Family & Relationships - 8 April 2007

I think graduating from High School is an important milestone and it should be celebrated. My 17 year old son wants nothing to do with a party. Do I go against his wishes and have one anyway? I have asked him why and he tells me no one would come (not true, of course) also said he doesn't want to be the center of attention. I would really appreciate some feedback on this. Thanks in advance.

2007-04-08 17:24:01 · 11 answers · asked by seashell 6 in Family

I just recently cheated on my boyfriend who I have a good relationship with. I cheated on him this evening actually. With a guy who has a girlfriend, but is in love with me.
I have never cheated on my boyfriend before, I love him more than anything. I am just really bored! I miss the spark... anyway... right now ( 2 hours later) I'm feeling confident in myself, and happy. I know that soon feelings of guilt are going to set in... What am I to expect in terms of the guilt?
I don't want to cheat again, that one quick fling satisfied me. General advice appreciated

2007-04-08 17:20:50 · 16 answers · asked by thankgodformaryjane 4 in Singles & Dating

half the ppl i talk to say that guys like easy girls
other half says guys like it when you play hard to get.
the answer?

2007-04-08 17:14:04 · 9 answers · asked by KB 4 in Singles & Dating

is it all my fault that i picked the wrong person to marry? i really loved him and he no longer loves me. we have a newborn together. he cheated and abandoned me at 7 months pregnant for a 17yr old high school girl. now hes is back to get visitation to his child.
im losing everything. i lost him, im losing time with my child, i lost tons of money and some friends due to our divorce.
i don't understand karma, i havent done anything wrong to deserve this did i just marry the devil?

2007-04-08 17:09:06 · 29 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so this girl and i have been close friends for about 2 years now a little while after we met she told me she liked me (that was in eighth grade) now im a sophmore and we're best friends istarted liking her but she has a boyfriend but i think she still likes me. shes a very devout christian so she wont admit to any kind of thoughts about other people while she has a boyfriend. i kow she liked me until he asked her out so thats why i think she still does and she warned me to be careful because we were talking ALOT and we were be coming way to close and she didnt want to end up in an affair because of her faith. what should i do??(her boyfriend has a very bad rep and she is VERY innocent)

2007-04-08 17:07:28 · 17 answers · asked by skitz 3 in Singles & Dating

Im only in my early teens,but this guy moved in next door and he's our friends son and he is soooooooo cute and we are totally in to each other but he's kinda on the wild side and.My dad said the we couldn't go out with each other cause he comes from a not so great background.Well on thing led to another and he ended up giving me my first kiss in Target and my parents found out, we where in a lot of trouble!!!!! The whole thing is over now and we're just friends, he is a total flirt even when he had a girl friend. They broke up and now he told me he is still in love with me . I know it not for real but I really like him any way. But I dont want to him to think I dont like him ,what should I do?


thanx 4 da help!

2007-04-08 17:06:05 · 12 answers · asked by A.K. 1 in Singles & Dating

We always steal looks at eachother and help eachother out, and i think we get along great. PLEASE HELP!

2007-04-08 17:01:58 · 4 answers · asked by Kathryn E 1 in Singles & Dating

I have never encountered this problem! I know Im good in bed and take care of my body, but my bf n I never have sex! I have needs and only see him on the weekends, I am ALWAYS the one to initiate, and that gets old really fast. I want to feel...wanted. What can I do? I think he might have a low sex drive and that sucks but if theres any advice to give please do! I need some good hot lovin lol Im only 21!!

2007-04-08 16:59:57 · 17 answers · asked by allykat21 1 in Singles & Dating

tell me what do older people think about this young new generation. do they think that we are all good for nothing or they think that we can change this whole world better then them so answer it.
any new ideas are also accepted as i like new ideas .

2007-04-08 16:55:00 · 10 answers · asked by AaSHEK 4 in Singles & Dating

i met a guy...we're dating for almost 5 months...i found him interesting...he's smart...the thing i really like for a guy.... i fall in love with him...so he is...when everything between us was turning out so great..he admitted that he was married with one child...they're not together...since they did not live up as a couple cuz the girl left her after getting married to him... but still they have communications...my guy was planning to get divorce with her...cuz he thinks everything between them does not work out and he wanted to work it out with me.... i love him so much....i dont want to lose him... but he's married... probably he loves her coz they been to a relationship for so long... but i can feel he loves me too... should i wait until he's clean..or should i forget him and move on?.. i was really kind of disappointed with him coz i made plans of getting marry with him.... unfortunately he was already married with out me knowing i was so stupid...i jz dont knw till wen i cn w8

2007-04-08 16:51:10 · 26 answers · asked by crazy4bess 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a stay at home mom so my husband is the only one that works. He has to ok everything I buy, but yet he spends money on whatever he wants and says it's ok because he makes all the money.I don't think it's fair but he doesn't care. Anyone have any advice?

2007-04-08 16:42:29 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-08 16:39:36 · 12 answers · asked by butterflyspy 5 in Singles & Dating

This is very important to me so please A honestly. Okay so this is the case: recently I broke-up with my boyfriend because I'm ALMOST sure that he has cheated on me + with more than 1 girl! I got mad but not very because I don't kno 4 sure that this happened. He is denying it all the way + even worse is making me feel guilty
4 not believing him! its been a week sense we broke-up + yesterday, we kept acting more and more like friends. IT REALLY BOTHERS ME! i wonder if he's just using me because he thinks that i still like him. just a month ago my close girlfriend had the same thing happen to her! a+ she now KNOWS that her boyfriend did cheat! R ALL GUYS LIKE THIS?!! were all in high school if youre wondering the age. the thing that im wondering about the monst is whether or not i should be friends with him! I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!

2007-04-08 16:37:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do i tell her

2007-04-08 16:35:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm asking because i know that some states force parents to continue to pay child support because hes been taking care of her for so long now.... we live in north carolina

2007-04-08 16:35:14 · 13 answers · asked by anita e 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

how would you deal with it in a mature way?

2007-04-08 16:34:46 · 8 answers · asked by shakti 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I would ask him, but he is a very traditionalman, and would not have It.......

He tells me all the tiome that he wants me to be his wife and wantsd me to have his children, but he wont take the next step of asking me. its not money, we have enough. I ask him why he hasn't, but he jiust laughs me of and makes a joke about me being clucky etc. We hav ebeen together on and of for 9 years, and Im getting a little tired of waiting. What do I do? I couldn't be a more loving and well behaived g/f

2007-04-08 16:28:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend have been together for 7 months. We've been fighting for the past month. I spoke to him, telling him I'm trying to hard to make him happy etc. It ended with me trying not to cry, saying "I just don't know what to do anymore".At that moment, he told me, “I love you so much. I care about you more then anything. But, I don't want to." Then I bursted into tears. Him, seeing me cry, started crying himself, and held me tight. He looked me in the eyes, and told me, holding the necklace I gave him within the first week of going out, (When I gave it to him, he told me the day he takes it off, is the day he'll stop loving me.) "No matter what happens, I'm never taking this off." Ever since then, it's been almost two weeks, and we haven't been happier. We aren't fighting, and things seem better then ever. It now seems, I'm chasing him. It seems as if I'm putting out all the effort for us to see each other.
How do I get him to Chase me like he used to?

2007-04-08 16:25:48 · 18 answers · asked by Nina 1 in Singles & Dating

I kno you cant help who you love, but this is kinda tearing the family apart. what should be done?

2007-04-08 16:24:12 · 9 answers · asked by Shamir 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-08 16:22:04 · 10 answers · asked by brwneyes 1 in Family

i try geting her ready and everything but she always say tomarrow. man i think this may tear our marrige appart, what am i doing wrong. help me ladys and tell me what you would want a man to do. i want it every other day. but i can give it every day. fa real dont think im playing. i need help with this

2007-04-08 16:21:16 · 22 answers · asked by name 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just learned today that the woman he has been seeing, who is 33 years old, has been married and divorced three times.

2007-04-08 16:21:08 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-08 16:18:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I want to send my boyfriend a text message that will make him anxious to come to me all day. I want something a lot naughty but with some taste!!

2007-04-08 16:12:53 · 1 answers · asked by KyHusslin' 1 in Singles & Dating

I have had this male friend since childhood and true we did have a boyfrined girlfriend relationship once but not now. My boyfriend of 3 years does not agree with me being friends with him, he says it would have been ok to be friends if we did not have a intimate relationship, but we did I can't change that. What views do you guys take on this?

2007-04-08 16:12:16 · 4 answers · asked by Mzlottathis 1 in Singles & Dating

What does it mean when girls staring at a guy blanky (by blankly, I mean just stare at you with no emotion and doesn't greet you or do anything to catch your attention) as he walks by them? Just want to know?

2007-04-08 16:06:46 · 10 answers · asked by Giant Donut 2 in Singles & Dating

my sons dad pays child suport, he called me and said they took alot of his tax return money for child suport, will i get any of it?

2007-04-08 16:05:57 · 9 answers · asked by scooby91099 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm putting this question up again because I only got 1 response and I need different people's opinions on this.
After a long time I saw this girl again at my friends house and things were going ok. So now I've been talking to her online, and again everything seems to be going well and she seems to have some interest in me.
I haven't said anything to her about going out or anything yet. I wanna do it exactly right. This girl is really cocky she has turned down every guy that I know.

1- What should I do? Should I tell her to go out with me in a cocky manner? Should I wait?

2- I'm leaving the country in 3 weeks but will be back in 2-3 months. Is there a way to keep her interested in me until I come back?

2007-04-08 16:02:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2 different times with different girls my friend was having sex and the girls thought that they were climaxing but really they peed on him...does anyone know why that happened.

2007-04-08 16:02:22 · 5 answers · asked by mama 1 in Friends

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 months now but we've been best friends for a year. Everytime we are together we are always hugging and kissing (we aren't sexually active). We will be at dinner, talking, walking, whatever, we are constantly holding hands, hugging and kissing. We have an amazing physical and mental chemistry. We see each other at least every day for a few hours, and also work together and as soon as we part ways I miss him. It's like we never get tired of each other and I know many think "oh the honeymoon period" but I'm absolutely crazy about him and I know I love him. He tells me he loves me all the time...and I do in return. Is this abnormal or crazy or unhealthy??? Opinions much appreciated!! Thanks! :)

(I'm 20, he's 25) --- we aren't teenie boppers LOL...that's why I ask, is this crazy?

2007-04-08 16:02:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships