a 27 year old guy asked me out last night...I told him i was 17 and he said it didnt bother him, he's really cute and very sweet and said we'd go see the new Will Ferrell movie "Blades of Glory" and thats all, I know he's alot older but if we're just going to a movie its not bad, right? Should I go? Im still debating
2007-04-08 18:27:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's too old . . . there are lots of single guys your age who would love to go out with you. Ten years is a big gap at your age. Good night!
2007-04-08 18:40:08 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I think you are really playing with fire. Technically, you shouldn't consider dating this guy until you are 18. Failing to wait until then could really cause some big time issues if your parents or friends knew how old this guy really is.
Also, what weirds me out is that a 27 year old has the desire to start a relationship with a 17 year old.
Aside from that, I KNOW you are mature for a 17 year old, however, a relationship like this, at your age, is just inappropriate. You should be hanging out with and dating people your own age. You've got a lot of things to experience still in life and you should experience these things with people in your own age bracket.
I hope it helps...
2007-04-08 18:35:54 · answer #2 · answered by Talkstress 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you 're going to have enough time to do mistakes,don't start now.Focus on getting yourself together,so when slimeballs like him come along you'll know you don't need them.I gaurantee you'll have more fun at the movies with a few friends. The fact that he is willing to date a 17yr old should tell you he probably isn't even mature or worthy of someone his own age.He will only become your problem if you let him.I say boot him and let him be someone elses headcase. ENJOY YOUR YOUTH!
2007-04-08 18:38:17 · answer #3 · answered by veronica h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to bring you down here, but just currious, why isn't this guy out chasing women more his own age? That question alone should throw up some red flags, and you should be extremely cautious in situations like that.
2007-04-08 18:32:44 · answer #4 · answered by hiller128 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok sweetie,I don't wanna sound like your parents or anything but you really gotta becareful with older guys,they usally have one thing on there minds.I know your almost an adult and you should already know whats wrong or right.Just becareful because he is alot older then you.If your parents are ok with it then go for it but make sure you have someone know where your going and who he is,just for safety reason -k-...Just stay safe and be careful....Have fun and good luck...
2007-04-08 18:39:22 · answer #5 · answered by carmel_cutie26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him first "Why are you bringing me to the movies?" If he's bringing you to a date then maybe you should not go.
He's too old for you.
Seriously.
10 years age gap? No way for me.
2007-04-08 18:32:47 · answer #6 · answered by Andrien 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know i say go but make sure you have a ride there and a ride back just in case he's weird and sketchy. Also, make sure you tell a friend your situation and tell her to kinda check in on you or make occasional bathroom breaks to call her...Good luck!
2007-04-08 18:30:53 · answer #7 · answered by MichiganRocks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are jail bait, and honestly, any guy that age looking for a teenage girl has something seriously wrong with him.
Do not go out with this guy.
2007-04-08 18:31:00 · answer #8 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
two words.. "restraining order".. thats what u need 2 protect u from the pedafile!! or a b/f ur own age, will work 2.
2007-04-08 18:35:13 · answer #9 · answered by Britt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad idea. dont go with him. really think about it? when he was learning 2 add and subtract u were born. the guy cant get a girl his own age. forget about him.
2007-04-08 18:40:45 · answer #10 · answered by Many Questions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋