Family & Relationships - 8 April 2007

I have a friend who will cancel plans with me the very last minute. to the point where i already took a train to meet her somewhere. I had a huge talk with her about how this hurts me as a friend and makes me feel like she doesnt care. She promised not to do it again.. The next week, she begged me everyday to go to a concert with her. I finally said ok.. She called me 20 minutes before we were going to meet saying she was sick and cant go..... I went alone like a loser.
I didnt even say anything this time, have not gotten back to her in 2 months, should i just forget her as a friend?

2007-04-08 19:00:22 · 15 answers · asked by tbo 1 in Friends

ok so me and my bf can talk to hours and hours non stop in person.but when we are IMing we barely have anything to say...we talk a little but then there's just a sudden stop...why is that? im so confused!! im on vacation and so i get on to talk to him and he gets on to talk to me...we talk for like 15 mins then stop...its weird..because when i am back home he's always with me..and i mean always!PS>we live in africa.im n burundi on vacation and he is living in rwanda,thats also where i live,we r teenagers,we live out here with our parents..he's candaian and im american. please help!

2007-04-08 18:59:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so this guy I know whom I consider an acquaintance keeps asking me to go out with him. We only started 'really' talking on msn messenger a few months ago. I'm a bit wary of him since he asked me if I would like to have a 'friends with benefits' type relationship with him during our first conversation. I told him I wasn't really like that, especially since I hardly know him at all but agreed to meet up with him for lunch one day, but couldn't make it due to family commitments. This was a fair few months ago, and he's still calling incessantly trying to get me to go out with him.

My question to you is: if sex is really all he wants, why doesn't he get it from someone who's willing to give it to him; no questions asked? I just want to know why he's so persistent?

2007-04-08 18:59:12 · 4 answers · asked by Hayley_x 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-08 18:58:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-08 18:58:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-08 18:53:59 · 6 answers · asked by Jon 3 in Friends

I'm 27 and have been married for 3 years. We both have very well paid jobs and would be able to give any child the best of everything. Problem is I don't like children, never have never will and my husband knew that from the start. He told me he was more than willing to give up having children if it meant spending the rest of his life with me. We’ve taken every precaution possible short of doing something permanent which my doctor said was out of the question given my age and the fact that I haven’t had children, to make sure we don't get pregnant but here I am 6 weeks pregnant. I don't want this baby. It’s going to ruin everything, all my hopes and dreams for the future going down the drain. I feel like I'm being punished. He told me that me aborting would be the one thing he would never be able to get past since he considers this baby a miracle given that it was conceived against all odds. What happened to for better or worse? My parents and my best friend who's been trying to conceive for the last 5 years think I'm being incredibly selfish, but they're not the ones who'll have to deal with a screaming baby when it arrives. Adoption is out of the question because my husband refuses to let someone else raise his child when he’s perfectly capable of doing so himself. Having the baby, divorcing him and letting him raise it is out of the question for me because of the way everyone including my friends and family will look at me for abandoning my child when I never wanted it in the first place. Why can't anyone accept my decision? Why should I have to lose everything because of a baby I never wanted in the first place?

2007-04-08 18:51:41 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-08 18:50:11 · 8 answers · asked by Becca 6 in Singles & Dating

what do women want out of a marriage?

2007-04-08 18:49:06 · 14 answers · asked by John or jedi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i knew a girl couple years back but we lost touch. we see each other once or twice a year and have polite conversation. i see her 2 day and she said i should come over for cofee/tea (its a polish thing). she tells me that i never call her and i should. i ask if she got the same number and she said she does. her boyfriend came at the same time as i was checking her number and i felt weird. i had 2 leave anyway. should i call her or text her? and if i should, how long do i wait?

2007-04-08 18:47:52 · 4 answers · asked by Many Questions 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a middle school girl. I have the biggest crush on one of my friends. I cant get him out of my head. His name is Brian and he is my age, same grade, and everything. He is smart,cute,funny,nice hair,nice eyes, great hair, and he has the best personality. One of the best things is that he likes me. Even though he knows i like him and i know he likes me we still havent became more than friends. That is because we are way to shy to do anything. I dont have anything like his e-mail,myspace, or what ever because i am to shy to well ask for anything. So is he. I have tried asking him out but it never works i back out at the last second. I have tried notes but never had the courage to go through with it and give it to him. I know it may sound stupid but i even dream about him. Not day dream but actual dreaming i just cant get him out of my head. What do i do? I am so confused i need some help.
your answers will be very appriciated

2007-04-08 18:42:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-08 18:40:43 · 11 answers · asked by tolentino03@sbcglobal.net 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My gf is pregnant and she is eight months and we are mot married or anything so the church is threatning me to be banned if i have anoother kid, or if i get my gf knocked up agine she will kick me out of the house i am going to ty to switch wards or go to an differant church or should i just stop going to church?????

2007-04-08 18:40:35 · 10 answers · asked by foxyfarther88 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a middle school girl. I have the biggest crush on one of my friends. I cant get him out of my head. His name is Brian and he is my age, same grade, and everything. He is smart,cute,funny,nice hair,nice eyes, great hair, and he has the best personality. One of the best things is that he likes me. Even though he knows i like him and i know he likes me we still havent became more than friends. That is because we are way to shy to do anything. I dont have anything like his e-mail,myspace, or what ever because i am to shy to well ask for anything. So is he. I have tried asking him out but it never works i back out at the last second. I have tried notes but never had the courage to go through with it and give it to him. I know it may sound stupid but i even dream about him. Not day dream but actual dreaming i just cant get him out of my head. What do i do? I am so confused i need some help.
your answers will be very appriciated

2007-04-08 18:38:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was at my boyfriends house im there like all the time,and most of the time were there alone all the time cuz his mom is at work/and dad and his sisiter is gone to hang out with her friends!!!but we have kissed alot!!!and well im ready to french,we tried it once but i said i was'nt ready like all we did was stick our tounges in each others mouths.....but im ready now and really want to do it!!!!!!but i just want some tips!!!or maybe if u could give me a site that may help me anything would be nice!!!!!!

2007-04-08 18:35:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been ranked unkissable just because I like to play softball. I don't want to change, but I want to have at least one boyfriend here before I move this summer. What do I do?

2007-04-08 18:32:11 · 11 answers · asked by squirm325 2 in Singles & Dating

i dont know why but today when my b/f and me were watching a music video of mya he was saying she was pretty and had a nice body and dances good and he just was saying alot things and he would look at me and say baby shes just a singer i dont know but i started getting a lil jealous cuz i felt like i didnt have wat she had so yeah why do girls get like this? i sometimes do the same like i say thing about chris brown or akon or bow owo and i guess i know how my b/f felt now but i shouldnt be getting jealous over a singer just cuz my b/f thinks they are attractive but i still do why???

2007-04-08 18:31:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Please help me. i am only 17 and english is not my base language.and add more if you want . i am a amature photographer and want to send this mail to all of my friend.

thanks for your help.

dear rians

hope you are fine. beauty is very true and very hard to capture.
Most of the time I miss all the scenario what I want to capture by my camera.
here I tried little. India is a very nice country. And the sights are very beautiful.
i aslo believe you will agree with me. and please send me your photo comments on it.


thanks,
sonali

2007-04-08 18:28:49 · 3 answers · asked by golden_dream 1 in Family

What are some signs that you are in a girl's "friend zone"?

What are some ways to get out of it? Thanks. Help is greatly appreciated.

2007-04-08 18:27:42 · 3 answers · asked by Nice guy 1 in Singles & Dating

a 27 year old guy asked me out last night...I told him i was 17 and he said it didnt bother him, he's really cute and very sweet and said we'd go see the new Will Ferrell movie "Blades of Glory" and thats all, I know he's alot older but if we're just going to a movie its not bad, right? Should I go? Im still debating

2007-04-08 18:27:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

By previous BF pushed me down the stairs..and now I am scared to see other guys. i like another guy but I told him I couldn't see him because I was still scared and didn't feel safe..was I wrong...The guy is really nice and I send him a care box every month he is in the army...and I told him I really wanted to see him but I am still scared.

2007-04-08 18:25:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when i go through a breakup or need to turn someone down, i would tell them that. But why do guys do this "ignoring you" thing as a way of breaking up? is it another girl ? i know i didnt do anything wrong

2007-04-08 18:22:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-08 18:21:03 · 25 answers · asked by drs3sk8 2 in Singles & Dating

I wrote it for someone. Be honest please. I don't know how else to tell her...

Saying I don't care,
Then I have to take it back.
Because deep inside I know
With you I'm right on track
You walk around these halls,
And you're hanging by a thread.
You're trying not to show it
But I know you're feeling dead.
Someone tell me why
You do these things you do.
I'm falling out of grace today,
I'm still not over you.
I wish that I could just erase
All the pain you cause.
I'm fabricating such an act
My life deserves applause.
My hero is all you were.
I look at you and I concur,
Either you love me like before
Or I'm convincing myself even more,
That you miss me more than I do.
But the fact is here
I'm never gonna be over you.
You're in my mind with each second passed.
I'd always thought our love would last.
Such bitter words escape my mouth
Because it's you I'm thinking all about.
So I hear your voice or I see your face
And your memory can't be replaced.
(see more)

2007-04-08 18:20:15 · 8 answers · asked by Mitch 1 in Singles & Dating

whats so bad about a 16 y/o wanting to be with a guy whos a little older. they are so much more mature, much better kissers, and can drive and spend more money. I dont see why parents make such a big deal. he is so hot and I dont see it as a big deal

2007-04-08 18:13:19 · 14 answers · asked by ~*SkAnDaLoUz*~ 1 in Singles & Dating

We were together for 5 years, she started ignoring me, 2 years ago, for someone else, and didn't tell me anything about his new bf. She started affair with new bf. For him, she ignore me, and also don't want to talk me, and didn't want to see my face. She never told me about her new bf. But Now she come back to me, by saying that she was with him, just as a good friend, But her friends are saying that they are in love. Now she wants to with me. What should I have to do. I am really guilt of myself that I have trust her, She was my first love, How did she cheat with me, that type of game.

2007-04-08 18:10:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he called me and we talked for awhile of course i made him laugh...and smile..and he asked him if i would come get him and he can come over to my house chill whatever (we just started messing around)..and i was like no i got school tommorow and he was like yeah i do too i was just playing. I dont think he was playing because if i would of said yes he would have came lol u know. so did i hurt his ego cuz i know thats a really big thing with guys....and i dont want him to not call me no more. cuz i think i like him

2007-04-08 18:07:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I always go out with guyz you are jerks!! what do i do find the right guy.???

2007-04-08 18:07:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-08 18:05:26 · 16 answers · asked by marissa w 2 in Singles & Dating

Please help my bezzie is getting hitched!!!

2007-04-08 18:04:19 · 7 answers · asked by charlotte m 2 in Marriage & Divorce