... well, I am going to marry him anyway so I decided to take our relationship to the next level. Honestly, that was a big mistake because we didn't get married and I feel like I let myself down.
On the other hand, at least I gained the experience.
I guess it depends on your values and what you feel you can live with. (If I could turn back time I wouldn't make the same choice.)
Anyway, if you choose to have sex remember to use a condom. (even for oral sex)
All the best.
2007-04-20 06:56:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I feel the exact same way. I have been in a Christian home & it's a part of my religion to wait until after marriage. Yeah my friends sometimes try to influence me to do it, but I just remember my religion & don't fall into their peer pressure.
There is nothing wrong with your opinion. In America, we are all allowed our own opinions.
2007-04-20 06:37:53 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Within our society, ironically, we see 'it' as something that young people do before marriage or people do apart from marriage. When was the last time you saw a serious program or study on 'it' in marriage. I had a wife who told me once, "we don't have to do that now, we're married". Needless to say that marriage didn't work out. It's a psychological block that has to be gotten past, but it takes work, from both parties.
2007-04-20 06:31:24 · answer #4 · answered by John B 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is NOT wrong to believe you should wait to have sex until after you are married. Marriage is the place for sex. Think of all the things that have come about because people have sex outside of marriage... Sexual diseases, AIDS, abortions... etc.
By all means, WAIT.... You are definitely worth it!
2007-04-20 06:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If by "DO IT" you mean have gay sex, then the answer is YES - it IS wrong to believe you should DO IT after (or before) marriage - If you meant Brush your teeth and scrub your ***, then the answer is NO, you should still do those things
2007-04-20 06:31:07 · answer #6 · answered by True Grits 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to believe in no sex before marriage, but now I don't as you cant get any after ????????????
2007-04-20 06:34:57 · answer #7 · answered by bty937915 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't.
Unfortunately, since sex has lost it's mystery and there are more and more couples divorcing because they are not compatible in bed, people tend to do a "test drive" and make sure that the person they are marrying will be a good bed partner.
But it is still up to you.
2007-04-20 06:36:54 · answer #8 · answered by boohoo101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh no. It's the glue that makes a marriage a marriage. A very nice glue if you ask me.
2007-04-20 06:30:59 · answer #9 · answered by prouddaddy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
of course not I'd prefer to do it after marriage, but things don't always go the way they're planned.
2007-04-20 06:36:53 · answer #10 · answered by bananas! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not wrong to believe that, however, i dont know where you live, but round here you would be hard pressed to find anyone who waited till after school, let alone till after married
2007-04-23 03:43:34 · answer #11 · answered by fat momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋