I am a middle school girl. I have the biggest crush on one of my friends. I cant get him out of my head. His name is Brian and he is my age, same grade, and everything. He is smart,cute,funny,nice hair,nice eyes, great hair, and he has the best personality. One of the best things is that he likes me. Even though he knows i like him and i know he likes me we still havent became more than friends. That is because we are way to shy to do anything. I dont have anything like his e-mail,myspace, or what ever because i am to shy to well ask for anything. So is he. I have tried asking him out but it never works i back out at the last second. I have tried notes but never had the courage to go through with it and give it to him. I know it may sound stupid but i even dream about him. Not day dream but actual dreaming i just cant get him out of my head. What do i do? I am so confused i need some help.
your answers will be very appriciated
2007-04-08 18:42:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try to become good friend with him, i mean those who can share everything in mind, but not in relationship first...
it'll be easier for you to speak out if you're close enough, an you can get know of him better than current state!
2007-04-08 19:00:49 · answer #1 · answered by Blur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm middle school love lol..well if you like him that much you have to tell him. Put your shyness aside and ask him. If your that shy write him a note and stay home sick that day and have your friend drop it in his locker or something. I know it sounds dumb but yeah thats all I really got! And if your afraid that he will say no, dont be. Because if he does, hes not worth it.No matter what you think. Dont worry about it okay, not matter what it'll all go good in the end okay? :-) if you need any other help or anything email me parodyxofxlove@yahoo.com k? anyways good luck with that
2007-04-09 01:49:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
School days are meant for studies. Keep up the friendship, but don't push it any further unless you want to gethurt in the future.The more a boy is seen as desirable, the more the number of girls who want to be around him. If he has not troubled you with boyish calf love tactics, know that he is decent boy and you can wait for him until college studies get over. Remain friends so that he will be able to include you in his range of choices if and when he is ready for marriage. If you need to marry early, at that stage you can sound him out for opinion
2007-04-09 01:56:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if it's meant to be then things will happen. Middle school is a time when relationships can change very quickly. Who knows if you'll even like that boy next month! I would just wait it out and don't get too attached to one boy. And also, just try and be friends with this Brian kid at first. It's much better to get to know someone than to jump right into dating him and have it be awkward. (Trust me, it's happened to me) Good luck!
2007-04-09 01:51:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem...and now I have a bf!! Try saying this to him when you guys are alone:
"Hey! can i talk to you for a minute?, I really like you and i was hoping that you would maybe like to come with me to get an ice-cream?" (you don't have to get an ice-cream obviously, but you could also ask if he wants to go to the Movies with a few of your friends or something)." If you're too shy to actually talk to him in person, try a note and just put it in his locker or his notebook or something. you could say something like:
"hey, would you consider ever going out with me? i really like you and i was hoping you liked me too?" Good luck! and remember, the worst thing he can do is say no! <3
2007-04-09 01:58:44 · answer #5 · answered by **BootyBabe** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess u r way too young to get in to such matter called 'love'. it doesnt actually happen at such an early age.. Just move on with ur life. u will find a better guy when u understand what love is..
2007-04-09 01:56:30 · answer #6 · answered by MOKSHA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he have a locker..... do you have a locker.... why dont you write a letter to him and put it in his locker if he has one .... and see if you will get one in your locker back from him.....once you have sent letter to each other then you can try and talk to each other... both of u souldnt be shy of one another your both people.
it is hard being shy but you have to come out of your sheel and see the world you know he likes you and he knows you like him take a big breath i know you will be nearvous at frist but once you both get to talking you wont be shy anymore..
i hope i have helped if you need any more help just leave me a message on your page for me
2007-04-09 01:52:50 · answer #7 · answered by badgirlforlife007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stphny, It is simple. Be part of the same project, were both can interact as a matter of fact manner. Became friend first!
2007-04-09 01:57:30 · answer #8 · answered by Jorge T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have one your girl friends talk for you, have her pass the note. Or just get over the shy stuff and ask him. Go for what you want girl!
2007-04-09 01:48:13 · answer #9 · answered by Ms.Midwest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, just talk to him. I mean what do you have to lose? He likes you meaning he would already say yes. All you gotta do is find the words to express your feelings. If you want to ask him out, simply go up to him and say will you go out with me.
It's hard, but once you spit it out, it's a huge relief.
And he'll more than likely say yes, especially because he likes you!
=)
2007-04-09 01:47:53 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋