I am very straight man but never liked to go downtown on a woman. I was wondering, do you any of you have husbands like me that do not like this or am I rare?
My loves to do it to me and tells me that it is ok if I do not like to reciprocate. I feel bad at times because I never try to be a selfish lover and I am not except for going downtown.
So, do any of you have hubbys like me and if so, does it bother you?
2007-04-20 05:41:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I do not get aroused by it. Her big breasts arouse me more.
She tells me that I make up for it with my lg penis and that's what she really loves to feel.
I did tell her if she ever wanted it or felt like she needed some downtown action that I woul d give her the green light to bring another woman into the bedroom on occasion. She says likes that idea but it has no bearing on me not going downtown on her.
2007-04-20 05:49:26 · update #1
No, my wife is gorgeous, petite and practices very good hygiene. I just prefer to kiss her lips and her nice breasts.
2007-04-20 05:51:09 · update #2
I prefer a breast in my mouth
2007-04-20 05:52:17 · update #3
I used to have a bf who loved it, and that made it so incredible, but my hubby doesn't really care for it, and that makes it less than pleasurable for me. It bothers me that he doesn't like it, but I would rather he not do it than for me to have to feel guilty that he's doing something that he doesn't really enjoy - that takes all of the pleasure out of it for me. There are definitely times when I wish that he was more like my ex-bf - he enjoyed it so much bc of what it made me feel. I guess it just has to be mutual. And yes, I am hot, petite, and very clean.
2007-04-20 06:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by lilprof 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No sorry I don't seem to have that problem. But if I did I would be really bothered by it, especially if she gives it to you. Oh hell no that would not fly, but I am curious to your reason for not going downtown. Have you had a bad experience. When you are married to someone their isn't anything that's off limits. But if you are sure that it really doesn't bother her then don't worry about it. I will say this though you need to make sure that it's really OK or is she just telling you that so you will be happy. Remember the saying what you aren't willing to do someone else is. Think about this would you be disappointed if she didn't go down on you?
2007-04-20 05:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by KH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact you don't do it to her, and yet she does it to you proves what love you have for each other. If you're both okay with this arrangement, that's all that matters. It's about satisfying each other, and if you both do that, it doesn't matter how.
I will suggest though, that if she really wants it sometime, please consider doing it to her; don't have her get someone else. In time, this may actually become something that you may grow to like doing. Try it every now and then, especially when you're horny, it will be very erotic.
If you hesitate because of hygiene, she can certainly clean up. And if you hesitate because you're not sure what to do, educate yourself, and your wife can also guide you. Keep an open mind, this adds variety to the bedroom.
2007-04-23 13:35:59 · answer #3 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I would find out why you have such a negative outlook about giving oral sex then do whatever to resolve the issue. Such as(showering, douching, shaving that area bald, applying flavored gels, creams, etc.)
If you were my man, I would do ALL of the tasks mentioned above just before our first session, so there should be nothing wrong for you to complain about. If after all that, you still can't go down on me, then you have a very serious problem.
2007-04-20 05:58:23 · answer #4 · answered by "N"saysable 1iric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it would bother me! I think that's very strange of you. I'd get to the root of the problem. There is always a reason and from my experience, all it takes is a hand mirror and a personalised tour! Men who don't know what they are doing, feel insecure about such an act and don't get any enjoyment out of it when they are not pleasing their partner. The fun isn't just for her, it's for you too!
2007-04-20 05:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't like when my significant other wants to go downtown. But I've never liked it though, but that's just me. I'm very sensitve with that and things get irritated =(. I don't think it's weird, it just depends on what the partner likes or not, you know?
2007-04-20 06:36:36 · answer #6 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly could live without it - few men do it right anyway. It does seem sorta unfair that she does it to you but I am the same way and it really doesn't bother me too much - as long as you are doing other types of foreplay and making sure she is satisfied as well....
2007-04-20 05:47:53 · answer #7 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, could care less if hubby never goes down town - doesn't do a good job anyway and always forgets what I tell him when he's down there. LOL
2007-04-20 05:46:19 · answer #8 · answered by Stefka 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well long as the both of you are fine with it i don't really see a problem. I feel men have a harder time going down on women then we do on them.. I mean it took my boyfriend longer to go down on me then it did for me on him.
2007-04-20 06:15:45 · answer #9 · answered by oxalyssaoxox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I are just like you and your wife.. my husband doesnt like it either... and to be honest neither do I! I think you are fine as long as both of you are satisfied at the end!! Thats all that matters!
2007-04-20 05:46:50 · answer #10 · answered by lopez41780 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋