my bf asked me to go to the movies with him tomorrow and i have asked my mom but she said that she will have to talk to my step dad and he is usally a good guy, but my bf is bringing his best friend and my family doesnt like his friend cause he has made my life a living hell due to all the fights he has caused between me and my bf, but his friend [charles] is really a good guy he just wants the attention he is a 15 year old traped in a 18 year olds body [ or so it seems] he has family issues [ like i do] and is just an all around good guy to hang out with, but my family doesnt believe me that he is nice. My bf is a great guy [ charles has tried to get him to do drugs and he wont is super sweet] do u think that even though he is bringing his friend that my mom and step dad will let me go?
2007-04-20 05:20:48 · 10 answers · asked by Angelique 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Charles just likes people to go through what he has, and me and him have bonded through that, he was abused and i was to and we would sit for hours talking about it, and my mom got mad cause he called the cops on my mom and i called them on his mom. My bf [patrick] was never around cause he was always at work and once Charles started drugs i stoped hangin out with him and Patrick didnt and Charles tried to get him to, but once Charles stoped doin the drugs me and patrick started hangin out with him more and he has been clean for almost 10 months and my mom still dont trust it, she has stoped drinking for 9 months now and i told her well if he starts again than its a possiblity that you might to
2007-04-20 05:34:48 · update #1
Wouldn't you have more fun if it was just u and your b/f anyway? Hmm ...yep I think I'm right on this one!
2007-04-20 05:25:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It;s ok to forgive your friend for trying to cause trouble between you and your bf. How nice of a person would cause any trouble though.
You are contradicting yourself all over the place here,
1st he's a really good guy
2nd he caused you to live through hell
3rd he has caused fights between you and your bf
4th he tried to get your bf on drugs
With a friend like that you don't need enemies.
Listen to your parents.
Leave the kids at home when you go out, you did say he was acting like a 15 year old, I know 15 year olds that I can trust more than your bf 18 year old friend.
I don't believe that he is nice either, I believe that your bf is a great guy and probably lets charles hang out because he feels sorry for him. charles really sounds like a loser to me. Sorry that is the way you have protrayed him.
2007-04-20 05:30:53 · answer #2 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not attempt and convince your mothers and fathers which you incredibly pick or pick a boyfriend. I wasn't allowed as much as now till i grew to become into sixteen and that i caught with it, and to be sincere there have been some adult males that i needed as much as now, yet i did not, and when I grew to become sixteen i did not have a bf till i grew to become into 17. or perhaps now, I want i did not have that one bf. I"m sooo happy that i did not date all that plenty. have faith me, its greater suitable that way. much less drama, much less emotional stress, and greater time spent specializing in what's important at that age. i understand I sound like a discern, yet i'm 18 and correctly...I"m not a discern. that is what i think of. besides, think of approximately it, what incredibly is the factor of courting?
2016-10-13 01:08:20 · answer #3 · answered by petrosino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you expect to convince your parents that Charles is a "good guy" when you said he tried to get your bf to do drugs? Just read your question, I think that your answer is in it.
2007-04-20 05:29:34 · answer #4 · answered by renpen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your parents won't let you go with your bf's friend but i don't thin you should leave charles to his own devices. tell your parents that you are to be trusted and although charles seem to be untrustworthy, you have the utmost faith in him. this may not work, but there isn't much you can do to convinvce them. try telling them how you feel and hope they'll understand. good luck!
2007-04-20 05:27:17 · answer #5 · answered by Mina Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Due to the fact that your parents' have far more experience in judging character than you it would be wise to heed they're advice. And if you were my child I would not want you hanging around someone who does drugs and would be reluctant to allow you to be in they're company. You, yourself should not want to be in the company of one who causes problems between you and your boyfriend. Open your eyes he can't be that cool.
2007-04-20 05:34:08 · answer #6 · answered by Kandie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send a picture or movie of you and your boyfriend alone doing it and they will get confidence ;)
Well, actually, get out of these confusions - friends of friends etc.. just keep it simple u and ur bf, then u won't hv confusions in ur family for now.
2007-04-20 05:25:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust your parents ,if they don't like your b/f friend its for a good reason.
2007-04-20 05:27:24 · answer #8 · answered by emma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, they wont let you go,and i think you should not go either.
2007-04-20 05:28:12 · answer #9 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
parents will always be mean. i hate them so much.
2007-04-20 05:34:38 · answer #10 · answered by Big Head 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋