2007-04-08 16:39:36 · 12 answers · asked by butterflyspy 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes... I married him. We have 2 kids and have been married for 7 yrs (together 8). We had feelings for each other it's just that we didn't want to let the other know it..... so we played oit off all cool like it was sex with no strings attached and we could date whoever we wanted. 2 months later we were attached at the hip and have been that way since.
2007-04-08 16:44:01 · answer #1 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends with benefits, my foot! You're being used.
LATER: The more I think about this, the more it upsets me. Basically, what you're saying is that you're thinking about having a purely physical relationship with someone in the hopes that you can turn it into something lasting. You are better than that! You don't want a guy who's willing to take advantage of you like that. Look for a real man.
2007-04-08 16:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by Terri J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All these sayings are ridiculous. Ya know like "why buy the milk if your cow is pregnant". Whatever...friends with benefits is cool as long as it's a mutual deal. Sometimes it evolves into more, but this also has to happen mutually.
2007-04-08 16:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by nole6820 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two years ago my friends with benefits guy told me he had more feelings for me than what we were just doing. Unfortunattly every time we hooked up we were drunk and when we tried the real thing it lasted about three months, we got to know eachother on a deeper level and we were not compatable.
2007-04-08 16:43:59 · answer #4 · answered by kittycatblue1986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no I haven't personally but I have had friends who have ended up in this type of situation and for the most part it is good being friends before I think. not in every relationship but the better you know your lover the better your relationship. eventually in an ideal relationship you want to be best friends with your partner. but don't forget about your other friends you need them sometimes.
2007-04-08 16:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by Bonnie K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO!
Hmmm. Two people getting together for strictly self-serving, sexual reasons and agreeing to have side relationships, then deciding to have a go-at-it monogamously.
Oh yes, this sounds like it is BUILT TO LAST.
2007-04-08 16:43:49 · answer #6 · answered by DaMan 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yep - me and my current partner have been together 10 months now after being friends for 2 years - the sexual attraction creeped up on us slowly. we now live together and plan on starting a family and getting married soon. : )
2007-04-08 16:43:14 · answer #7 · answered by Frankie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are friends with benefits???
2007-04-08 16:42:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but it didnt work out.Hope yours will good luck
2007-04-08 16:44:05 · answer #9 · answered by freddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happens all the time. and it last a long time. good for you.
2007-04-08 16:42:38 · answer #10 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋