Me and this boy are friends with benifits and im talking about going out. He broke my Heart 2 times and i stop liking him and he knew so we be all on each other. I feel back 4 him i tell him i love him were talking about going out but I can't have him breaking my heart for the 3rd time.
2007-04-20 06:11:47 · 11 answers · asked by symone j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
why would you even do that to yourself? move on
2007-04-20 06:14:36 · answer #1 · answered by mikentammy76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is the third time and he can still make you think twice about going out with him, then you must really like this guy. My advice is, wait it out. Get to know each other better. Do the friends thing for a while yet, take things slowly and see other people. Explain this to him of course. If he is truly serious about you, he'll understand and will wait until he's earned your trust.
If he's only there for the benefits of your friendship and he's only agreeing because it's easier, then he won't do the friendship bit. He won't stick around.
2007-04-20 06:24:52 · answer #2 · answered by boohoo101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is more fishes in the sea. You should really stop doing this to your self. More guys are going to find out, and they know the way you are with him, and they are going to think that you are easy.I had this happend to me before. He broke up with me, coz he stoped liking me or didnt like me too much, W/E. So every time we would see each other, we would make out, hold hands in public, kiss, normal stuff that bf does. Until one day he whent to my house, and someone called him, and he said that he was at his cousins house, then left right away. So I started doing what he does to me. I stopped calling him, I stoped seeing him. At night I would not answerd the phone. I just ignored him. In less than 3 days, he called me back. I think that know he wants to go back out with me. But I love my self too much to let him do what he did to me twice. I loved that kid. But you need to remember that in order for you to be happy you have to love your self first. Stop seeing him for a while, give time, time. Then he'll realize that he loves you and he will come back. And if he doesnt dont think that you are a failure. Just learn from your mistakes so that you dont do them again.
2007-04-20 06:24:12 · answer #3 · answered by Una nena mas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say that is differently something that you need to decide but sit and think about this one, there are SO MANY others out there is he really the one that you want. and if you decide that he is try to do something that would break his heart and see how he reacts to it. if it is something that you can get thru than more power to you and more blesses to you and your relationship but if it isn't you will find another one and he might have more money on top of that. so good luck and just think is it worth it all.
2007-04-20 06:17:30 · answer #4 · answered by spchil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys are mostly needy and in need of companionship and think having sex means love.
Lay off the guys, and get your head together. Make sure you have an education and a job. Build your self-confidence. Then you would not have to be asking questions like this.
2007-04-20 06:18:43 · answer #5 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive ahd the samr thing happen to me a couple of times..... brfore you go out with him, let him kno tht u dont want ur heart broken again, and tell him that this is the last chance!
Best of Luck!
2007-04-20 06:15:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are, he will do it again. It is sad to say, but with him doing it twice before, what makes you think this time is different! There are many more fish in the sea. Good Luck!
2007-04-20 06:15:09 · answer #7 · answered by Bunny83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should break his heart before he breaks yours!
2007-04-20 06:19:49 · answer #8 · answered by hotpink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its gonna be hard but find interest in someone else to get over him but make it clear its jus to get over him bot to make him jealous
2007-04-20 06:19:24 · answer #9 · answered by Miss HeWoman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has had his chance bin him
2007-04-20 06:17:09 · answer #10 · answered by D.C. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋