Everyone hates me?

Question

I have no friends. I have driven everyone I work with to the point that they think I'm a complete ***** and hate me. I don't take time to listen to anyone elses problems, which are bigger than mine, and spend all my time complaining about my issues but they're all making fun of me behind my back so I don't give a ****. They think I'm just some rich ***** which really pisses me off because I'm real insecure that I still live with my parents and of my social status and all that ****.

My boyfriend wants me to go live with him in a different state. I don't know if I want to do this either but I have to get away from everyone. I just have to start over somewhere. What should I do? Should I just leave somewhere? I don't have enough money to do that... I mean I do but then I'd be homeless. Bloody fuuuuuuuuuuucccccccccccckkkkkkkk

Answer 1

Geeze blue I think everyone is just anger with you because they don't want you to be a whinner.... but I don't know you enough to feel the same so heres your answer: Don't go with your boyfriend to a different state you havn't learned enough about yourself to be able to start from scratch, nor have you learn how to have a healthy self-concept. See your insecure about living with your parents and not having the right social status and those are some pretty immature things to be worried about. Immature not meaning so much your not a grown-up as much as immature that your not going to be able to grow until you know exactly what it is you need to be insecure about, those are not the things.... now your inability to emphasize with people is the big, big issue. And the only way you can do that is if you understand better your ownself. Why you feel the way you do, what your opinions of the world are, and understanding more about where you come from and where your going. This are all things you need to do with yourself, it sounds like really you stand to gain alot if you stop beating yourself up about what society says and live with your parents for a little while and try to figure yourself out. F everyone else its your life!!!! Once you began to get comfrontable in your own skin should you really venture out and began to make geniune friends and relationships. Just realize most of your problems are coming form the very society your beating yourself up about not being good enough for. Trust me society can take a running leap of a high cliff, it doesn't matter what it thinks. Now the people in your life who care about you, your story and your future, now those are the people to care about!! Also realize that the surest way to fixing your problems is understanding other peoples and vise versa, your not alone her in this world and its time to act like that because thats the part your missing. So regression is your best bet for awhile, get use to yourself and your opinions and make yourself some one you respect, then bring that new person out in this world and see how you can do that for the people around you... we all have to spend time loving ourselves before we ever began to love anyone else..... and don't make your life harder by counting on people to soon, like your boyfriend..... never good to do it that way, now if you guys had already been married I be like heck yea, but this relationship and your state of mind right now shows me it isn't a good time to reach for him.... time to reach for yourself! And theirs nothing wrong with living with your parents as long as you help them too!!! Its your family!