My best friend i was there for her wen no one was and now that my worst enamy (dnt get me wrong i have only one enamy) comes and only with a couple of words takes her away. What do i do let her go or fight for her back even tho i know she might not return
2007-04-20 05:07:58 · 20 answers · asked by Tree Hugger 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well sorry to say. if your "enamy"*enemy
took your friend away with only a few words, then that my dear is not your friend. so let her go get a new friend. you dont need people like that to just ditch you. those people are slaves to friendship. follow anyone with an open hand.
2007-04-20 05:13:46 · answer #1 · answered by Big Head 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a statement in yourself. She will realize this. It is a situation where you should not fight back since it will make you look bad. Sadly she will see for herself what the 'enemy' is made of. Also you will learn what your best friend is made of. If she ends up liking this 'enemy' you probably didnt want her as a friend anyway. But my thought is that she will see her for what she is. Whatever is meant to be will happen so take this time to make new friends, do something different and regroup yourself and be the best you can be. All will be well so try to smile.
2007-04-20 12:13:50 · answer #2 · answered by barthebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just let her go, I mean what kind of best friend dumps you, for someone, who I am sure she knows you dislike. Sometimes, people don't know who they really are, and they spend a lot of their time pretending to be this way or that, trying to impress other people. I say stay true to who you really are, and if you friend wants to go around and pretend to be someone shes not, then let her. Find another friend, and forget her. Besides, in the end she will realize what a great friend you were and come crawling back, it's your decision whether to let her or not.
2007-04-20 12:14:00 · answer #3 · answered by emmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fight for her. She knows what you've done for her. Be there for her, but let her come back to you on your own terms. Your "enemy" will show her true colors and your friend will eventually see this. If she ends up staying friends w/your enemy, it doesn't mean that she's not still your friend. If you make your friend choose, you may lose. Take the high road here. Don't say bad things to her about your "enemy" and continue to be a good friend.
2007-04-20 12:12:26 · answer #4 · answered by Liza 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through a similar experience back in highschool. Although she wasnt my best friend, we were really good friends. We had some classes together, hung out at lunch, even shared lockers. Them some new girl came along, she didnt like me, she didnt even know me. Anways, my friend decided she was far more interesting then me, started avoiding me, moved her stuff out of my locker and into the new girls locker, I was really hurt but in the end I realized that she wasnt worth the hurt I went through and let her go.
So you should just let her go, shes not worth it.
2007-04-23 07:47:15 · answer #5 · answered by Natasha D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you have not lost your best friend. Just because she has befriended someone you do not like, doesn't mean she's not your friend anymore. Try to be a little more mature about the situation. You can't choose your friend's friends. It's your decision whether or not you want to remain friends with her.
2007-04-20 12:13:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must not have been her best friend. Leave it alone.....if people can walk away from you - You don't need them.....Have the gift of Good bye.....TD Jakes.
This is a hard lesson, but once you learn it - You will find that Your worth is more than rubies and people don't want to throw rubies away. Become that Ruby. Be the Best that you can be.....
2007-04-20 12:12:07 · answer #7 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This isn't a game. You don't have to 'win'.
If your friend wants to be with someone else, let her. That's what friends do. You don't need to manage her life. (I know I have my hands full just managing my own!)
If she does things that make you want to stop being her friend, then just stop being her friend. Find someone who WON'T leave you and the you won't have to fight over constantly to keep.
2007-04-20 12:12:53 · answer #8 · answered by Doctor Why 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she was a friend she would come back keep talking to her and if you wort enemy dose bad things like smoke she has to learn the hard way
2007-04-20 12:12:03 · answer #9 · answered by CrazyEights 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry this happened to you.
Just let her go. If she had really been that good a friend this wouldn't have happened.
You'll find other truer friends
2007-04-20 12:11:08 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋