my girlfriend and I have had problems agreeing. she thinks the complete opposite of what i do. we both want to be together but we are always miserable. what should we do?
2007-04-20 05:28:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just because you are friends, dating, engaged, married, do not assume that you will agree all the time.
You are both individuals, you should have a few things in common though, otherwise what is the point.
Stop arguing, just state what you believe to be true and its ok if she doesn't agree with you. She and you have a right to your own opinions, doesn't mean you have to break up or get a divorce.
How else will both of you grow if you can't express yourselves, however, fighting over things you disagree about is childish, show maturity, and tell her that while you respect her opinion you have one of your own, and if she is not willing to evern listen to it, then yeah change girlfriends.
2007-04-20 05:35:01 · answer #1 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? u got to know the root cause and most of all, if both of u are willing to make an efforts to agree to disagree.
2007-04-20 12:32:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not agreeing with each other is natural. Not everybody in this world agree with one another. You guys just try your best agree in something or just agree with him/her to avoid a fight or argument.
2007-04-20 12:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by wbsy08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can agree on something that u both will try discover what makes the other happy and do it
2007-04-20 12:32:00 · answer #4 · answered by kate07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn to compromise if your going to have any chance of a future together.
2007-04-20 12:31:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋